Family & Relationships - 13 July 2007

We aren't near the beach and we can only go to the mall/movie theatre so many times before it gets boring. We've been together for about a year now and we've run out of ideas. Please help!!

2007-07-13 11:24:03 · 14 answers · asked by mikeyjo 1 in Singles & Dating

that you are "too hot to trot?" just wondering. i thought it meant attractive, but ive heard other places that it means you're easy. a guy said that to me today, and i am no way easy. so should i be offeneded or take it as a compliment lol

2007-07-13 11:20:49 · 32 answers · asked by lil333 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-13 11:18:02 · 8 answers · asked by kbeauty 4 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know a guy named Michael Dee Parrack? He should be 36 years old now and lives in South Bend, IN. He has at least one child, besides me. It would really help me if you could give me any information.

Thanks

2007-07-13 11:16:10 · 8 answers · asked by writer chick 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

well, i used to beat my gf, but i have stopped all that, and now i am trying to be the sweetest bf that she can imagine. does anyone have any tips??

2007-07-13 11:16:01 · 16 answers · asked by tarzan_man1990 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-13 11:14:10 · 18 answers · asked by kittana! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-13 11:13:38 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got a phone call last night from the police who said they had my husband. Aparently he was drunk and passed out in front of an apartment building. Some residents there called the police. Luckily for him (or perhaps not) the country we live in takes a fairly lenient view of these things, and apart from calling me to take him home, nothing will happen to him.
The fact that he is employed in a white collar job seems to mean that his behaviour can be excused.

I got dressed and got my 3 year old daughter out of bed took a taxi to where the police were waiting. My husband was passed out on the pavement in front of the building. I talked and yelled at him trying to wake him up......when the policemen pulled him to his feet he could walk and we got him into the taxi and home.

2007-07-13 11:09:16 · 29 answers · asked by psychokitty 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-13 11:08:55 · 30 answers · asked by gapanic5827 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do men feel inadequate if their wife makes more money than they do? If so, why?

2007-07-13 11:08:09 · 6 answers · asked by Kitten 4 in Marriage & Divorce

hi guys
i am 19 and i just fall in love with a 41 year old man who has got a family !!! he just care a lot about me and pay attention to me its not normal i can feel it some times he looks at me in a way that i just want to fly!!
we never talk about sex and he never says that he love me nothing
but i cat forget him he is so sweet he talk to me as much as i need he cares alot
what can i do now????

2007-07-13 11:07:49 · 19 answers · asked by hanna 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean, i love to have sex with my husband, i would do it every night if we could, but sometimes, i wonder, men cheat when there not getting enough, but do you think they'd cheat when there getting to much, i don't want my hubby to get bored becasue we've done every thing and he gets it so much, i don't beleive at all he'd cheat on me, but do you think it's possible men will cheat when they get so much?.....would just like to see peoples opinion on this and if theres any men who have cheated although they got plentey of sex at home....

2007-07-13 11:07:20 · 15 answers · asked by Nita and Michael 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you like it if a girl made you a friendship braclet.
Cause I have been wanting to make one for this guy I like, but I am not sure if I should. Ok, if you are the type of guy that loves sports, and plays sports. Would you like for a girl to make you a friendship braclet?
This guy I like him, and he likes me. But we are just trying to get to know each other before we start anything. And I was just wondering if it would be a turn off, or not a good thing for me to make him a friendship braclet?

2007-07-13 11:05:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i need to convince my gf to get rid of the baby...like ASAP. i've posted this question before, but yahoo has taken it off a couple of times. i can't mention the word adortion (with a b), it seems. anyway, i don't even feel like rewriting what i wrote, if you care to read it, it's there. these are the facts: she was on the pill, we'd agreed if an 'accident' happened that she would get rid of it, she HASN'T kept her end of the deal, she's black, i'm white, MY parents don't like her, i won't get inheritance if i keep the baby, it's gonna cost me money, she's going to lose her fine figure, i don't like fat women, i'm not 'father' material, i've never changed a diaper in my life, that's a woman's job, and i'm not going to be getting up in the middle of the night unless it's to get some leftovers for me...what do i do? i'm trying to keep this as short as i can. how do i convince her once and for all to just get rid of it so we can go back to the way we were.

2007-07-13 11:04:35 · 10 answers · asked by steven mcd 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so he has a girlfriend. But he says he wants to breakup with her. I'm not sure if he likes me or not but I have a feeling he does. He seems pretty shy so help me out please!

2007-07-13 11:03:24 · 15 answers · asked by roxiilicious 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I love each other. Dont get me wrong. I'm not one to run away from problems....
BUT
Yesterday we got into an arguement that was so bad we decided to split up. Ok well knowing that neither one of us wanted that we decided a few hours later that we would stay together. Ok at 5am I wake up to him with his hand around my neck attempting to choke me...I said what are you doing and he layed back down and stopped. He says he doesn't remember this and says "dont you think if I wanted to choke you I would have done it already?"
The fight yesterday was all because I got out with him at a store...(I told him at first I didn't want to go then decided after he was in there that I would go in) I'm confused because I love him and dont want to make a mistake by leaving if I really shouldn't. Please help! Just need to hear what other people think...

2007-07-13 11:03:11 · 29 answers · asked by Just here. 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i have recentely moved to england from spain and all my new mates are black but i have a few white friends, i really like this boy who is the same age as me because he treats me fairly and is always nice to me all my black friends think we should start dating but my white friends take the piss, because they were nasty about it i told them in front of this boy that i would never go out with him now he has got the wrong impression and i am still really confused what should i do ??

2007-07-13 10:55:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband brings in less income than i do. He's usually always broke and I usually have some kind of cash on me. I pay all the bills so he can pay off his car. He always takes a few cigarettes from me or some money out of my purse so he can eat. I can't buy packs of pop anymore because I usually have 3 drinks and find that he's guzzled the rest. Same goes for food, and lots of other things. The thing is though, once in a while i will be broke and i wont ask him for anything but he finds out and gets me things i need ( if he's gotten paid recently) even if it makes him broke. It a guilt trip every time because he doesn't have much but is very generous with what he has. But the only reason i run out of money is because he takes from me everyday. I started hiding things and he was outraged. He's always mad at me now, constantly reminding me of how selfish I am. I feel terrible but I don't want to be taking care of him anymore. any help?

2007-07-13 10:54:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Don't say yes because my bf gf hubby wife told me so.

If there was a panel of judges watching what would you score out of ten ?

2007-07-13 10:54:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

As of now I am extremely hurt.....We got married 10 years ago and we have a beautiful family But when I came home from work the other day, my wife was on the phone and didn't hear me come in. As I passed the kitchen, I overhead a part of her conversation, which included: "If he knew I was on the pill, he'd kill me." Shocked, I discussed it with her and she said that she will never use it again and felt terrible after seeing how hurt I was. But now 3 months later I see that she is on it again. What should I do or say to her to save this marriage after such a betrayal? I still love her.

2007-07-13 10:52:51 · 20 answers · asked by joe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 15ys together 17 in the begining the signs were there but I didnt read them !! I will try to make this short !! He didnt like my hair style he didnt like my cloths, I couldnt lay out the sun on 35 acres for someone would see me,I couldnt workout ,I couldnt go to the tanning bed,I was to made feel like I wasnt good enough , everything I did was wrong, everytime I would fix something about me that he didnt like then there was something else he would find , he threatin to leave me all the time, he told me I should think about things before I said them , I have been cussed out over his sister,freinds,his son,and even a stranger, I felt like opipion was not important, I had to fight with him to him to take me see my parents out of town when something would happen to them,ETC Well I left him 6 month ago couldnt take it anymore, but now he saids he has changed and he loves me and missed me , but I dont see it he has not made any changes to get me back !! please help!!

2007-07-13 10:50:49 · 24 answers · asked by IT IS WHAT IT IS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend lives right next door to me. we have known each other since we were born. She has been to everyone of my games and i to hers. We have hugged a few times but that has been it. The othe day we were sitting in her back yard talking as we usually do. Sitting next to me she reached over and held my hand and rested her head on me. She didn't say anything but she has never done that. Is she looking to move more than friends?

I am so lost. what should i do?

i'm afraid that if we start moving in a relationship, and things bottom out. I will lose my best friend

I'm afraid if i don't i could also lose my best friend.

am i being selfish?

HELP ME PLEASE

2007-07-13 10:49:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friends girlfriend is very possessive. She doesn't like me solely because i'm female and i'm friends with her boyfriend. She left me a voicemail threating to kill and beat me. What can I do?

2007-07-13 10:46:58 · 6 answers · asked by confused 2 in Friends

ok, so there is this girl that i really love (not just like, but love). we dated for the past year and a half, but broke up at the beginning of the summer. I was an idiot and i dumped her. after being single for some time, i realized that she is the one i want. im never happy unless im around her. i tried asking her out again on her bday, and i gave her a pearl necklace. the problem is...she just wants to be friends. she said she cares for me still. I NEED TO KNOW HOW TO GET HER TO FALL BACK INTO LOVE WITH ME! i want to be with her again.

Additional facts:
we are both 16 years old, and in highschool. we live right down the street from each other. I am MADLY in love with this girl and i would do anything to get back together with her!

2007-07-13 10:42:12 · 25 answers · asked by Donivan 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm 23 ysold, single and good looking guy. but i just can't dare myself get close to a girl and talk to her. i don;t want to keep getting along with the wrong person anymore. i mean, almost all of the girls i talked to had their boyfriend already and i just can;t do it and i'm just want to have a girlfriend so badddlyyyyy!!!

2007-07-13 10:40:58 · 24 answers · asked by allan b 1 in Singles & Dating

Open question

2007-07-13 10:39:49 · 26 answers · asked by Navrita Lottay Navrita Lottay 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have a joint checking account that we keep for household expenses (bills, groceries etc) and then we each have our own checking accounts that the other doesn't have access to. I was talking to my girlfriend the other day and we got on the subject of money and marriage. She's a SATM and her husband is the breadwinner for the family but she works part time taking in other kids for daycare etc. When I mentioned the arrangement that my husband and I had she was totally shocked an appalled that we kept what finances we didn't need for bills separate from each other and she thought that it was being really distrustful of us to do it that way.

So my question is, should all your money go into a joint checking account and should your spouse have full access to your 'spending money' ??

2007-07-13 10:36:48 · 27 answers · asked by Kitten 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a problem, my fiance has a son from another lady, ( relationship before me) the girl is still asking for him back and she got ahold of my work # and every now and then she'll crank call my job!! its driving me crazy not only that but she told my fiance that she was going to find out where i work and follow us home, so she'll know where we live. how can i get this psycho off our backs???? and live our happy life.

2007-07-13 10:36:22 · 15 answers · asked by me & you 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband does it and has done it for some time now. At first I was okay with it until I realized he cheated on me. Now I am totally against it. I am also upset because he hangs with his single friends who are dogs and his married friends who are dogs. Me on the other hand have just started meeting nice respectable people to hang out with, after three years of marriage. However, there is this one woman who I met two years ago. I stopped talking to her because when we did go out to clubs my husband said I was disrespecting our marriage. Whatever! So I cut her off to make him happy. He didn't ask me to but I did out of respect for him. Well we came back in contact with each other and now she wants to go somewhere tomorrow night. She mentioned a few clubs but I told her I would rather just go get dinner. I feel that I have to keep it low key since I tell him it's not cool to stay out after 2 or 3 a.m., but in reality I didn't care about him doing it until I knew he cheated.

2007-07-13 10:34:44 · 23 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm having joint barbeque next week for my divorce, getting legless at the moment, it was good news.

2007-07-13 10:31:43 · 9 answers · asked by TRIKER CHICK 3 in Marriage & Divorce