Family & Relationships - 15 July 2007

2007-07-15 19:50:36 · 5 answers · asked by Laura H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

iv asked a couple questions on here about my boyfriend. im 16 and hes almost 21. prettey much what sums its up is him always calling me names and putting me down all the time, he made me cry at his house once because he got mad i didnt give him a ******* when he wanted it. He has some really bad anger issues when he doesnt get his own way and he admitted that to me. Im always so close to dumping him but he always says hes sorry and somehow wins me back. When i talk to him my heart melts because hes so nice to me when hes not mad. but as soon as he gets mad i get really scared because he likes to throw things and punch walls when hes mad. He hates when i drink because he thinks its immature and he expects me to do everything he says when he thinks somethings right for me. I know most of you are going to say "dump him" but its not that easy. I just talked to him on the phone and he made me laugh and he was being so nice. sorry this is so long :S but hes wearing me down and i need help

2007-07-15 19:50:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well i have had my heart broken a long time ago and you can call it puppy love or just plain wooped but when i was with that person i loved being around them but i havent had that feelin in a long time ..... i mean i like this girl and we go out but i dont have the feelings i wont the ones i feel like i need now its just oh i have a girlfriend i mean yeah i have feelings for her and im lookin to settle down but im also a partyer i have two sides of me and i wont to do both and dont know what to pick ..... i dont even know what im saying im so damn confused about relationships i mean i have it nailed down ..... its hard for me to be commited and to be emotionally involed or whatever i just wont to be like that again i just dont know how what kind of feelings or what i should be lookin for at all

2007-07-15 19:42:40 · 3 answers · asked by tweeter 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been friends online with a guy for 6 months.
We met almost 4 months ago. He drove 2 hours and paid for his own hotel room tostay overnight (by himself of course)
Since then I have a lot of stuff going on and have been traveling.
For the last 2 months he has has asked when Im going to go out with him again.
Problem is he keeps asking me to come there this time around.
I guess Im being stubborn & old fashioned because I keep turning him down , because I want him to come to my city again.
Im afraid that his patience is wearing thin. Last time he said 'come see me'! and asked when finally.
Should I go visit him this time around ?
I really really like him and we spend about 7-8 hours a week just talking on phone/online like good friends.
But we also kissed on our 1st and only date so far. So I know there's chemistry.

Im 30, he is 34 btw.

2007-07-15 19:38:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wife and i had seperated about a month ago and the state will not give us a divorce untill 60 days are up. she has been out (with my son) at partys with all kinds of people who she doesnt know and left him in a back room all alone. so do i try for full custody or should i just just wait till the state makes her give him up

2007-07-15 19:32:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I said some hurtful things to my ex bf as I have had trust issues in the past. I was jealous he was seein his ex as a friend. I regret so many of the the things I said. We have talked for hours on end and are still very close. He is very stubborn and says that he cant forgive me for the things I said. I regret this and have told him and asked him for another chance. I really want him back. How can I win him round? Anyone else been in this situation?

2007-07-15 19:25:03 · 4 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister after waiting a very long time got married and I had the privlidge of being the matron on honor. I also introduced her to her husband. My sister was one of my very best friends in the whole wide world. We shared a room over 20 years and she was my maid of honor at my wedding also. She has blessed me so much and I do love her.

But since she got married I feel we are not close anymore I moved 3000 miles from home after the wedding and I dont want to call her a lot as she is a newlywed. She has changed a lot and I really dont hear from her as often it is like our realtionship seems over.

I am not bitter or angry and I know this is life but is this normal, but it almost feels like we no longer have the relationship we used to have, this feels strange for me as we have always been there for one another.

My question is is this normal? And is there anything I should be doing? I am not sure what to make of this situation so I thought I would post this question.

2007-07-15 19:24:56 · 16 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Family

2007-07-15 19:22:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anndora C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-15 19:19:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How would you know if a capricorn man is interested in you?

2007-07-15 19:18:39 · 7 answers · asked by Peacelover78 1 in Singles & Dating

he looks at webcam sites and dating sites too but he won't have sex with me

2007-07-15 19:18:03 · 6 answers · asked by violet g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I said some very hurtful things to my ex bf as he was still seeing his ex as a friend and I have been cheated on by other guys in the past. He has never given me reason not to trust him but I still have these issues with men.

I have realised what a fool I have been and asked him to reconsider. He says I have hurt him too much and that he can only offer me friedship now. I know deep down he thinks the world of me. How can I win him back. We have agreed to stay friends but inside I am really hurting. How can I win him back?

2007-07-15 19:17:34 · 1 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

a) jonathan
b) nick
c) connor
d) peter

2007-07-15 19:17:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend said some really disrespectful things to my mom and i love him so much but i do know he was wrong now my mom wants nothing to do with him and she acts diffrent with me now because im still with him what do i do ?

2007-07-15 19:12:20 · 16 answers · asked by NAH CHiLL* 2 in Singles & Dating

I think I just figured it out. Married for 18 years. I asked her why and she told me that when she figures it out she will tell me. I'm a great father and was a good husband. I think she lacked big time in self esteem. She had a eating disorder in highschool. I told her when she left me how I always told her how beautiful she was. Her response.. If you don't feel it on the inside it doesn't matter. She was also raped in highschool and molested by her step brother. Could I have found a big piece to my puzzle? She lacked self esteem and heres a new guy telling her who knows what. what do you think??thank you

2007-07-15 19:06:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Yeah, so why in the world does the bride, who has kerjillions of other details she assumes is actually important to worry about, take it upon herself to decide where a bunch of adults sit to eat at the wedding?

Is it just so she can be in control of one more stupid, unimportant detail that dictates what others are supposed to do on her wedding day?

Of all the idiotic wedding things I've ever heard of, this one takes the cake.

2007-07-15 19:05:45 · 12 answers · asked by CrazyChick 7 in Weddings

see around your collegues, relatives and unknown but known some how

2007-07-15 19:04:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-15 19:04:46 · 4 answers · asked by dimpy k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 18 and going to college in a little more than a month. Ive recently met this girl who really likes me a lot and has for a while. She really would like to date me until the summer is over. She is ok but nothing amazing at all. we are sexually active and we hang out nearly everyday. the only reason we dont date is because i just got out of a relationship a little while ago and i wasnt sure if i wanted to be in another off the get-go. Im starting to feel like we should date now and make a commitment for the summer. im just dreading that she will become more attached and things will get much more complicated than desired. as of now, she is already fairly attached to a degree. opinions? should i date her or no?

2007-07-15 19:04:45 · 17 answers · asked by yahooanswers23 1 in Singles & Dating

what could a man change to keep his relationships strong and healthy, and how much time does he need to change when all this man has to offer is his faithfulness and his love.

2007-07-15 19:04:18 · 5 answers · asked by jrgimp 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-15 18:59:10 · 10 answers · asked by kelley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

sorry to sound dumb, but im being told i should send out save the date cards. and to be honest, i dont know what that is. can anyone please explain? thanks

2007-07-15 18:58:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

There is this guy that I know who is 33 and I am 23. I like him and we talk all times during the day but at night I cant get him to answer his phone. So I finally stopped contacting him and he started calling me. He will not even meet me to have lunch. He is a high school drop out and I am about to matriculate at a law school. He is from the rough parts of the city and I am bfrom the burbs. I like him even though a lot of my friends say that he is ugly. He tells me that he cant answer because he is asleep. But a lot of people tell me he is a dealer. What the hell do you believe is going on. When we worked at the same place at night from 11-7 he would be jealous and didnt want anyone to come around me. He would practically sit at the front desk all night even though he was a maintenance guy and I was a night audit. What is up with this guy, someone help me.

2007-07-15 18:56:02 · 15 answers · asked by starsmoonis 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married next year, what I want to know is.. I have 2 bridesmaids and now my fiance only want 1 best man.Now i dont know if its going to work out because now we are going to be 3 women an 2 men standing at the front.Is there any way i can make it equel.

2007-07-15 18:54:56 · 7 answers · asked by jjdd 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So, I know this isn't a Q... and has nothing to do with Marriage / Divorce, but if you're like me you could use a good laugh.

Tonight I take my three year old out to eat. I had hush puppies and she was eyeing them. I offered her one and she gingerly dunked it in her ketchup.. then she got ready to bite, but hesitated, pulled it back and looked again. I knew it was a "new" food for her, so I said, "It's ok, honey, just take a bite." She said "How do I eat it?" I said, "well, just bite into it, it's not that cruchy all the way through".. she said, she stops and looks at me... and says very quietly and very seriously, "but mommy, it'll bark."

2007-07-15 18:54:50 · 10 answers · asked by Wildflower 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-15 18:53:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-15 18:51:36 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

She is married and I have a long time boyfriend. But this hair thing is plain annoying!!!!!Any psychs with insight on this behavior?

2007-07-15 18:47:14 · 11 answers · asked by exosted 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was not looking for anyone and BANG the magnet of attraction hit me like a ton of bricks. I have been married 20yrs and have 2 sons (14 and 18). I have had a pretty high libido for most of my marriage. Although my husband and I have had a healthy sex life,he seems to be losing his interest in sex over the past few years. He makes excuses that he's tired or early morning rise or "i don't want to mess your new expensive hairdo". I even waxed everything for him and bought a silky sexy nightgown and he said oh that's nice now hurry up and let's get some shut eye Well this man i have been driving to church on Sundays is kind, polite, actually listens to what i have to say. I never in a million years would've thought that I would entertain the idea of being sexually draw to another man I love my husband but I have never felt the tingling through my body as when i see him. Wks have gone by and he is saying he loves me and will take care of me.Do i leavemy family to be happy again or endit

2007-07-15 18:46:48 · 21 answers · asked by LIZ M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Yes, we had had sexual activities previously but like our relationship is a long distance type and sometimes we asked ourselves to do certain things but I ended up turning him off bc I don't do it bc i feel uncomfortable. I went thru a very bad thing in my past and Thanks God I knew how to deal with that and Now i feel better. my fiance knows about that bc he even helped to get right off from that. But like I want to give my best to who's gonna be my future husband. I feel so sad bc he feels sad I can't please him. How can i change that?
He pleases me super well and I... just dont reply back like he'd wish. He says that he doesnt understands why I feel that way. we love alot each other.

What can I do?

2007-07-15 18:43:56 · 10 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Marriage & Divorce