so theres this guy who i meet in college last september i really liked him but i started treated him bad just because i like to play hard to get. We would hang out all the time at school but wouldnt go out on the weekends. i hanged out with him a few times and the ones that i did he asked me when i was going to be his girlfriend twice on different days. im confused. He invited me to his little brothers birthday party and he was kissing me but he was drunk. Also at the party he came up to me put me in the spot and asked me to dance with him in front of everyone i said no because i supposably dont know how to dance i was embarrassed his whole family was there!!! he was mad at me i felt bad! he still remembers and tells me i should of slepted over. i still talk to him but not often maybe like twice a month and i've known him for about 11 months now some feelings are still there but i dont know what does this mean?
2007-07-16 15:28:06 · 3 answers · asked by JACKIELOVE3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys are NOT as confusing as the person before me makes them seem. If a guy is telling you these things it's just a way for him to get closer to you to see if you're vibing off him, too. Guys enjoy intimacy just as much as girls when they're really into someone. Yes, they are more prone to "think with the wrong head," but if a guy is making all these references and throwing himself at you for an extended period of time, then he wants more than to just hook up with you. The best possible thing you could do, having not known this person for even more than a year, is to just sit down one day and tell him you think you should discuss your situation. What's the worst that can happen? If you haven't known him for that long I doubt there is much you can ruin in terms of a friendship, because it seems like he's already in the "i want to date you" mindset. If you talk it out and realize that he's really into you and you like him, too, then go for it! What do you have to lose? The guy has been hanging around you for as long as he has and still has the same feelings, so it's worth a shot. If the feelings aren't there, then oh, well. It just wasn't meant to be. If 11 months is enough for him to get over it and not want to date you anymore, then he wasn't worth it, or wasn't as into you as it seemed. That short of a span in time isn't enough to get over someone that you're really into, so if he's "over you," then he wasn't ever really THAT into you and was just being an ***.
2007-07-16 15:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by srv101284 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he was trying to make a commitment to you and you turned him down, not only did you turn him down but you rejected him in front of his whole family.
Face it, you ruined this relationship.
2007-07-16 22:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation!!
Guys are so confusing and so difficult to read!!
I'm guessing to just go with the flow!! ;)
2007-07-16 22:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋