like when you and your boyfriend are really going at it when making out and then he wants to go to the next step and tries to take off your bra and panties.. etc..
are u so lost in the moment u cant? or are u just too scared?
please share!!
2007-07-06 16:08:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's happened. I think you should talk this out with him before you guys get all hot and bothered. Tell him your only willing to go to a certain point. And if he doesn't respect your wishes end the relationship.
2007-07-06 16:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience I decide whether or not I want to go all the way or not and if I dont want to I just say know and tell the guy to let go or leave. But if you have met the one you feel comfotable with, I kind of just decided to let it go as far as it can, I get so caught up in the moment with my boyfriend i cant control myself.
2007-07-06 23:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by anonomous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. not really, one time we were getting hot and he tried to unclasp my bra (with much struggle) and i didnt want to go there just yet so i just moved his hand away from there and he just laughed and we went on..
i suppose if you're comfortable with the person you are with, it wont be so hard to be straight forward.. but if you're not, then it will be hard..
just make sure u know what u want so u dont up getting raped.
take care =)
2007-07-06 23:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i dont want him fishing in my underwear i will say no..but you know sometimes a girl gets as just turned on as the guy does and she will find it hard to say no
and from personal experience when I'm turned on it is hard to say no
2007-07-06 23:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by Devochka 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is not being your friend, and he is acting without respect for you. It is time for some changes-you have a future, do you desire one with a good or bad reputation. Just see the multitudes here that gave in and then had the worst of heartbreaks-it will break your heart to hear of their pain.
there is help from above more than a dinosaur tale=There is dinosaurs spoken of in the bible-yet to the one convinced why would you change your mind? remember if you reject Jesus or that the sun shines-then Jesus and the sun shine are a myth.
to Jesus footprints in the sand-what a poem--The bible speaks about dinasaurs before the flood in the book of Job Liviathan and other references. Isnt it interesting that the earth is claimed to have been created in ages with some of it so many million years old-some so many more or less-thus instead of a creator that created the earth with age it had a creator that created out of nothing (because its got age and didnt exist a day before it was created-some say from gas lol-how much gas would it take to make 100 miles of earth all at one exact time?
yet why did they find these dinasaurs on the earths surface. why didnt they have to dig down 100 thousand or a million when it is claimed they roamed the earth and up to a billion years into the earths crust to find these bones? they are preserved in tar pits of recent age-yet covered with great pressure to preserve them (the universal flood)
this helped me as raised a Jew to see the deaper truths too=Christian means a follower of the Messiah-who came as a Jew- the believer in Jesus-has power over the mind to control their thoughts, thus when Jesus says to forgive and let Me handle it, or about lust is adultry against God, or hate is murder in the heart, we have the calling to cast down all imaginations that exault themselves against God which brings true peace and joy to our heart in all situations (Philippians 4:4-20).
My Jewish people believe in the comming of a Messiah, and his fulfillment is in Jesus. The laws of Judaism were given specifically to the Jewish people to be kept and to guide them to the promised Messiah.
Isaiah 9:6 the child to be the Son given, the mighty God and the prince of peace..
Isaiah 52:13-53:12 To be the exalted one. To first be marred more than any man, and to lay down his life to make atonement for our sins.
The way I came to know him is by believing what he spoke to us from heaven (Revelation1:1 chapter 1 verse 1 & 3:19&20 "I love you and ask you to repent of your sins (even one lie) quickly. Behold I stand at your heart door and knock If you hear my word and open the door, I will come in and be your friend."
so I prayed "Jesus I am sorry for my sins, come into my heart and help me, be my friend, amen."
Its all good and now as a Jew who has come to know Jesus is my Messiah, savior, and best friend giving me joy beyond words and power to live right.
praying the best for you, for you deserve the best, David
2007-07-06 23:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. I am always in control of me, and I make decisions on what happens to me, I do not leave that in someone else's hands. It's how I keep me safe, it's how I control what happens to me. You should try it...you'll find out you'll live longer and happier.
2007-07-06 23:12:44 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should already know from the beginning if you want to or not. If you don't want to and the time isn't right - speak up for yourself.
2007-07-06 23:12:11 · answer #7 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the guy would be dead at the point where he tries the next step.
2007-07-06 23:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by codereesa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may be scary to say no but if he respects you he will stop and be o.k. with it. Y ou have to be ready and comfortable.
2007-07-06 23:14:52 · answer #9 · answered by funkymunky04020 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girls i know never say no cuz i got it like that
2007-07-06 23:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by enyx92 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋