Family & Relationships - 13 July 2007

Been together for a year and a half. Both 21. Currently living togther.

In the beginning, everything was fine. We had sex all the time. It was great! But, sadly, his sex drive has plummeted and mine has skyrocketed.

Right now, we haven't had sex in weeks. We went one week without it (not unsual for us nowadays) and then I started my period, which made for another week. I've been going crazy, wanting sex so bad I could taste it. Meanwhile, he couldn't care less. He's up for it if I initiate it, but otherwise he doesn't care.

We've talked about it before and I always tell him that it makes me feel unattractive when he doesn't approach me. He says he'll work on it, but we're still in the same rut. I don't mind initiating sex once and a while, but to do it all the time is too much. I'd like him to share the responsibility. I've tried sexy outfits, whipped cream, the whole nine yards. Those things worked fine once or twice, but now we're in the same place again. What should I do??

2007-07-13 10:29:04 · 22 answers · asked by Morgan 1 in Singles & Dating

I keep seeing this problem come up and I would like to know how people handled or would handle this and why. Male or Female.

2007-07-13 10:28:31 · 23 answers · asked by Johnny 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he's been doing this *stuff* for 25 years... on and off. I caught him with meth and then he left, left to stay at a motel for a week...he smoked pot/meth for that whole week and then came to the realization that this was something he couldn't continue this way. BUT... he decided this after i gave my ultimatem (sp). I had told him (last sunday) that he was to call me and work things out (or not) that night or nothing at all. He called the next day (Mon.) and he was ready....I told him no, that i wasn't. He decided to stay one more night (that is so selfish) and continue the pot/meth/drinking...then talk with me when he was ready. I'm mad at myself for taking him back and now he's trying to make a new start... he's in AA meetings and has rededicated his life to God. He's lied for so many years that I have a problem even believing what he's trying to do now and what if it's for real. I've lost trust. We have been married 2 yrs & have 2 kids. Do I take a chance and stay?leave?i'm confused!

2007-07-13 10:26:03 · 16 answers · asked by Christy S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We're both over 25.

We met a few years ago online and have met in person.

We've kept in contact but will go months at a time without speaking. Well, after a year of no contact, he called me like every night last week. He missed one night of calling and then last night, he called and told me out of the blue that he wants to marry me in two years.

I was shocked and would have married him when we first met. I didn't think he felt that way about me. He's been hinting over the years about marriage in general, but last week he was talking more about it and even said he's ready to settle down. I didn't think much of it and then last night he just came out and said it.

I don't know what my question is... I suppose is it normal for a guy to suddenly realize he wants to spend the rest of his life with a girl?

He has his own place, his own business, no kids, and never been married. He also lives 2 time zones away!

2007-07-13 10:25:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-13 10:25:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and i have 3 kids together ages 8 ,4,and 2.We met senior year of highschool dated went through all kinds of drama including pregnancy miscarriage broke up twice before ending for good . A year later while he had a gf and i was depressed/lonley we had a fling the result of which is our eldest son.For a year we tried to make it work and get it all together but failed.Few months before my 25 birthday we met up again for a chat because i had just moved back to our home state.He wanted to be more involved with our son's life and we started talking more became friends.We started dating again casually and have been together 4.5 yrs straight ever since getting married.I still wonder what if i had not had that fling with him or not gotten pregnant would we still have gotten together?I feel so much guilt sometimes what if the girl he was dating during our fling was better for him than i am they were friends for years before they dated?Am i crazy?

2007-07-13 10:24:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay My Boyfirend and me have been dating for a year almost and everything was going good. we were happy and we loved each other and we were committed to each other. but about a month ago. i found out he had feelings for guys, but now our realtionship is going down. he rarly calls me and when i'm online he doesn't talk to me and if i talk to him he gets pissed. he stop telling me things,like we used to have a day were the t.v. would be off and we would talk about EVERYTHING and now he'd rather watch t.v. or go out with friends. he gets mad when i forget the smallest things and it seems we always pick fights. he blames all the fights on me and never on him and the next day everything is fine between us. he says. i always tell him how i feel but if he doesn't like the topic he ends the converastion. he acts different and not him self.he says he loves me and he NEVER wants to lose me but he's acting like he does wanna lose me. do you think it's time for me to move on to someone better

2007-07-13 10:21:59 · 19 answers · asked by KrIsTiNa 1 in Singles & Dating

I am slightly worried that people might go overboard. The open bar comes with our wedding package and of course includes non-alcoholic drinks. Would it be rude to make an announcement at the beginning of the reception about people not going overboard. Something like "Out of respect for the reason we're all together, we ask you to please drink responsibly and don't overdo it." What does everyone think?

2007-07-13 10:21:58 · 23 answers · asked by Mrs. Brooks 3 in Weddings

I knew this guy from High School and i had a crush on him and he had a crush on me but neither one said it. My daughter was actually playing on my computer and she ened up typing a message to him on IM we hadnt talked since high school. well we have been talking ever since. we have only been together less than a month but i know Love him and i want to spend the rest of my life with him and i want to start a family with him i just wish i would of told him i liked him in high school! so is it to soon to be in love with him?

2007-07-13 10:18:30 · 6 answers · asked by pebbleswete 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-13 10:18:28 · 22 answers · asked by Em 4 in Singles & Dating

How do women feel out there when there partner likes to look at other women when you are not home etc..?

2007-07-13 10:16:15 · 21 answers · asked by Realistic 1 in Singles & Dating

Divorce may take along time but don't give up.

2007-07-13 10:12:49 · 16 answers · asked by TRIKER CHICK 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-13 10:10:20 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-13 10:10:13 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Anyone been to or had a dry wedding? Me and my fiance are not anti-drinking but are choosing not to have any alcohol at our wedding. We have been to some family and friend weddings where beer among other drinks were served and did not like the atmosphere. At most we will be limiting Chanpagne to 1 glass before toasts.

So how has the reaction been at other weddings?

2007-07-13 10:06:31 · 30 answers · asked by Don B 2 in Weddings

I want to know 'cause I haven't had my first kiss yet and I don't want to be too young or inexperienced.

2007-07-13 10:05:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My guy and I live together, both 21, been together for about one and a half years.

I've been working for nine hours and I could really use some good sex when I get home. It's been about two weeks since we've done it and I'm going crazy! He never initiates sex, so it's up to me.

So here's my question: should I jump him when I get home or should I wait to unwind a little first? Usually he watches Jeopardy at 5:00 (ugh - and to think we're so young). Should I wait until after it's over or do you think these would be circumstances for skipping it? I'm tempted to just throw him on the bed as soon as I get in the door, but I'm not sure if he'd be up for it.

Thoughts? Suggestions?

2007-07-13 10:05:43 · 14 answers · asked by Morgan 1 in Singles & Dating

He just told me he got work off early and is on his way home.. What are some fun things we could do at home or away?
thanks!

2007-07-13 10:04:01 · 16 answers · asked by tina*21 2 in Marriage & Divorce

to talk to various women. Eventually he got serious with only one. It got so intense that they got together and slept w/eachother. He evn fell in love with her! When finally approached him, he denied at first but then he admitted it. In the end, I gave him a choice. He chose me because he loved me more than he loved her. My question is for those of you who have experience it, and have forgiven, how have you gotten past it and survived marriage? It's been hard for me. I've been depressed at times. I wonder if he really loves me anymore!!!!!! I just would like to hear from people who have experienced it first hand. I love him w/all my heart and would love to move on!!! Please help!!!

2007-07-13 10:03:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Posted this question another way and got some real crappy answers. Everbody has needs and mine aren't being taken care of, before i got married i was having sex just about every day of the week and now i am going weeks on end without any. So now i suffer because my wife isn't as sexually active as i am? Not looking for another relationship just want to take care of my needs and come home to my wife after

2007-07-13 09:58:22 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He rides my nerves until I snap and lash out at him and he refuses to help me keep control of my temper and B.P.D. He makes everything worse. My own dad has seen the way he treats me and has never helped me. I am on the verge of suicide. My mother abused me in most every way u can think of for 19 years until (thank god) she died. I married in 2004 and my hubby has turned out to be like my mom. What did I do to deserve this torment????? HELP ME

2007-07-13 09:57:01 · 28 answers · asked by mrs_dlzr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have brown hair and blue eyes.Love to draw and sing.I'm a country girl but i do have a punk side to me.I love to be outside and do guy stuff like football, basketball, hunting sometimes,skateboarding.mudding....

2007-07-13 09:55:35 · 8 answers · asked by okiebaby93 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel that I am thinking of a guy, who I had an intimate relationship with 2-3 times. He is also single, he was saying me that he liked me and he separated from his old gf some months ago. We had some nice time together, but since i am back from another place which I spent 1 month far from him, he changed and he still didn't talk to me and didn't see me? Why?

2007-07-13 09:49:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend and i are on a lease together, we still have about a year left, but they are not holding up their end of the bargain on ANYTHING..so i want them off...is this possible, where i can still be on the lease and stay where I live?

2007-07-13 09:48:39 · 2 answers · asked by confused 2 in Friends

My husband and I just decided on a divorce a few weeks ago … He just moved out last weekend. No papers have been signed or filed yet. He is already on the prowl. It was my decision to end our marriage, but I am still bitter that it has taken him so little time to move on …. We have two children together, and while I have them 24/7 he is out picking up on little 22 year olds …. He took all of the furniture and got an apartment already …. So while he’s living all good … his family (or what once was) is living in an empty house. I just think it is sooo selfish on his part … I know I made a good decision, but should I not be bitter or do I have a right to be?

2007-07-13 09:48:17 · 26 answers · asked by luvlily00 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone know whether or not female ejaculation really exists?

2007-07-13 09:47:14 · 33 answers · asked by babyred 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so my ex boyfriend who i still love's mom is dating this guy who does drugs i know he does drugs cuz he used to be married to my aunt
anyways his two kids do drugs but the 13 year old is in jail and the 16 or 17 year old lives with his crackhead mom
so gage is the guy that i still like
me and gage are only 12 and i know hes a good kid
i dont want him to get involved with drugs
i pray for him every night
i am terrified for him
the guy that his mom is dating and wants to marry is going to court next week for beating his kid
iam so scared for gage
i love gage and would hate for anything bad to happen to him
i am so worried that he is gonna do something he will later regret
i cant stress to you how much i am worried about him
i am really scared for him
what can i do

2007-07-13 09:40:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

tell me!

2007-07-13 09:39:54 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

thank you

2007-07-13 09:37:35 · 30 answers · asked by sexy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married for some time now and wondering were the best place to go for sex would be. Are there places that married people go? Don't want my wife to find out

2007-07-13 09:37:25 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce