Family & Relationships - 6 July 2007

What do people think about having oral sex if a person has never done it before but wants to wait until marriage for sex. I'm still a virgin, but want to know what people think about doing this or fooling around in other ways before marriage.

Also, is being engaged a reason to loosen up and experiment some more? I'm not engaged yet but am wondering what other virgins have done.

Anyone with experience in these areas or from a religious background, please answer my post. I don't feel comfortable asking other people I know since it's such a sensitive issue for me. Also, most people I know my age don't value virginity as much as I do.

2007-07-06 17:18:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It just seems easier

2007-07-06 17:18:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-06 17:13:36 · 12 answers · asked by Hawaii 3 in Singles & Dating

i waz thinking dat to but juz dat waz the hard thig

2007-07-06 17:12:02 · 3 answers · asked by alexis a 1 in Weddings

I can't imagine being married to this controlling, freak-a-zoid, tweaked out person planning my wedding. Should I end it now or wait til she calmes down some?

2007-07-06 17:10:01 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We love each other very much and share a lot of things.We've never met each other pesonally, only through webcam for 6 months now, but we're planning to. I'm mexican and he's from Dubai. He loves latin culture. He's married, but unhappy and will divorce, not cos of me, but because he's been unhappy for 10 years already. He divorced a second wife who cheated him. He proposed me to marry him. We won't have children if we marry. He doesn't care that I'll be 55 when he is an attractive 43 man, he told me he won't marry any other woman besides me, cos he found his soul mate. He's had other past relationships at the same time of being married, but he says he found true love now and he has told me about them. He wants me to trust him and he encourage me to ask him whatever I want. He says he trustes me very much also and wants to come to Mexico to live for good and make up his life again. He's the General Manager of a family business, I've research on him and he hasn't lied to me. Help!

2007-07-06 17:09:35 · 14 answers · asked by JD 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have read conflicting articles saying it is or isn't traditional for the bride and groom to exchange gifts. We will be exchanging gifts regardless. I decided on my own, and will not change my mind, that I want the gift to become an heirloom. I only have $100-200 to spend on the gift. Yes, I would like to spend more, but circumstances (long story) won't allow it right now.

2007-07-06 16:56:24 · 24 answers · asked by adambc03 2 in Weddings

My 17-yr. old sister calls me a whore after every sentence while talking to me. Ex: I'm about 2 go 2 da sto', hoez! (Translation-I'm about to go to the store, whores). It really drives me to daunting INSANITY! & I can't keep a man because she sleeps with every boyfriend I get. Now who's the REAL whore?

2007-07-06 16:51:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i m 19yrs from Delhi.My life al of a sudden changed when went 2 college.Kept self away from the ... activities prevailing in Hostel....
frankly speaking i m not very comfortable in talkin with boyz but easy with girls.All my frnds hv boyfrnd meee dont have.At school and now again at college i was asked 2 kiss guies both times refused, reffered as Lesbean.Frnds call me less!M I Really...

2007-07-06 16:44:39 · 30 answers · asked by riya 1 in Friends

I have been happily married 16 yrs..My husband is 42 and has lied and kept stuff from me in the past..Like 11 yrs ago he gave his 2 weeks notice at his job,didnt have another 1 lined up and didnt tell me he did this..The way i found is i was looking in the want ads and found his job i confronted him and he told me everything..Last yr he lied about numerous things so i had a talk with him and he promise to stop doing these things but he broke that promise so i again had another talk with him and he promise to be open and honest with me and i hope he has but who knows also a few times he made up stuff that wasnt true..Before last yr i never really paid attention to this situation but i am now..Other then this problem he is a great guy who is very sweet,loving,affectionate and treats me like a queen..So my question is can a person change bad habits or is it hopeless?

2007-07-06 16:33:27 · 20 answers · asked by vicky d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What was your experience? Was the dress good quality? Is there anything I should be cautious about? The dresses are so beautiful, but I'm a little apprehensive about it.

2007-07-06 16:22:50 · 7 answers · asked by Spirited Virgo 4 in Weddings

is there anyone who has do it and was it fun? we want to try both (mmf&ffm), but we don't know what to try first.

2007-07-06 16:22:10 · 13 answers · asked by Jon M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright. This is gonna sound crazy. But, Has anyone ever watched Gene Simmons Family Jewels? Him and his "girlfriend"(?) Shannon haven't been married and they've been together for 22 years. I want to do that. I'm engaged however. But, I don't want to repeat another one of my family's (and fiances) mistakes. I'm trying so hard not to be like my family or my fiance and get divorced. (My fiance was married once before. I hate that but I'm slowly getting over it).

One main reason I don't want to get married...I have NOTHING to prove to anyone. It's nothing but a piece of paper. I don't need a ring, a paper or anyone to tell my "partner" that I love him and will always be there for him. Always. Am I insane?

***Any smart-*** comments or any rude comments will earn you a complaint with yahoo*** :)

2007-07-06 16:20:09 · 16 answers · asked by le_disko 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what are some great colors for a wedding the fall women

2007-07-06 16:15:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i personally dont have a myspace page or any of these pages because if people want to stay in contact with me they can call or email me and i dont have the need to expose myself all over the place or a need to be seen.
what is it in relationships (or in general) that makes people open pages like that? i dont get it and especially the whole adding people thing. married women adding guys and men adding females.
is it just me?

2007-07-06 16:13:40 · 3 answers · asked by not this way 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am actually divorced and he says that he was comfortable and had no reasons to pursue a divorce. Is he saying that maybe perhaps there's a chance for him getting a divorce if he had reasons to like finding a special person?

2007-07-06 16:12:42 · 8 answers · asked by Pinky 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think short pants (at knees level) whitish color (like white to beige) and very, very tight (on nice body) do you think that can be sexy on a girl ?

And do men pay close attention to color matching and clothes matching or is it fine to you as long as the overall appearance is fine??

Thhhaaanks in advance

2007-07-06 16:11:44 · 13 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband left my daughter and I last summer to return to his hometown which is in another state. I had to save up money to retain a lawyer and finally in February, I found one. The divorce is on the premise of adultery, abandonment, physical and emotional abuse. My lawyer is taking so long with the process--what can I do to speed it up. I can't fire my attorney because that would be $1000 down the drain. Also, child support has not even started. I am ready to be DIVORCED--so that I and my daughter can move on with our lives. I am located in Mississippi and my husband is in Florida.

Please help! What can I say to my lawyer to speed up the process?

2007-07-06 16:11:30 · 6 answers · asked by Sarah Sue 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has broken up with me twice.. We initially were together two and a half years, and he broke it off with no explanation - both times. (The second time we got back together, we hadn't spoken in six months)

So we've been together three months since we last got back together, and now I am really paranoid - for example, if he hasn't made contact with me in a few days, all I can think is "He's going to break up with me again". I can't get angry at him or tell him anything, because i'm afraid saying or doing anything negative will make him break up with me again. I probably shouldn't be with him, but I love him. End of story.

How do I stop the paranoia? I figure, if he's dumped me twice, nothing is stopping him from doing it again. Any tips on ways to talk to him about how I feel without seeming clingy or negative in any way would be appreciated.

ANY tips or even your own stories would be appreciated actually. Sorry i'm just at my wits end.

2007-07-06 16:11:27 · 11 answers · asked by dee_em_cee_472 1 in Singles & Dating

he is cheap as hell!!!!!!!!

2007-07-06 16:08:41 · 2 answers · asked by claudia c 2 in Singles & Dating

like when you and your boyfriend are really going at it when making out and then he wants to go to the next step and tries to take off your bra and panties.. etc..

are u so lost in the moment u cant? or are u just too scared?

please share!!

2007-07-06 16:08:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

am 17 and i got save am not a virgin but now dat am saved no sex before marriage

should i have sex even doe am not married cuz boys dnt wanna be wit u if ur not having sex and am tried of losing boys i like because am not having sex

wat to do??is it ok to have sex even tho am not married

2007-07-06 16:08:25 · 1 answers · asked by badways_philly 1 in Singles & Dating

Now think about it before giving an answer. I just want to know if i'm still doing things right. Because i've been doing the nice guy bit, but not to nice because i know some girls dont like that, and i get the "oh your just a nice guy but i cant" after like two dates. So again just want to know if i'm doing things right.

2007-07-06 16:06:24 · 15 answers · asked by BLACKARD 2 in Singles & Dating

This is actually my brothers profile. I have a boyfriend and he makes me feel so good but I want to make him feel even better than what he makes me feel. I feel kinda weird if I like stroke him but I want to know if there is anything else that is less serious than that that I might be able to do to make him feel really good.

2007-07-06 16:05:52 · 12 answers · asked by JR 2 in Singles & Dating

please try to answer this guys and girls i have this guy friend but he started to like me more than a friend but i didnt i dont want to date him or lose him as a friend what should i do or say please help....
thank you

2007-07-06 16:05:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went to live with my cousin for the summer to go to summer school and my boyfriend has some trusting issues. So far its been good but now he told me that he doesnt want to keep contact with me on the phone or internet or anything. He said that we can talk when i come back on weekends but other than that he doesnt want to talk to me.

what do i do?

2007-07-06 16:00:43 · 12 answers · asked by tiff 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you find these sort of guys attractive? Also, would you see them as immature? Thanks, have a nice day =)

2007-07-06 16:00:29 · 34 answers · asked by thugster17 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married 23 years. My spouse is mentally ill and it has been very difficult. He refuses counselling, psychiatry, he is on medication but he is still miserable. He's very angry and has frequent outbursts. He is back on his pain killers when he went through withdrawal to get off of them. I feel like he'll never change. He hates his job-this is the latest job. I feel terrible but should I go on being miserable too? I'm attracted to someone else but I think it's only because I've been unhappy for so long, and feeling no companionship. My husband just sleeps. We never go out. He never eats with me. He hardly speaks to me. He was better for a while but now he is back to being the same way he has been for so long. I really don't want to live this way any more. I'd rather be alone. We have twins, who are 18 years old now and they know how their father is also. No one would blame me if I left. Any opinions? Would you stay?

2007-07-06 16:00:25 · 33 answers · asked by motorgirl56 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He is a really big guy, and when we sleep together he takes over the whole bed. When I wake up, I have a headache and my back is stiff from not being able to roll over or move. What can I do to remedy this? I really like him alot, but he crowds me in bed.

2007-07-06 15:59:25 · 6 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

well i liked this girl for about a year and i want to ask her out to the movies or something tomorrow, problem is that my friend called me right about when i was going to ask her and told me if he wanted me to go watch the Transformers movie TOMORROW. but he said we're going at 4. so what should i do? maybe a morning date?

2007-07-06 15:57:56 · 24 answers · asked by MarshMaLLow 2 in Singles & Dating