Family & Relationships - 16 July 2007

I had to rephrase, I meant if married. sorry.

2007-07-16 17:35:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

penis size? Would you exaggerate? I overheard my Chilean lover telling her friend when she was a bit-tipsy saying "everything's big in America!" and I knew what she was talking about (she was louder than she had thought and was covering her mouth speaking into the girls ear and I looked over at her and she quickly took her eyes off me so as not to suggest that she was talking about me), but I didn't understand why she'd tell her friend something like that. Before this we had agreed that we were only lovers for my short stay. Any suggestions? Do girls like to impress their friends, like a guy would tell his friends that he had gotten laid the previous night with a chick with big breasts?

2007-07-16 17:34:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I had sex in the shower yesterday. Ever since yesterday, she told me she has had a constant sensation to Pee. She said when she's Standing up she gets the sensation to pee, and also when she's sitting down. When she goes to pee, she doesn't have much to pee at all ... just a little. And also, it burns.

We can rule out std's since we are both std free. We're each other's firsts. It could be an infection of some sort? My only guess would be ... we had sex in the shower, so I might have pushed some of the water inside of her, which is bad isn't it? Anyone familiar with this problem please let me know. Also I would really appreciate it if I could have a link to a website that talks about it. I would love to read about it so I could calm her and help her.

Also, we had really really really rough sex like never before. Sorry to sound too unprofessional but for lack of better words, I pounded her extremely hard yesterday. It was the first time.

2007-07-16 17:32:55 · 22 answers · asked by Johnny_Jurassic 1 in Singles & Dating

Tonite I flew into my old hometown for a family reunion this weekend. I had dinner with my ex whom I am still very good friends with, even though we both now live on different coasts. I haven't seen him in 2.5 years so we had alot of catching up to do.
About an hour into dinner he starts talking about how his new wife won't have sex with him(she just gave birth 2 months ago). I told him he should talk to her about it but he feels he can't (I do remember her being a bit crazy and violent at times). He then started re-hashing how our sex life was amazing and if I would consider sleeping with him tonite. For the record I did not. I kindly asked that he bring me back home and to work things out with his wife.
My question for women is: Do you lose temporary interest after having a baby?
My question to men is: Would you cheat on your wife/girlfriend if you were in my ex's situation at home?

2007-07-16 17:32:09 · 6 answers · asked by caribbeansoulhoney 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a girlfriend. I went to the movies with my friends and met some girls there that invited us to their party. One of the girls and I went to a room and had sex. Afterwards we talked and then I never talked to her agian. I felt guilty for a couple of days. Did I cheat?

2007-07-16 17:30:23 · 16 answers · asked by Dylan M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I heard big women smell bad and have body odor. I am approx 50 lbs over weight, but I shower before I go to be being meticulous about washing with a washcloth between my legs and everywhere else. It takes me about 10 minutes to shower if I dont shave my legs. I also shower before work every morning and after I get off work.
What is your opinion about overweight people and body odor?

2007-07-16 17:29:27 · 40 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

I was at a carnival because it was some vacation and I was with my friends girlfriend. We looked at a ride where people were going up and down dangerously in some bouncehouse going every which way. Then I walked into a cabin where an old man with glasses was on a computer. He smiled at me and said I could borrow the room for free. I scaled the edge of the wall dangerously to enter every time I went in. Once I was in, I was looking out the window and there was a view of a beautiful land with mountains and everything. I was looking out and my friends girlfriend came over to me and had a very "turned-on" look on her face. She then started doing stuff to me that I find fetishy and exciting (I won't go into detail) I woke up with a big hard erection.
The weird thing is I already have a girlfriend, and when I woke up I still had all my feeling for her. And this girl in my dream I haven't even thought of in months; she just randomly popped up. I've never thought of her this way before either

2007-07-16 17:28:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-16 17:27:12 · 18 answers · asked by littlejamiebear 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

after ten years of being in a commited relationship.what is the best way to move on with my life.

2007-07-16 17:25:42 · 16 answers · asked by rodwrnr 3 in Marriage & Divorce

to her i love her like whoa she says i dont have no time for her and i give her all my time i dont even hang out with my friends any more cause of her what should i do and the simple little thing she gets fed up with any one and walks away from me and goes home and then calls me and ask me to forgive her and says she will never do it again and she as done it like 5 times what should i do

2007-07-16 17:25:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, when do kids start acting like teens? if they were 11 or 12, would u consider them a kid(like a little person) or a teen (like an older person)? Its kind of a mix right? What would u treat them like? Im just wondering...

2007-07-16 17:25:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

which girl is hotter and why?

adriana lima or angelina jolie?

ADRIANA:

BODY:
http://www.ugo.com/images/galleries/victoriassecret_girlfriends/adriana_1.jpg

FACE:
http://img147.rockyou.com/39/39417/39417007/39417007_d662c3c71158860261.jpg

ANGELINA:

BODY:
http://www.angelinajolie-fans.com/pics/angelina1.jpg

FACE:
http://hosted.ap.org/photos/C/CAMW10501090449-big.jpg

2007-07-16 17:24:02 · 18 answers · asked by love_summer_0408 1 in Singles & Dating

Over the years i always feel like a different person. I really don't know why but maybe it's because of all the things that happened in my life? Losing my best friend and some other friends too. I feel different every single year why do i feel so different?

2007-07-16 17:22:42 · 5 answers · asked by youngmec2008 3 in Friends

Spanish 26 my body is avarage(I don't care about that) smoker and love to talk about anything.
If interested in chating send me your msn or yahoo or I will love to hear from you with the reason why you did not want to be my friend.

2007-07-16 17:22:18 · 5 answers · asked by EZboy 1 in Friends

ok, my friend's ex-husband is getting out of prison soon. she had 2 kids with him, which both are very young. (3 and 6) he still has an equal ammount of custody over the kids. she has tried to go to a bunch of places to get custody over them but none will help her. how can she get full custody?
PS- i think she i filing for a restraint order, but we don't when it will be effective.

please help. we need suggestions. tyvm.

2007-07-16 17:20:42 · 9 answers · asked by Comicstorm 3 in Marriage & Divorce

so...me and my bf have been going out for almost 7 months...and i know that doesnt seem long..but it is considering were only teenagers...but for some reason i keep getting these feelings that im annoying him....and then today i kept getting this feeling that he would leave me for someone else...

but. i asked him about the annoying thing and this is what he said "no. no. your not anoying me. at all. i didnt mean to say or do anything to make you think that. so my bad if i did." and when i say i love him he says he loves me more...and i know he loves me...he treats me so nice...and he never does anything for me to doubt he loves me...so whats wrong with me...why do i keep thinking about **** like him leaving me?

am i mental?

2007-07-16 17:18:42 · 30 answers · asked by Jesi-lyn 2 in Singles & Dating

It was very awkward for me because a guy who liked me and I liked him and he asked me the awkward question if I am a virgin or not! I told him that I prefer not to answer that question then he got mad and said nothing! I didn't want to say anything just yet because it wasn't none of his business even though we weren't in relationship!

2007-07-16 17:17:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok i am getting merried but this hole prosses thing has becomed the worst nightmare because of mother

I am trying to please my mother and his family by getting merried through the church, but the priest wants me to be to go back in to my original state were he is so we could do it together like most couples do. The thing is that i cant go back because my mother wount let me go unless i am merried by the church. My mother is very religious and so is his parents. If i ever end up going back to my original state i would not have any place to live but his house. In wich he dosent mind cuz his brother lives there to. What scares me the most is that i love my parents and i want them to be there on the day of my wedding and wrost part is that my own mother has threten me that if i ever leave not to count with her sopport.

So what should i do?

2007-07-16 17:16:44 · 7 answers · asked by Araceli B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dated this person for 6 months. The first month has been a wonderful month till a month after we dated he became very violence. He doesn't like me dressed showing my skin l, he explain that he don't want anyone to look me and he think that its inappropriate that women dressed too sexy. It became dramatic that we verbally fought and one day came to physical fights. Just because my shirt was a V-neck (all the way up my neck). We both are stubborn! In all my relationship I've never been in any abusive one. I was mad I call for break up. He beg me back we got back I make him promise not to ever touch me again he promised. One thing lead to another just because I said someone in the movie look sexy he slap me so hard both of my cheeks bruised and beat till my whole body sore the next day. I call for break up once again I came back to him. We've talk about wanting to get marry have kids and a future we love each other very much, I don't want to let him go n don't want to get hurt.

2007-07-16 17:16:14 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is ten years old and her ears aren't peirced and parents are so strict.

2007-07-16 17:15:23 · 49 answers · asked by Jesse P 1 in Singles & Dating

im 15 and my best friend i known is moving to a different school. we went to central school for three years together. now she is going back to east school. we used to go there. were both 15. help! i miss her! she moved one month ago. i just received a letter in the mail by her. the note was so said. im even crying now. it said:

"there been some changes in my life that i want you to know about. i quit central and im going back to east where we had good times together. im going back yet i cant really go back. you can only move foward. thats what i hope to do and for you. as we both struggle to understand. yours always, kelsea."

what does she mean by she cant really go back? help! its sad!

2007-07-16 17:15:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend forgets to call me back alot. He seems to hate to talk to me on the phone. He is not very romantic. In the last year I can only think of one time he was romantic at all. He says he loves me like he means it and I'm starting to trust him. I know this sounds dumb but I feel really unspecial to him. I have for along time but I don't know how to explain it to him without him getting defensive.

2007-07-16 17:14:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some of em wanna hold you tight like it meant more than it did. the moment has passed, the stuff is ozzing out as we speak, i am now officially hungry and you seem alot less attractive now that i have some reason back.

Does this become a problem for you too?

2007-07-16 17:11:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Fi went to college but dropped out after 3 years. He didn't have enough money to finish. I graduated w/ a bachelor's degree and I'm pursuing a master's in education.

My closest and very well educated friend said she would never marry someone of less education. She asked me if I considered how our educational difference might cause tension in our marriage.

Of course, I never thought about this.

Should I? What tension might this cause?

2007-07-16 17:09:43 · 9 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Marriage & Divorce

has been married for 14 years to a woman who will not have sex. She is "afraid" or something. He has tried to show compassion, understanding, patience, love, has tried to get counseling. She says that she "will change", that she will work on the issue, but never has. The marriage has never been consummated. I know it seems crazy that he has waited this long, but he really believes in marriage and has tried to "live without it". He wants kids and now, just does not love her anymore. He's done. Can he get an annulment? Should he just file for a divorce? Will he have to pay alimony?

2007-07-16 17:07:53 · 10 answers · asked by SAR 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is in navy he had to move back and get things situated for me and our little girl to move to mississippi in a couple of weeks but I am havign a hard time with the distance I keep thinking that I he might cheat on me or somethign what shoudl I do Imena he has never given me any reason to think that but I guess I just have low self esteem?

2007-07-16 17:04:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think it's better to cry sometimes or just brush it off & be strong! I think I mostly try to be strong, but if something hits me just right I will break down and cry! Am I a wimp or just human? Serious question.

I've had someone tell me I'm to old to have my feelings hurt. That's not true is it?

2007-07-16 17:04:02 · 14 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

What do guys like girls to do when kissing/making out? And what are you supposed to do with your hands?

2007-07-16 17:03:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It'd seem to me that the more thoughtful, less macho man would be more assertive with women. Maybe it's because macho men are both mindless and insecure. I'm a guy, btw.

2007-07-16 17:03:30 · 2 answers · asked by Michael F 3 in Singles & Dating

10 year marriage. Wife suddenly unhappy and gets own apartment after I refuse to leave house but doesn't move out as planned - finally moves in with guy (second affair in 3 months) on our street who the children know (I do not) - cocaine likely being abused by wife - now does not call children or seem to be interested in them - incidentally had breast enhancement and botox without my knowledge about 3 weeks ago (? where money came from) - she is determined to allow this new person to spend time with our children and I am refusing - any suggestions? (I have filed for divorce and am seeking sole custody)

2007-07-16 16:59:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce