Family & Relationships - 16 July 2007

2007-07-16 16:57:19 · 10 answers · asked by C C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister used to say that all the time. I just read an answer to a post that reminded me of that. I've also heard alot of women say that. I personally think it depends on how much he cares about you. What do you think???

2007-07-16 16:56:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he hasn't asked me out but we been talking for the past three weeks . The first week we went to the moives and The second week we just talked on the phone for a little bit and the third week we started talking everyday for 2 hours and we saw each other again he stopped me and but he arms around my waist and said i been wanting to kiss you all night and he also told me he wouldn't be here with me if he didn't like me. We started hands and everything and b/c he working for a week were going to be able to see each other intill next week he told me that he would buy me a present and he said that all he wanted to do was see me. So what are we i'm so confused?

2007-07-16 16:54:24 · 14 answers · asked by hellokool 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-16 16:47:22 · 16 answers · asked by lovelydol 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Now that the kids have grown and pretty much left home and it's just she, myself and and the cat, I find that I've grown rather uncomfortable around my wife. The silence sometimes is almost deafening. Our interests are quite disimilar, and the fact that we don't nor really ever have had much in common doesn't make for very good conversation. And, I might add, the sex has become practically non existent, which only seems to compound the problem. This is, in a nutshell, is my problem. It's really considerably more complicated than this, but there just isn't the time or the space here for all the details. In short, I really don't know what to do. Any suggestions? Twenty six and a half years, I fear, are about to go down the drain unless a solution can be found. Thank you all in advance for whatever you might be able to contribute.

2007-07-16 16:45:40 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it, that people I barely know always feel the need to tell others "about" me in front of me- when they really have no clue who I am or what I do. (in all honesty- most of the time they are completely off wack). Why make things up about people? Why not a) actually get to know them, or b) say nothing- until you actually know what you are talking about?

2007-07-16 16:41:49 · 7 answers · asked by breezy 3 in Friends

He's 25. He's had a crush on me for the past 3 years, but because I was extremely, shy, busy with school and work i turned him down when he asked me twice and avoided him. I really do like him and realize the error of my ways and I want to try again, but he isn't being cooperative. I try to be friendly, smile, approach, start conversation but he is extremely nervous around me, help.

2007-07-16 16:38:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what is more attractive in a girl?

1.) height
a:shorter than you
b:taller than you

2.) skin color
a: light skinned
b:tanned

3.)eye color
a:brown
b:blue
c:green

4.)hair color
a:red
b:brown
c:blonde

5.) hair length
a:short
b:shoulder length
c:long

6)sense of style
a:preppy
b:slutty
c:classy
d:good girl/modest
e:punk/goth

7)assets
a:small boobs
b:big butt
c: big boobs
d:small butt

8)lips
a:thin
b:thick

9)weight
a:super skinny
b:the same weight as you
c:curvier

10)personality
a:funny
b:reserved
c:stupid
d:smart

11)make-up
a:all dolled up
b:all natural

12) hair texture
a:superrr tight curls
b:waves
c:strait

13)hair style
a:bangs
b:angles/layers
c:plain-jane

14)hair styles cont.
a:ponytail
b:down

15)what is sexier?
a:a girl in heels
b:a girl in flats


fun quiz! xox

2007-07-16 16:37:46 · 13 answers · asked by love_summer_0408 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-16 16:35:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am so lonley my husband never shows me any affection and when I ask him hwat the hell is up and tell him how it makes me feel real bad he acts like I am crazy he is really anice guy and sweet as can be just mean to me and on top of all this I mena I lilterally just got married last week and I thought newlyweds like have sex all the time so what is up I mena other people hit on me all the time and like would do anything to hae sex with me but still this si my husband the only one Iwant to be with so it ruins my self esteem what shoul dI do?

2007-07-16 16:34:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like my best friends sister and she has a bf thats in jail and we are friends but we have feelings for each other you know but we are not dating i love her to death and she knos it but wut should i do we are goin to the movies this weekend should i try to make out wit her or wut ?? PLEASE serious answers

2007-07-16 16:34:06 · 14 answers · asked by robby s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-16 16:31:47 · 7 answers · asked by thunderonroad 1 in Singles & Dating

I am hes my friend but I will fight someone for him I like him

2007-07-16 16:18:15 · 11 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 in Singles & Dating

We have 2 beautiful children together. he doesn't want me to work. He say's my responsibilities are to our children and he will take care of us financilly. Which he is at the time. what can i do legally to assure i am titled to some of our finances in the future, if we should split up? He calls me his wife and i call him my husband. We've been together for 6years. I am not trying to get out or get his$$. .. i just want to make sure me and my 2 kids are secured in th future if anything should happened. (I sense he is doing somthing behind my back)

2007-07-16 16:11:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok guys, I need to know how to get a guys attention and keep it. My dad says that I come off a little strong, and I've tried to work on that. I think I've improved but still need a little work. So what do you guy look for in a girl?

2007-07-16 16:10:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do women get turned on by two men together as much as men do about two women together?

2007-07-16 16:08:07 · 17 answers · asked by Group836 3 in Singles & Dating

So, here is my dilemma...
A friend of mine...who I have known for years recently got engaged. She picked 7 bridesmaids and he picked 7 groomsmen. I however, was not asked to be in the wedding. No big deal didn't really phase me. It's her wedding not mine. Here is the problem. For the past month she has been calling me complaining about one of her bridesmaids and has since kicked her out of the 7. Now she wants me to be the 'replacement'. That is just not the way I want to be asked to be in a wedding., especially by a good friend who I have known for almost 10 years. I guess I feel like our relationship was strong enough that she’d ask me over someone she has only known for 7 months. She has never been one to make the best decisions and to be honest I have my doubts about there even being a wedding. On the other hand...how do you turn that down? Or, do I just suck it up and be in the wedding?
Thanks in advance everyone.

2007-07-16 16:00:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

we went out for a while and then we broke up .. but he tells me he wants me back and that he doesnt know why he broke up with me and that he thought about me while with his girlfriend .. but he wont exactly tell me if he likes me .. i even ask him and he ignores tha question .. so does he?

2007-07-16 15:52:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were together for two years. We were very serious. Our relationship certainly had its ups and downs. I know logically that I can never be with him again. The man has a lot of issues. I still care for him though, and have a hard time letting go. Since I broke up with him, he has become worse. On one hand, he is going out of his way to do nice things for me to prove himself. On the other hand, he is disregarding my request that he leave me alone, and threatening guys who try to date me. I try to be firm, but whenever I have a momment of weakness, he is there to give me whatever I want. When I broke up with him, I had hoped that we could be friends, but that obviously didn't work...he constantly tries to get with me and threatens anyone else who does. I don't want to hurt him, and I don't want to hurt myself more by having to completely wipe him out of my life, but his actions lately have been crazy/stalkerish. What do I do?

2007-07-16 15:50:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-16 15:50:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-16 15:50:06 · 26 answers · asked by jessika s 2 in Weddings

I'm in tears right now becuase of a fight my mom and I are having.

I'm pregnant and temporarily living with her.

These ex friends of mine were knocking on my window the other night and I went outside to ask them to leave because I was tired and we decided a while back we didn't want to associate with each other anymore. One of the 6 that were there threatened to kick my ***, I went in my house and called the police.

My mom told me to handle it myself, and she didn't even try to console me.

The police warned them if they didn't leave me alone charges would be filed.

Well today I tried venting about it to my mom, and she actually started blaming me for what happened and so I talked over her so she'd listen. I was hurt and scared and she said, "Well I looked at the window and you looked like you were chatting with friends."

I said, "I was in shock! They told me they wanted to beat me up!"

And she said, "Well with your personality who doesn't?"

Any advice?

2007-07-16 15:34:55 · 8 answers · asked by Mikki Lynn Breisch 2 in Family

how would you like your girlfriend to keep things fresh and exciting? i know most girls like the chase that comes with dating but how do we keep that still going once we get in a rhythm of regular s** and dates?

2007-07-16 15:32:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No one understands the way my heart feels, what i think, Who I am, I Just Want To Be Me! I Want To be loved. I want to be understood by someone out there.

2007-07-16 15:31:59 · 11 answers · asked by light_killing_shadow 1 in Friends

My dad has a hernia in his stomach he has had it for about like 3 years and now it hurts so bad he says but he said he has no money to go take it out and he said he is so stressed he whould take it out himself im scared i dont know what could i do he doesnt listen :[[[. what coul happen if this goes on?

2007-07-16 15:29:21 · 1 answers · asked by Jay b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

so theres this guy who i meet in college last september i really liked him but i started treated him bad just because i like to play hard to get. We would hang out all the time at school but wouldnt go out on the weekends. i hanged out with him a few times and the ones that i did he asked me when i was going to be his girlfriend twice on different days. im confused. He invited me to his little brothers birthday party and he was kissing me but he was drunk. Also at the party he came up to me put me in the spot and asked me to dance with him in front of everyone i said no because i supposably dont know how to dance i was embarrassed his whole family was there!!! he was mad at me i felt bad! he still remembers and tells me i should of slepted over. i still talk to him but not often maybe like twice a month and i've known him for about 11 months now some feelings are still there but i dont know what does this mean?

2007-07-16 15:28:06 · 3 answers · asked by JACKIELOVE3 1 in Singles & Dating

I started dating a guy who seems almost too good to be true. He's everything i ever wanted in a boyfriend, but i don't have butterflies. I don't feel any spark. I'm not really atttracted to him. I'm not sure if there's chemistry. And I don't feel extra happy when i'm with him. He, on the other hand, really likes me, so i'm confused. Should i continue to date him and just give it time, or just break it off while we're not too deep?

2007-07-16 15:27:36 · 11 answers · asked by Melanie 3 in Singles & Dating

for me and mine, is You've got a way with me, by shania twain

2007-07-16 15:26:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

- BLONDE or BRUNETTE
- GREAT B.O.O.BS or GREAT B.U.TT
- TINY GIGGLES or EXPRESSIVE LAUGHS
- SKIRTS or DRESSES
- EYES or SMILE
- TEASING FLIRT or OBVIOUS INTEREST
- MASSAGES or COOKED MEAL
- FLIRTY TXT MESSAGES or PHONE CALLS
- OUTGOING/EXTROVERTED or SHY/INTROVERTED
- GLASSES or CONTACTS
- FUNNY or MAKES YOU LAUGH

Just curious....

2007-07-16 15:26:27 · 28 answers · asked by Madeline B. 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 12 and going to the 7th grade, but no one would believe i was. I'm short, I couldn't care less for boys or clothes or makeup whatsoever. I make *creatures*, doll-like things that I playwith, pretend games. I don't know what i'll do in middles school, what should i do? show my new friends the creatures, pretend they don't exist?

2007-07-16 15:24:52 · 12 answers · asked by Shiny_Stone 2 in Friends