2007-07-13 10:10:13 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
JAIL-BAIT"That would be a NO"!
2007-07-13 10:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have the need to feel like a man with a 16 year old girl well that's pathetic. A man should be able to feel complete and feel like a man with a woman not a teenager. Don't even hang out with her, it's a lost cause. Those relationships usually end in jail or a break up. There are a lot of desperate 21 year olds looking for desperate dudes like you and they are not hard to find. It's safer and they don't have a curfew.
2007-07-13 10:28:56 · answer #2 · answered by moeschk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not going to lie. When I was 14 I had a 20 year old gf. But now I see that it was wrong to do so. For one because of the law but for two the girl will most likely change her views of what she likes. If she does this the 21 year old will b nothing but a road block.
2007-07-13 10:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by Silk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i think it's okay, it's not legal but there's only 5 years difference, really you should try to just be good friends until she becomes 18 cause then there's nothing that can put you in jail, really i think that's one of the flaws of the legal system cause in 2 years no one would have a problem with it. =P Just be patient and if you wanna be together till then you can be but don't do anything like sex cause not only can you end up in jail but i met a girl that was 16 with a 23 year old bf.. well she was just stupid cause he obviously bought her implants.. but they kept moving all the time cause he was trying to evade the cops or something... Not trying to make assumptions about either one of you, just saying.
2007-07-13 10:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by Blake K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to say yes, but dont expect it to last for too long. I was in a relationship not too long ago with a 21 year old man. I'm 16 if you haven't guessed. He was ready for things I wasn't, for example marriage. Another issue was sex-- I didn't mind that, but it depends on the laws in the state/country you are in. Where I'm from 16 is the legal age of consent. So, know your boundaries and her's. If she's not ready for something you are, don't push her. Parental consent is always a good thing to have, too.
2007-07-13 10:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer G 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO.
First, it's illegal.
Second, it's gross. What on earth could a 21 year old have in common with a 16 year old? Sounds like someone's a pervert and can't get any with girls his own age.
2007-07-13 10:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by Courtney 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I was 16 I went out with a 21-year old guy, but people didn't cry "statutory rape" like they do now.
If you do, be careful!!!
2007-07-13 10:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by Monica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till shes 18
2007-07-13 10:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by steve s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if you want to go to jail. No way man would I do that. I suggest you do not go out with this GIRL. Find a woman
2007-07-13 10:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by code1304 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Shhhhhhhhhhh
you need to keep that on the down low.
It's not really ok, hope she is mature enough to handle the relationship.
2007-07-13 10:12:43 · answer #10 · answered by La Princesa 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the legal age of consent in your state and how mature she is.
2007-07-13 10:12:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋