as of a couple hours ago, i found out, that my girlfriend of 3 years has cheated on me, for the second time now. we have broken up twice, and gotten back together in the last 3 years. she tells me that she loves me, and that she would do anything for me, she tells me that without me, that shes nothing...i dont know what to do, i mean this may seem really obvious to some others, but i really dont know what to do. i need some advice.
2007-07-16 18:12:02 · 10 answers · asked by >wonder whats next< 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for all the great advice
2007-07-16 18:55:55 · update #1
Decide if your life would be better with or without her. If you decide to stay with her, be prepared for a life of disappointment when she cheats. If you decide to leave her -- then leave.
Good luck.
2007-07-16 18:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by luvrats 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're a nice person for giving her another chance before, but I think you should move on. She obviously can live without you since she has been with her other guys. Anyone that cheats more than once really doesn't deserve the person that they're officially with.
Sorry about that, I know those kind of situations are hard. Hope everything turns out okay.
2007-07-17 01:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by Ricky Rae 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she really loves you, would do anything for you, and is nothing without you, SHE WOULDN'T BE CHEATING ON YOU. I hate to say this, but it sounds as if she's playing you big time. You need to set her straight and end this "relationship" you two have since it (a) only seems to bring you pain, and (b) she obviously doesn't care much about it if she's cheated on you twice already.
I hope this works out for you!
2007-07-17 01:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem a bit gullible to her charm, which implies that you do love her... But a girl who has cheated TWICE sends huge red flags. If you were to marry her, how would you know if she would just stop doing such a thing? I'd break it off. Don't let her sweet-talk you.
2007-07-17 01:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by Cake Monster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was with a girl for 5 years. we had a child together. then i found out that she was cheating on me. i stuck around for my son, but after a few months i just lost all interest in the whole idea. if i was you i would get out of there.
2007-07-17 01:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by danny h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to break up with her and DON'T go back. because you've already broken up twice and now she cheated on you. She may not be interested in you anymore. Sorry. :(
2007-07-17 01:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by DJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her. She is lying about you being everything to her, that is proven because she cheated on you multiple times.
2007-07-17 01:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by Captain Skynyrd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump her....shes just going to do the same thing again and again....it may hurt for a while but the sun will shine and you WILL move on...so say bye-bye to that girl!
2007-07-17 01:16:00 · answer #8 · answered by Barbie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is not treatin how ur suppose tew be treated she is just leaving u there and nuting else...u should prob. break up wit her...if ur noting to her then y else b ther for her
2007-07-17 01:16:13 · answer #9 · answered by ♥£oser♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make sure you're not being taken for granted.
2007-07-17 01:17:56 · answer #10 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋