There is this guy that I know who is 33 and I am 23. I like him and we talk all times during the day but at night I cant get him to answer his phone. So I finally stopped contacting him and he started calling me. He will not even meet me to have lunch. He is a high school drop out and I am about to matriculate at a law school. He is from the rough parts of the city and I am bfrom the burbs. I like him even though a lot of my friends say that he is ugly. He tells me that he cant answer because he is asleep. But a lot of people tell me he is a dealer. What the hell do you believe is going on. When we worked at the same place at night from 11-7 he would be jealous and didnt want anyone to come around me. He would practically sit at the front desk all night even though he was a maintenance guy and I was a night audit. What is up with this guy, someone help me.
2007-07-15 18:56:02 · 15 answers · asked by starsmoonis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Best way to find out is to ask him wtfudge is going...if he can't tell you than forget it. Why bother with that stuff?
2007-07-15 18:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you be attracted to a guy who,
1 wont take your calls
2 wont even meet you for lunch
3 a lot of people tell you that he's a dealer
4 is a high school drop out
5 a lot of your friends say he is ugly
6 when you worked together at night , he just sat around you , and didn't do his job
but you like him , ? when you talk to him during the day , why don't you ask him what you really want to know about him .Ask him what he does,during the day, where he 's working at, what time he gets off work , where he hangs ,get to know him better, and then make a decision about him
1 you talk all the time during the day
2007-07-15 19:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by sam, b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously something is bothering you about this guy who you seem to degrade as if your any better....i can't stand when someone tries to talk down on others in hopes of making themselves look better...talking about you from the burbs and he's from the rough parts...does that make him less of a person? whats your point??? and about him being a dealer....thats hearsay. there are those who are less fortunate than others... they can't help the situation their in cause this world is not of equality...be careful how you speak about others....cause you may need all the help in the world one day may god bless you.
2007-07-15 19:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want. However, analysing him won't change anything. From my own experience I can tell you. You need to move on. You can't help this guy. He has to help himself. If you continue this. It will destroy your life. Don't believe me? Print this out. After a few years with him. Read it again. Some people have to learn the hard way. I hope you're not one of them.
2007-07-15 19:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by Suzie Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would just ask him point blank about what your friends are saying about him . I think you should tell him how you feel about all this and what is his intentions with this realationship and that you are tired of the games and your 23 and can find someone better
2007-07-15 19:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by rick k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a smart person, you are not making good relationship choices.
He is hiding something....many things I think.
Are you really that desperate ?
Move on, try a healthy relationship, they're a lot more fun.
There's enough drama in life without creating more.
2007-07-15 19:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET CUPID TO AIM IS ARROW A LITTLE ON THE FOOD CHAIN FOR YOU.
HEY NO OFFENSE
BUT HE COULD BE DOING A WHOLE OF THINGS AND 1 ISNT YOU.
HE DONT WANT TO BE BOTHERED AT NIGHT OR HE GOT SOMEONE OVER, JUST A LONG LIST OF MAYBES.
YOU EITHER DEAL OR LET IT GO.
YOU NEED SOMEONE ON YOUR LINE OF THOUGHTS.
2007-07-15 19:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by CEYISHA S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he's a bad boy, but you don't need trouble in your life if you are about to embark on a new journey anyways. You don't want to jeopardize that do you?
2007-07-15 19:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by Chocolate1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont like the way that sound, i would not want to be serious with this person. You have to much going on for yourself.
2007-07-15 19:00:53 · answer #9 · answered by Delightful 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think before you start dealing with him you should talk to him and noe what he is all about because if you jus assume he is telling the truth you can get in a twist!
2007-07-15 19:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋