i like my best friends sister and she has a bf thats in jail and we are friends but we have feelings for each other you know but we are not dating i love her to death and she knos it but wut should i do we are goin to the movies this weekend should i try to make out wit her or wut ?? PLEASE serious answers
2007-07-16 16:34:06 · 14 answers · asked by robby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she has a boyfriend in jail, she should dump that b@st@rd, liiiiike.... NOW! As for the best friend bit, I really don't have a clue... I mean, won't your friend get pissed if you go out with his sis? And what if you two break up? That can put your relationship with this girl on the line. Sure make out with her if you two feel that way about each other regardless of what other influences might suggest--just remember that you are doing this at your own expense!
<3 Jules
2007-07-16 16:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Diamonds_R_4Ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can say just continue to be friends, going out to the movies is fine. Just don't put a lot of feeling into her, because you got to remember she does have a boyfriend that in jail, that she probably will be with when he come out. Why make out with her, and use her like that, if she a person that you love, talk to her and find out it she feel the same way you feel about her, and see if she still have feeling for bf in jail and see if your can be come a couple, and not just a sex partner.
2007-07-24 22:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not push the relationship because if she loves this other guy in jail she will not tell you. And she can just be playing you until he is out. She needs someone now to console her and maybe thats what she wants you for right now. Let her tell you if the relationship is ended for her and her bf. When the boyfriend comes out someone is going to get hurt. Love dont die overnight.
2007-07-24 23:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by lizzy210 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you like more, your friend or your friend's sister? Going out with his sister will take away from your friendship. Face it, if you and his sister become bf/gf then I doubt you'll be going out with your friend and taking his sister along too...plus it will really seem weird for you to be kissing his sister in front of him.
Add to this the fact that she still thinks of the jailbird as being her boyfriend. What's up with that? If she's unwilling to dump the jailbird, then why would you want to go out with a woman who cheats on her boyfriend? Dude, wake up. Not only would you be risking a serious beating when her bf gets out of jail, but you'd be doing it for someone who probably isn't worth your time because what she's doing to him will probably happen to you...and you can't even go complain to your friend about it because he already stopped seeing you because you were going out with his sister.
Keep the friend, ignore the sister. Otherwise, take boxing lessons.
2007-07-24 07:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way! do not try and make out with her cause if she goes along with it, you would make her a cheater. If she has feelings for you than why doesn't she dump her no good, jailbird boyfriend? You should talk to her about this and if she doesn't dump her boyfriend for you, than you two should just be friends.
2007-07-24 23:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i read the other answers first if you don't want to lose your friend then you need to be very cautious but i would tell her how i feel if she feels the same way then sure make out but i wouldn't go any further unless shes willing to leave her boyfriend
2007-07-24 23:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by Danny Phantom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he boyfriend is in jail & she is still with him she must really care about him.
i know it might be hard to hear this from a 3rd party but i think you should NOT try to makeout with her.
she might get the wrong idea & think you dont care about how she feels towards her boyfriend.
i think you should wait until her and her bf break up then ask her to be your girlfriend.
2007-07-16 23:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
take her out. show her a good time, continue doing you.. LET HER CHOOSE what she wants to do.. make her feel comfortable in knowing you like her .. let her know the choice is hers..dont force anything on her.
2007-07-24 23:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by Jackofalltrades216 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is quiet simple you need to tell her how you feel tell her that her boyfriend is no good and he will just end up breaking her heat and of course you should make a move TELL HER HOW YOU REALLY FEEL ABOUT IT and see what she thinks.....
2007-07-24 22:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by awsomeness is my defenition 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and talk bout it with her and see if she likes you the same way you do her and and see what comes up
2007-07-24 22:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋