i need to convince my gf to get rid of the baby...like ASAP. i've posted this question before, but yahoo has taken it off a couple of times. i can't mention the word adortion (with a b), it seems. anyway, i don't even feel like rewriting what i wrote, if you care to read it, it's there. these are the facts: she was on the pill, we'd agreed if an 'accident' happened that she would get rid of it, she HASN'T kept her end of the deal, she's black, i'm white, MY parents don't like her, i won't get inheritance if i keep the baby, it's gonna cost me money, she's going to lose her fine figure, i don't like fat women, i'm not 'father' material, i've never changed a diaper in my life, that's a woman's job, and i'm not going to be getting up in the middle of the night unless it's to get some leftovers for me...what do i do? i'm trying to keep this as short as i can. how do i convince her once and for all to just get rid of it so we can go back to the way we were.
2007-07-13 11:04:35 · 10 answers · asked by steven mcd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a baby is not trash that you get rid of......here is a better idea...abort yourself....and make it real painful so we all know you suffered.....if she wants to have the baby, let her.....just pay for support, move on , and hopefully seek castration.....
2007-07-13 11:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously don't love her. So what if it is a mixed race baby. We all are,. there are not many people who are from one race anymore. Ya you may say you're white, but what else are you? My husband is Irish, Indian, German. I am Irish, German, Indian, African. See my point? Accidents happen all the time, but are they really accidents. It was already in God's plan. Now buy you trying to have her "take care of the issue" how do you not know that that might be the person who has a cure for AIDS, cancer, grow up to be a president. You don't know what you are throwing away. There are many people who want a baby and can't have one. Besides that I have had friends that have had four kids and still have their great figures. It's all in how you take care of your body. If you do love her you will support her decision. If you don't support her then all you have is your money. And any amount of money will not make you happy, at some point you will be broke and wondering what you did wrong.
As this child grows inside her she is getting attached to it. She is falling in love with it. She can't wait to count the toes and fingers. Hear it's cry and see it's smile. Watch it's first steps, and hear it's first words. It is truly a beautiful thing. You are asking her to miss out on soooo much just for you. Question is, Do you think that you are really worth it???
2007-07-13 11:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by winny2zeld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you knew you didn't want and wasn't ready for a child then you shouldn't have had sex. Everyone knows the pill isn't 100% and its easy for her to say she'd get rid of it if a mistake happens until it happens. You can't ever know what its like to have something growing inside of you. It's an instant bond that you shouldn't want to take away from her. You have to be an adult and take responsiblity whatever that may be...sign over rights, take care of the child..but you have to stop pressuring her. You wanted to act like an adult and have sex so now be an adult and take responsibility. I'm sure you will have a change of heart once the baby comes or you see the first ultrasound. It's time to grow up and if you don't want to risk getting someone else pregnant...DON'T HAVE SEX!
2007-07-13 11:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it. You ARE out of time...And as shallow as anyone can be. You're absolutely correct on your estimation of not being father material. You're a real piece of cake.
You dont "get rid of it", and then go back to "normal" It would help for you to GET A LIFE! It appears as tho, you'll be paying for your child one way or another. Good Luck...You're gonna need it.
2007-07-13 11:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a b*tch, mate. And if she does it how do you possibly expect things to get back to the way they were?! You clearly don't love her and no woman will put up with this kind of sh*t forever.
For what it's worth I wouldn't worry about it - from what I can gather from your "relationship" it doesn't sound like she'll want you to be around for your kid anyway. Face it, who would?!
2007-07-13 11:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by piano_kath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you want from us, I think anyone that thinks birth control is 100% gets what they get, condoms and pill NOT 100%,,
sad for the child, just tell her to mark the baby as father unknown, ( after all she might have done it with a brotha)
and you will be off the hook,,
fazizzle,
2007-07-13 11:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't convince her unless you had it in writing and I'm guessing you don't so deal with it.
I'm thinking you'll think twice about having sex again!!
2007-07-13 11:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You suck. Step up and be a man. You knew the consequences of having sex, so deal with it.
2007-07-13 11:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by Hopper52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you caused the baby, and if she wants to keep the baby, don't get mad at her. you should support because that baby is half yours...
2007-07-13 11:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by Arielle P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL I HAVE TO SAY TO YOU IS YOUR A PENIS YOUR MOTHER SHOULD HAVE PUT YOU IN THE BUCKET !!
2007-07-13 11:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by DEBBIE DOES DALLAS !!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋