I have a problem with my mind in the relation ship I'm in.?

Question

So I'm going out with a great girl. We've broken up twice for reasons that where my fault. I love her and she says she loves me but, there is this problem that really bothers me, and I don't have the ba*ls to tell her because I feel ashamed and embarrased in such an ugly way. Well my problem is money. In the chain of society she along with her family hang high but when it comes to my family and I we don't hang so high if you know what I mean. But it makes me feel bad because times come when she wants to go out like the movies, mall and i don't have the money. Lots of chances I've had to be with her outside school but its the money.There have been chances when I could have had the money to go out but I feel terrible asking my parents because its not going to great with them either. I cant wait till I'm 16 and start working. I'm 15 and I work sometimes but most of the money I pitch in and help my parents pay their bills. What should I do? She says she loves me no matter wat for ever. ='(

Answer 1

The last line is the answer to your question. She says that she loves you no matter what. Let that be.
Remember for a lot of girls its not about how much money you have, but how you treat HER, that really matters. So you can't do a lot of expensive things, but you can make simple things special. Like going for a walk and bringing a picnic lunch. Or dancing to music in a park. Or going for a bike ride together. Like picking a bunch of flowers - or just one, and telling her its not as beautiful as she is.
Write her a note and tell her what is so special about her. These things are treasured long after the memories of movies and such are long gone.
Ain't love grand?

Answer 2

no doubt man i feel you ive been thru this, money shouldnt be the most important thing to talk about but girls are pretty much money and happiness, and if she doesnt love you beacuse you dont have the money like some other guys than you know what you have to do. or maybe you should lay off on spending for a little bit, get a plan, get your papper right. and reconsider, dont rush ANYTHING... take your time and make a wise descionsin... best of luck to ya bro

Answer 3

he's in all probability variety of awkward because of the fact he's scared that his virginity and inexperience are problems, I guess he relatively likes you yet is a few distance to aggravating to make a circulate. It sounds such as you like him besides, everybody says you may wait till you hit upon the suited individual. He must be yours and you ought to be his. purely kiss him next time you're head to head and cuddling

Answer 4

you are doing the right thing by helping your parents. I think she might already know what is going on, or will know. Do not explicitly tell her about her problem, that will make her feel bad(uncomfortable). Plus you are 15, you got plenty of time to spend with each other in the future, where ever that might be.

Answer 5

seriously dude i feel really sad for u ... not for ur money crises but for ur thoughts... its jus kiddish.. rem the main thing in the relationship is mind.. and u both have a gr8 relationship.. stop worrying about taking her outside with money or so.. u jus can take her to the places like where u wont need money.. i guess all she needs is to be with u.. either be it to the movie or beach or even a lonely place.. all she needs is to be with u always... jus grant her tat wish which takes no money :)..

make her happy with words and care not with money and other stuff which she got in loads

Answer 6

you are very sweet. sounds like your girlfriend isn't bothered by it.
there are things you can do with her that don't cost much if anything. take her hiking, or just have a romantic picnic, bring sandwiches from home. go play at the park, i love playing on the swings with my boyfriend.