Family & Relationships - 6 July 2007

I liked this girl at school and I looked at some pics on her Facebook profile and noticed the houses and pond in her neighborhood looked like they could be in my neighborhood. So about a week or two later, I was looking around Google Earth at homes in my area and saw another neighborhood that had a pond and I thought that that was where she lived. I told one of my friends that I may have found the girl's neighborhood and it got out and now her and her friends think I'm a stalker. One of her friends sent me a message telling me to chill and not do anything stupid. I have NOT been harassing or bothering this girl. Hell, she posted her number on Facebook a while ago, wouldn't I have used that to my advantage if I was stalking her? That was in May, it is now July and she won't let it go. I could understand if I was bothering her but i have NEVER said a word to her EVER. Am I a stalker?

2007-07-06 13:07:23 · 14 answers · asked by Jordan Murray-Future Dictator 2 in Friends

Hello Everyone

I have a ?. I have a 3 yr old child. His father is not involved and does not pay support as well. Long story. He wants to forfeit visitation and make me an offer for a lump sum payment of child support for the next 18 years. Is this possible. We tried to terminating his parental rights, but were advised it was probably not going to work. Understandbly if this happens the system (govt) fears that mothers will go on welfare etc.. But in this case he wants to pay money and get out of the picture. I know the importance of having a dad so I am not trying to keep him away. The dad admits he is unstable and doesnt want the child. It was also a domestic violence issue as well- which is how we wound up in court. Its too long to give the whole history here. But he never wanted me to have this child and left me when I told him I was 2 wks pregnant...Anyways your knowledge on this is greatly appreciated. Have a good weekend.

2007-07-06 13:04:04 · 9 answers · asked by J R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a big fan of HBO's big love. I don't really have a problem with one man having multi- wives. As long as their all adult. In my opinion they should be forced to register though in an effort to prevent welfare fraud.

2007-07-06 13:00:36 · 17 answers · asked by SABADO GIGANTE 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-06 12:57:57 · 19 answers · asked by catwmn 1 in Weddings

My parents are divorced, so how old do you have to be in the state of Missouri to choose which parent to live with??

2007-07-06 12:55:56 · 6 answers · asked by TrackSports 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I haven't seen this girl for eleven years. I find her on myspace. Now we chat all the time.

2007-07-06 12:55:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a hard time trusting people. And lately, I've been trying to get better at it. But one of my newfound friends has been telling me that an acquaintance of ours has been saying bad things about me behind my back. And that she doesn't know what was said, just that he said it. But my friend also can't stand him (acquaintance). So how do I know she's telling the truth and just not trying to get me to hate him too. i hope that made sense.

2007-07-06 12:55:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

On the last day of school this girl i liked said she liked me so we started going out. We talked online and met at the bowling ally and stuff on Friday nights. I live in Los Angeles and last weekend we went to the pier in Santa Monica and I thought it would be kinda romantic if we rode the ferris wheel at sunset. When we got off she slapped me and said "I hate ferris wheels!" And left. She acted fine and like she was having fun while we were riding it. She has never said anything about hating them. Please help how can I get her back?

2007-07-06 12:55:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so the otherday i was with my friend and then she tells me that my boyfriend was cheating on me... natually i didnt believe her.. but then after school one day i trun the corner and BAM there he was making out with this other girl.. idk wat to do... should i drop him.. or tell him how i feel... or just forget about it.!!! HELP!!

2007-07-06 12:50:47 · 22 answers · asked by bri 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my question is about how safe it is to hire a female escort.

ATTENTION: I do not want to hear about how immoral it is or how I should try to get a real girlfriend or whatnot. Just PLEASE answer the question, and the question ONLY.

So following on, what are risks involved in hiring an escort.

ALSO, how likely are the risks?

im asking about the visible danger of hiring an escort, not about moral danger or anything of that sort.

2007-07-06 12:48:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please give a link to the dress.
Its going to be a beach wedding, but its in Dec.
I would like it to be white, but no satin please. I am petite and have a big bust. So I'm not sure if I'm going to do the strapless thing or not. Trying to lose some weight so it maybe possible by then. Also, the groom is planning to wear some type of casual pant suit. You know like for a beach wedding. If you could give me some links for those that would be great. Thanks alot!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-06 12:48:28 · 11 answers · asked by Spirited Virgo 4 in Weddings

My cousin joey. He stole a construction truck so he could make it on time to see his parole officer.

Thats one dumb mofo there.

2007-07-06 12:45:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

... like ever ?

Sometimes I feel I do the right thing only for it to be the wrong thing ! You say " I'm going out ", then you get back and get told off for going out, why did she say it's fine in the first place ? This is just one of many examples !!!! HELP !!

2007-07-06 12:45:31 · 14 answers · asked by Lycra L 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i was in an up and down relationship, and during one of the down-times a cute boy approached me in the street and introduced himself! this was, i think, almost a month and a half ago, and since then my boyfriend and i have broken up. he dumped me for good three weeks ago. now i'm curious about the guy from the street, because it's so rare that something like that happens- it seemed like a connection. on the other hand, i've been waiting so i can have some "me time" and make sure i don't jump into a rebound thing. (i'm the kind who is ALWAYS in a relationship and i want to learn some independence). so my question is, is it too late to call this guy, tell him i'm sorry it took so long but that i still want to meet up? and if it's not already too late, how long do you think i could wait before calling him? i still don't know if i'm over my ex and would rather give it a little more time yet....

2007-07-06 12:45:26 · 14 answers · asked by Carly 3 in Singles & Dating

she never asked for money or anything but she looks like she likes what she is doing and the thing about it, she does it in the presense of all three of the managers in the same room. i never allowed her to do that to me but my question is, what is her motive? why is she doing this? she is a hard working girl who just happens to do things like this. this is a serious question because im concerned

2007-07-06 12:42:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-06 12:40:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He went to bed last nite at 1230AM, then woke back up today at 10:00AM. He stayed up until Noon and decided he needed to take another nap and slept from noon til 6:15 PM. I dont get what all this sleeping is about. He lives across town, but does all his sleeping at my house in my bed. I like him, but I have a life and cannot sleep like that.
What should I tell him or do you think maybe he is sick? What should I say to him? Should I just ignore it?
He has been doing this for about the last 6 months and to he honest, I am beginning to wonder if he is dying or something is terribly wrong. He keeps wanting me to lay down with him and I dont want to go to bed in the middle of the day. We both work full time. I am on vacation and the last 3 days of my vacation was spent with him sleeping in my bed.

2007-07-06 12:40:38 · 5 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-06 12:37:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been caring for my 7yr old daughter for almost 2 years with minimal help from her mother. There was a time where she didn't see her mother for weeks at a time.(per her mother).
My daughter is living with me and sees her mother more in the recent year since she has settled down and had another 2 kids with her boyfriend. Now that they are married she has insisted that she wants to be with her daughter more and I can have her on weekends.I don't think that it's fair that she can assume none of the responsibility of taking care or providing for my daughter for these last couple of years, and now when its convenient for her she wants her back. Things were hard for me to when we broke up but I still handled my responsibility. she has not pitched in at all for her school clothes, or expenses and now wants to make demands. What can I do. I don't want to keep her from her mom, so at most I would like joint custody. What are my chances.

2007-07-06 12:37:20 · 6 answers · asked by darkwolfe_01 1 in Family

I am white, she is asian. She wants me to go to her friend's wedding. And feels I am not supporting her. Help!

2007-07-06 12:33:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

what do you do when your 18 year old son wants to stay in a house to go to college 5,000 a year and he is going to school 2 days a week full time and is only 45min from the house im worried about how his college is going to be paid for and all he is worried about is how is he going to pay his rent 500.oo a month

2007-07-06 12:33:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ekkkk..
i dont no how to kiss and i really want to kiss my boyfriend ...
but i dont know hw to and i dont want to get embarrassed infront of him...hw do u kiss??
HELP
<3

2007-07-06 12:31:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am with this guy that I had a previos relationship with...we ended it seven months ago. We've been intimate a few times since then but lately he has been asking me over pretty much every night and when I get ready to leave he gets sad and asks me to stay. Well last night I tried to discuss things with him a little and see what he was thinking about us and he just looked me in the eyes and said I wish things could be different and I asked how and he said "it doesn't matter because they can't be" to give a little insight we are divorced and I feel like we had just gotten married too soon, we are both in our early twenties and I think we both still have a lot of growing up to do. But I feel like now he is acting like he wants me back in the girlfriend capacity but he won't let himself. Am I wrong?

2007-07-06 12:29:38 · 13 answers · asked by hideemosquito 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do you think it is a good thing or is it risky business in the event of divorce?

2007-07-06 12:28:31 · 13 answers · asked by say what? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well my mom has dated this man & he has 3 kids & we have all become really close all five of us (my mom has 2 & he has 3) well anyways they have broke up & me & his daughter are the same age & we have become really really close & now since they are not dating anymore me & her do not get to be as close as we were because of my dad he does not like my moms -X- and so my dad says that we cant no longer be together & that we need to let go of each other & really i dont think that thats right because me & her are best friends & like i said we have become really close & we still call each other our sister even though we are not anymore so wut should i do let go of my best friend in the world or juss still be friends? ~please help me~

2007-07-06 12:27:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-06 12:27:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm going on a boat tomorrow with 3 of my friends, and 1 of my friends' family. Ever since I took a trip to Six Flags, and read in the car, I have realized that I get car sick or motion sickness easily. What can I do to ease the pain while on the boat? What are the chances of my getting seasick? What kind of pills should I take to ease the pain? Thank you so much in advance.

2007-07-06 12:26:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am very athletic, and i am also femine, do you think that showing your skills off athletisicms *excuse my spelling* appeals to men??

2007-07-06 12:24:15 · 8 answers · asked by Spring time ease 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-06 12:23:50 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Definitions of forsake on the Web:

abandon: leave someone who needs or counts on you; leave in the lurch; "The mother deserted her children"
wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn

So if you have sex with other women it means that you abandoned your wife?

This doesn't make any sense.

What If I have sex wit the wife first then have sex with the other lady...now all are satisfied right and evertything is cool.

Nobody gets abandoned and everbody walks away unhurt.

2007-07-06 12:22:20 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce