They never ever were more than sleeping together and I would never mess with him. Do I tell her he's now hitting on me? It's gonna start drama. UGH!
2007-07-13 09:11:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as you have no intentions of hooking up with him then just ignore the guy and i would say there is no need to mention anything to her. If she asks then be honest with her though.
2007-07-13 09:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by California Kush 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is hitting on you. . . and he is sleeping with her. . . He is a player. . . he is wanting to be sleeping with you too! I am a guy and I know that is how guys who do that sort of thing works his territory. He is only interested in sex. If she is a good friend and you want to keep it that way, I would just ignore him and let her do whatever she wants. I would not say anything, only I would ignore him. If he persists, then ask him directly what he is trying to do here and tell him how it will effect your relationship with your friend. If you take that approach, he will go away. . .
2007-07-13 16:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by byroneann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it start drama if you would never mess with him? Tell him to stop because you're not interested. Tell her what a creep he is and that you'd recommend her keeping her panties on around him next time. End of story.
2007-07-13 16:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by pacoferdinand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell her. Your friendship should mean more to you than some guy. She probably wont have a problem with it, and maybe she can tell you a little bit about him. Now you can be honest with your Friend and get some tips about him. I hope it works out for you.
2007-07-13 16:15:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do the right thing and tell her. Men have only one motivation: sex. It's like collecting things; they have to have more than the next guy. Men are notoriously immature and self-absorbed. This is how they act, married or otherwise.
Pathetic.
2007-07-13 16:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by 1954 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends should always be told the truth. Sometimes the truth hurts, but it always sets free.
2007-07-13 16:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. I would be too suspicious of his intentions to respond positively to it so I would avoid the drama.
2007-07-13 16:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by kelli B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him to get stuffed and leave it at that. If it continues I would talk about it with your friend and see if she has some insight.
2007-07-13 16:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by TBECK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
H*ll yes! Get him out of your lives b4 he causes
permanent damage to your friendship.
2007-07-13 16:14:36 · answer #9 · answered by Lady T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should avoid the guy at all costs and tell you friend that the guy is a prick, and she should leave his cheating @ss.
2007-07-13 16:14:19 · answer #10 · answered by Yulia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋