I have a girlfriend. I went to the movies with my friends and met some girls there that invited us to their party. One of the girls and I went to a room and had sex. Afterwards we talked and then I never talked to her agian. I felt guilty for a couple of days. Did I cheat?
2007-07-16 17:30:23 · 16 answers · asked by Dylan M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ha Ha.... very funny.
2007-07-16 17:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is clear that you have a girlfriend, than unfortunately yes! You were unfaithful. Ask yourself the same question but about her. If she had sex with another guy, wldnt you think that she cheated?
Cheating is from kissing, flirting physically, having any form of sex/oral, you can even be cheating subconciously by thinking of other girls the way you did your gf.
You should be feeling guilty, as you should be committed to your gf sexually and emotionally, she doesnt sound like a friend with benefits, as you clearly said gf!
2007-07-16 17:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by razzy79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of question is that? You're either really idiotic or you're waiting for someone to tell you what you want to hear. You definitely cheated and in a major way. You shared the most intimate part of yourself with a complete stranger. How can you devalue the one you call your girlfriend like that? And how can you only feel guilty for a few days? Did the guilt just magically melt away?
She deserves to know the truth. You owe her that much. Hopefully, she can find a guy who really loves her and has a conscience.
2007-07-16 17:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by Kathryn 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you expecting someone to pat your shoulder and give you a pardon?
You cheated. And if you weren't safe about it, you also put your girlfriend at risk.
I'm sure the attention was great, but at some point you just have to be man enough to say "look, I have a girlfriend" and not have sex with another woman while you have a gf.
2007-07-18 03:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by yoak 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude did you really need to ask what you already know? It's very very obvious that you did cheat. Let me ask you something- do you think its worth it to lose someone who trusts you so much just for a few hours of forgettable pleasure? And to think of the consequences-how the chick feels that you slept with her and then never speaks to her again, and worst of all how your girlfriend feels. If you didn't tell her she will find out-imagine her reaction then! Did the chick even know you have (or had) a girlfriend? You looser
2007-07-16 17:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by petal_4eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be a great big yes. Most people don't know where to draw the line between cheating and not. But having sex with someone else is way WAY over the line and out in the field. You're lucky your girlfriend was stupid enough to take you back.
2007-07-16 17:33:25 · answer #6 · answered by its_just_sweet 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes!
2007-07-16 17:47:19 · answer #7 · answered by Ami A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know you did fool! i hope you used a condom so you don't get an std or HIV or aids and pass it on to your trusting girlfriend.or worse yet you made a baby with a whore that would be even worse! grow up and keep it in your pants,loser!
2007-07-16 17:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by dixie58 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yes
2007-07-16 17:50:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't be man enough to be honest and accept the fact that, yeah!, you did cheat.
2007-07-16 17:34:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel dumber for even reading this all the way through...
2007-07-16 17:35:26 · answer #11 · answered by Odie 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋