to her i love her like whoa she says i dont have no time for her and i give her all my time i dont even hang out with my friends any more cause of her what should i do and the simple little thing she gets fed up with any one and walks away from me and goes home and then calls me and ask me to forgive her and says she will never do it again and she as done it like 5 times what should i do
2007-07-16 17:25:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a girl with less emotional manipulation tendencies.
2007-07-16 17:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is either
1. Extremely manipulative and is just toying/trying to see how far she can push you,
2. More than just a little bit insecure or
3. Impossible to please.
None of these scenarios include your happiness, and I would say that this is one of the few situations where it's okay to be a little bit selfish & think of yourself. It sounds like you've tried (a bit too much, if you've given up hanging with your friends) to make things right, but she has to meet you halfway. If she is unwilling, or if it turns out that one of the three scenarios I came up with applies, leave.
2007-07-17 00:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by Bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's a little insecured, can be cute when u just starting going out but can be annoying in the long run, tell her that u will not be in that relationship if u dont love her and besides, it doesnt mean u guys are bf-gf, that she can manipulate u to have all ur time for her, u are not even married yet..wow imagine if u guys get married...awww, he will hold u on a short leash...lol
2007-07-17 00:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? It sounds like you're dealing with a high maintenance girl....and you really don't have much of choice of what to do. You can either realize she needs to be the center of you're world...and pretty much ONLY you're world. or you need to give her a dose of her own medicine and let her know you're not going to deal with it, that she needs to knock it off NOW or you're gone. if she really loves you, she'll change.
She wont be happy until you are showering her with loving gestures 24/7, but if she really does love you, if you talk to her she'll understand that just as much as you need to show her love, she needs to show you respect too. Love is give AND take.
2007-07-17 00:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like she's one of those high matiance girls. no matter what you do she will never be happy. you two choices are to 1. stay with her and never be happy and never be able to make her happy OR
2. find a girl that will appreaciate the little things you do and will love you in return.
your choice but i would go with the 2nd one. everyone deserves to be happy, including you. when in doubt do what makes you happy.
good luck!
2007-07-17 00:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberly l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she feels that you don't love her. Maybe your not the problem maybe it's something else that she wants to talk about but; wants you to ask her about it first.
2007-07-17 00:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesn't think you love her than you should say well i do love you and if you don't believe me than i don't care and it'll be over between us... she will realize you are willing to sa rifice your love for her because of her attitude!
2007-07-17 00:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel Greene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a better g.f man......you need a g.f that actually thinks that you love her.............this ***** is being a dog and she really needs to get over herself..
2007-07-17 00:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes immature and insecure and u cant do anything about it
2007-07-17 00:33:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not suitable for you
2007-07-17 00:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋