5 years ago(while we were newlyweds) my sister came to visit us (she's older) and while she was sleeping,my husband came on to her (as in sexually rubbing her) She told me the next morning and I in turn left him for this. After many long conversations about us, I went back home. My family was furious but I had an obligation to my husband also (as did he) He told me that he didn't know what he was thinking and was sorry. He said that he was unhappy with me because I wasn't a good wife(i vouche that I was not. I was sleeping all day,no job, and lazy while putting on 30 pounds) and I wonder if he would have done it if I was good to him. Anyways, five years later,what happened is still in my head. It will not go away and I have given him heck about it since,hanging it over his head after forgiving him. He has been good to me ever since this happened. My family still acts really odd around him as does my sister. Everything is awkward to this day. Any help on moving past this?
2007-07-13
09:09:45
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Mary.Jane
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