i am a manager at a certain establishment, and one of my workers serviced two of the other managers orally...

Question

she never asked for money or anything but she looks like she likes what she is doing and the thing about it, she does it in the presense of all three of the managers in the same room. i never allowed her to do that to me but my question is, what is her motive? why is she doing this? she is a hard working girl who just happens to do things like this. this is a serious question because im concerned

Answer 1

You're just jealous...

Answer 2

You should be concerned.

It may be just something she enjoys. More likely she has serious issues.

Of greater concern to you is that there is a big fat lawsuit from one or more of your employees, probably her, in the future.

If your establishment has lawyers, have a strictly verbal conversation with a lawyer detailing what you know. Follow their advice.

Answer 3

let's see, she could have low self esteem, feel a need for accpetance... or just odd... she's definetly got something wrong going on inside of her head... other than that, find out if it's against policy for co-workers to do such things... and really just make sure that the other two managers don't promise or do anything stupid.. . she could be setting the company up for sexual harassment suit or something like that..

Answer 4

It is possible your colleagues are abusing their positions by coercing the girl into such acts in order to keep her job. If you like and respect the worker, perhaps you should have a discreet chat with her to check if everything is OK.

Answer 5

Report the other mangers to your supervisor. This is a serious violation of the boss/employee relationship. If this worker wants to blow them, she should do it on her own time.
The men in charge should be fired for unethical (and immoral behavior)

Answer 6

It sounds like she is starving for attention and may have a thing for upper management that it may pay off somehow. Isn't this grounds for termination? It is where I work...... I feel sorry for her that manager's are playing into this instead of helping her in a professional manner. Sounds like you have morals!

Answer 7

I would fire there (donkey's).Why would you want anyone that is on the clock spending time doing that.Tell upper management unless they are upper Management..If so I'd look for other job.

Answer 8

This girl sounds seriously disturbed. If there is an owner or other supervisor, tell them about it. You could get caught in blackmail or other problems if you let this go on.

Answer 9

answer=people do what they desire as long as they are allowed to do it-your establishment is on its way to disaster-
and this is more than a dinosaur issue with lack of faith=There is dinosaurs spoken of in the bible-yet to the one convinced why would you change your mind? remember if you reject Jesus or that the sun shines-then Jesus and the sun shine are a myth.
to Jesus footprints in the sand-what a poem--The bible speaks about dinasaurs before the flood in the book of Job Liviathan and other references. Isnt it interesting that the earth is claimed to have been created in ages with some of it so many million years old-some so many more or less-thus instead of a creator that created the earth with age it had a creator that created out of nothing (because its got age and didnt exist a day before it was created-some say from gas lol-how much gas would it take to make 100 miles of earth all at one exact time?
yet why did they find these dinasaurs on the earths surface. why didnt they have to dig down 100 thousand or a million when it is claimed they roamed the earth and up to a billion years into the earths crust to find these bones? they are preserved in tar pits of recent age-yet covered with great pressure to preserve them (the universal flood)
this helped me as raised a Jew to see the deaper truths too=Christian means a follower of the Messiah-who came as a Jew- the believer in Jesus-has power over the mind to control their thoughts, thus when Jesus says to forgive and let Me handle it, or about lust is adultry against God, or hate is murder in the heart, we have the calling to cast down all imaginations that exault themselves against God which brings true peace and joy to our heart in all situations (Philippians 4:4-20).
My Jewish people believe in the comming of a Messiah, and his fulfillment is in Jesus. The laws of Judaism were given specifically to the Jewish people to be kept and to guide them to the promised Messiah.
Isaiah 9:6 the child to be the Son given, the mighty God and the prince of peace..
Isaiah 52:13-53:12 To be the exalted one. To first be marred more than any man, and to lay down his life to make atonement for our sins.

The way I came to know him is by believing what he spoke to us from heaven (Revelation1:1 chapter 1 verse 1 & 3:19&20 "I love you and ask you to repent of your sins (even one lie) quickly. Behold I stand at your heart door and knock If you hear my word and open the door, I will come in and be your friend."
so I prayed "Jesus I am sorry for my sins, come into my heart and help me, be my friend, amen."
Its all good and now as a Jew who has come to know Jesus is my Messiah, savior, and best friend giving me joy beyond words and power to live right.

praying for you your establishment and all involved.

Answer 10

Be careful, god knows what she could have and be passing to them!! She may want something on you for further use down the line, she may just like doing thingd like that, like I said,BE CAREFUL!!

Answer 11

She's looking for job security. And I'd be afraid I'd catch something.