i'm so afraid to approach a girl :(?

Question

i'm 23 ysold, single and good looking guy. but i just can't dare myself get close to a girl and talk to her. i don;t want to keep getting along with the wrong person anymore. i mean, almost all of the girls i talked to had their boyfriend already and i just can;t do it and i'm just want to have a girlfriend so badddlyyyyy!!!

Answer 1

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http://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_top_ten/index.html

http://www.datingclass.com/successful/index.shtml

http://www.wikihow.com/Keep-a-Girl-Interested

http://www.therightone.com/how-to-talk-to-girls.htm

http://www.refresharticles.com/pdfs/21994.pdf

http://in.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070101215411AAT0NJD&show=7

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070211201211AA5cIGv

Answer 2

Yeah, most guys are a bit intimidated by beautiful girls. Most believe that beautful girls get approached all the time by guys and probably have plenty of choices. So because of that she'll be more choosy. You said you were tall. Well, being a shorter guy, I probably wouldn't go out with a girl that was too much taller than me. If she was more than 3-4 inches taller, then that would be too tall. You said you have high standards? I think there is such a thing as too high as to be unreasonable.

Answer 3

I understand it's not easy to work self-confidence when you're the shy type of person.Try to take a good friend that helps you feel more relaxed for a start...you know some girls feel attraction to a shy guy, so maybe you will get lucky to find a girl like that...if things with a girl go further, try the phone, the emails and even to write some letters...it's only the beginning it will cost you, if you get a good communication soon you will not remember the shy anymore lol!

Answer 4

Most girls I'm sure are used to men coming up to them or hitting on them. At least I know I am. Girls that I know allways want the man to make the first move and are often shy themselves. But if you aproach one at a bar or club or wherever you are and she doesn't seem interested then thats okay. Just continue on with your day considering you will probably never see her again. But most woman wont be mean to you if they aren't interested so what is the worst that could happen? Besides I'm sure you will regret it later if you dson't say anything. Plus one of the biggest turn ons for woman is confidence.
K good luck!

Answer 5

Yah Like dude>>>chill. A girl will come to you and yah sometimes always trying to get a girl shows your desprete which is a turn off!! Major!! Well just be yourself, make friends first then take it from there take it from me. When a guy comes up to a girl all flirting then she thinks he's hitting on here and dosen't even think of being with him so just chill and well,be yourself!!

Answer 6

No one except shy people understand other shy people. You have to weigh what is worse, 30 seconds of being vulnerable to a no, and lifetime of wondering if the answer could have been yes if you only asked.

Answer 7

to get used to people you have to start talking you have to get put on the spot once in a while. ask you friend to set you up on a date with any girl. like a blind date that will put you on the spot and whether you like it or not you will HAVE TO break out of your quiet shell and start talking to her. eventually you get used to her you'll get used to women in general. it's not that hard to approach a girl. you know most men are really shy to approach a good looking women but they have to play off as if they are confident even though they are shaking uncontrollably. everytime i come up to a woman i'm scared like crazy but i gotta show her that i'm not scared so i just play it as if i'm all confident. believe me once you talk to one girl it will give you the confidence to come up to any girl. it's you life LIVE IT. so you get rejected by one big deal it happend to me so many times but you move on to another one and eventually it will work.

Answer 8

yo i had the same problem i am 16 years old but my age are olly numbers you see i found that it is harder when all you find aredy have a freand all you need to do is not thinck about asking her out just talk to them thay really just whant somone to talk to you will see it easyer

Answer 9

you shld be confident, especially if you are good looking...
build your self confidence, and perhaps some girl will come up to you... and if she doesnt... it might be bcuz she feels intimidated... btw girls LOVE a guy who has the courage to make the first move!
GOOD LUCK!

Answer 10

you got to go up to a girl you like and say"hello my name is (your name)" then she will tell you hers. then be nice to her and ask her different questions like "are you having a good time?" then go from there and ask her what she likes to do for fun or where she works or something like that, and if she says she has a bf just tell her "i don't see a ring on your finger" then at the end ask her for her number.

Answer 11

Just be funny and not care what she says, then it will never get to you. If she says, "I have a boyfriend", you simply respond with, "That's ok, I'm not the jealous type"