It was very awkward for me because a guy who liked me and I liked him and he asked me the awkward question if I am a virgin or not! I told him that I prefer not to answer that question then he got mad and said nothing! I didn't want to say anything just yet because it wasn't none of his business even though we weren't in relationship!
2007-07-16 17:17:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no boy who likes you with nothing else on his mind but gettin to know you would ask you this only a boy who wants to sleep with you will ask you this if a boy likes you sex is not gonna come up not yet at least be glad you didnt answer that because he has no respect for you for him to ask you that
2007-07-16 17:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sunnie Taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello young woman! You should forget everything about him, why you might ask? Because he is rude! way to rude, who the hell is he to be mad at you for keeping quiet about your own privacy? I don`t like him all ready, sorry woman, but the least we can ask for is a little care and understanding, right? And it seems to be he have a serious problem with that, God only knows how much more he get mad about. Run away girl, find yourself one who at least have some manners, and a little bit of a gentleman in him. You want one who is warm, not one who gets mad by nothing. Have a great summer, peace and love from Norway
2007-07-16 17:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by thefallen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're absolutely right that it's none of his business! Good for you in standing up for yourself. That information is private and you should tell whomever you feel comfortable telling and on your time.
This guy sounds like a jerk to me. If he can't understand your feelings about something as private as your virginity and you're not even dating, what makes you think he won't get angry over much simpler things? Aside from that, I'm worried that he's only out for one thing. I'd leave him behind; you deserve better.
2007-07-16 17:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by Kathryn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You actual did the appropriate factor. it quite is actual creepy for somebody to ask you that on a ordinary date. a guy might desire to such as you for YOU, no longer on your vagina. some men have an element with virgins thinking they're extra "organic" or in spite of yet this incredibly does not make somebody a extra useful man or woman or extra properly matched. it is likewise incredibly shallow for a guy to decide a woman in this, enormously if he isn't a virgin himself. Any guy over 18 who's so hung up approximately virginity that he will possibility offending you on a ordinary date, in all hazard isn't somebody you want to be with. He the two has some form of fetish for virgins and needs on your pants OR he's merely an beside the point jerk who has no theory a thank you to manage a woman. Why might you want a guy like this? in spite of his reason became for asking, he's thoroughly rude and a douche! He incredibly asked you approximately your vagina on a ordinary date! Do you ask men approximately their final prostate examination on a ordinary date? Do you ask them how many inches their penis measures in length? Do you ask them what length jock strap they placed on or how many females individuals they have slept with? in all hazard no longer in view which would be rude! So how is it ok for some douche to ask you on a ordinary date, "Are you a virgin?" Um...hi...it quite is inner maximum! it quite is a query for in case you have been on some dates, no longer ONE! Sweetie, you SO did the appropriate factor. You deserve extra useful and additionally you in all hazard won't might desire to look some distance. stable success!
2016-10-03 23:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by pomar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a guy talks about sex that is where he is intending to go, and him getting mad about your right not to answer-is a sign that he is a controller too-stay away from him and seek a good guy=Its important he believes in honor and is not abusive. It is important to turn to Jesus and find non abusive relationships in Jesus amazing grace=Romans 1 repented of sin to be thankful and worship the creator instead of the created. Jesus is the only Person who offers the unconditional acceptance that your heart craves. Your true identity is a beautiful, celebrated, daughter of God (Isaiah 62:3-4).
On the other hand, the affection of a bad boy is always performance-based. Jesus, however, sacrificed His life to love you without expecting anything in return. Your desire to feel cherished and complete can only be met by Christ (Colossians 2:10). If you do not learn to get your need for love met in Him, then your heart can be vulnerable to a bad boy’s charisma.
In addition, human relationships only experience intimacy when both parties sacrifice for each other. By definition, a bad boy is unwilling to offer you sacrificial love. So don’t fool yourself into thinking that you are immune to his lack of integrity. You must be willing to walk away from a guy who is unwilling to sacrifice for your needs.
Also, don’t attempt to fix a bad boy’s character flaws. Only Jesus Christ can change a man, and it generally takes years to see real improvement. Change is possible, but a man must be willing to surrender himself to God and take action. First John 4:19 says, “We love, because He first loved us.” This verse reveals that a man’s ability to love a woman is only found in the life that Jesus offers to live through him. A real man knows that he can do nothing apart from Christ (John 15:5). Therefore, ladies, reserve your heart for a guy who will rely upon Christ to love you.
Bad boys may be more common than men with character, but waiting for a guy with integrity is worth it.
prayin for you, and best wishes, in Jesus care John 3 worked for me
2007-07-16 17:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you seem reserved and didn't want to answer his question,you don't even need him! I swear,if your inbetween 13-17,all these guys try to do is get in your pants! Don't waste time with guys like that...
You seem like a good girl,almost remind me of sandra dee in grease =D I mean,I think you should be proud to say you are,because I lost mine when I was 13,but if you don't want him knowing,tell him leave you alone,you don't want a boy like that anyways!
2007-07-16 17:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey....if he is asking you something like that and you aren't even his girl yet....he is only after sex. I mean...would you ask him that? You need to find someone who is into you for you not what is between your legs....that is all he is after and once he gets that...he will be on his way. Trust me...he is a looser...no matter how much you like him. find yourself a good guy who deserves you!!!
Best wishes to you!
2007-07-16 17:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by genniangel0 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think i have ever asked a girl if she was a virgin, i usually wait until they tell me, he jsut want to have sex with you
2007-07-16 17:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by Lucas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants one thing from You. Don't have anything to do with him.
2007-07-16 17:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by Backhoe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the big fuss its a simple YES or NO maybe hes just checkign on your honesty if you say what you say you are...dont you think so???
2007-07-16 17:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by Dave B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋