Okay, so I talk to my girlfriend every night on the phone. It's not uncommon. We'll talk until we have to sleep. Now, I've kept her up late the past few nights. I thought it'd be a good idea to let her go to bed "on time." Well, she won't go. She says that she wants to talk to me. I tell her we can talk tomorrow. We talked until like 3:30 a.m. last night. So, she say she wants to talk, but will go anyways because I think she should go to sleep.
I wait patiently to see what she does, and she doesn't do ANYTHING. It is really starting to frustrate me, because I tell her it's up to her what she does. She'll say "well, you think I should go to bed, so I'll go to bed." Then, she'll just wait on the phone, not saying anything. So, I'm like "so, were you wanting to talk then?" And she says, "No, I'm going to bed because you want me to."
I know that she's tired because she only murmurs and does that whole "Mmhm" thing. When I tell her to go to bed, she leaves mad. Not even a "good-bye."
2007-07-16 18:20:41 · 3 answers · asked by badoil_49 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to laugh inside...because my highschool girlfriend and I did the same thing...on the phone till 3AM or later...we'd actually fall asleep sometimes while one of us was trying to wake the other back up. We finally decided that it was making us too tired and we stopped doing it.
You love each other, and you'd love to be with each other all the time, so you hate to end the conversation. Since she's willing to "go to bed" when you tell her, then just pick a time that works for you and say, "Okay, we'd better go to bed now so we can get up in the morning." When she says, "well, if you think so...", you say, "Okay sweetie, goodnight." Wait for a second, then just hang up. She'll learn soon enough that when you say "enough", it really means "enough" and that you're not being mean, you're taking care of her the way a boyfriend is supposed to.
2007-07-24 00:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude u should explain to her that we really need to sleep at least 8 hours a day...ok explain to her in a good manner ok...l
2007-07-17 01:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG ... kids. Just go to sleep already.
2007-07-17 01:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by danny23 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋