Family & Relationships - 6 July 2007

I posted this question earlier, but i added more detail to the bottom.

I have been married for 6 yrs. and recently found out my husband had been calling another women. He use to call her on his cell phone. He suddenly started keeping his phone on silent and that is when i noticed on the cell phone bill (that we share) the same number over and over that he use to call. When I called the number a girl answered. I confronted him about it and he said that he was calling the girl for his best friend who is married. He says that his friend is in love with the girl. He claims that he calls the girl because his friend can't talk to her all the time. The funny thing is my husband calls this girl at 7am, and 12 pm and 4pm (which is every free moment he gets at work). He calls her every day. he doesn't call her after 5pm when he makes it home. I called the girl after i confronted him and she stated that she didn't know he was married and she only talked to my husband about his friend.

2007-07-06 18:34:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-06 18:32:25 · 6 answers · asked by im whats up! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I lost my Dad to cancer in November 2005. I find that I love hearing cherished memories others have of their own fathers -- random moments, anecdotes from their childhood. It helps me remember things about my Dad.

2007-07-06 18:27:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-06 18:25:37 · 3 answers · asked by peacehome 1 in Family

She recently confessed to me while on vaca that she had an affair right after she got married to her current husband, along with two other times in which she became impregnated by 2 other men, and had both pregnancies aborted (within 5 months of each other) yet she tells her husband that she can't get pregnant which is why they have no children together. I have been on vacation several thousand miles away and yesterday she came out of no where accusing me of "posting a voice recording" of her confession on MySpace (which I didn't, even if I had my page is private and she has no way to see it). She has now took it upon herself to tell my fiance who I am supposed to be marrying in a month that I cheated on him when I didnt! I was living with her but now she told me I am not allowed to come back, and shes disconnected her cell phone. The problem is she has ALL of my belongings including my wedding dress and my fiances wedding ring. Do you have any suggestions about how to deal with her?

2007-07-06 18:25:30 · 13 answers · asked by ashley b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My hubby and I had a fight a few days ago. I thought he was cheating on me and it turned out to be a huge misunderstanding. I have completely moved past it and want to go on like it never happened. He on the other hand is moping around. He's on depression medication and I had no idea how bad off he was until this fight. Evidently he thinks about killing himself often and the antidepressants have been no help. I told him to go back to the doctor and get a different dosage or a different medication, but he claims that the doctor "can't help him". He thinks that I won't get past this whole cheating thing and that it will always be in the back of my mind and that I will never let it go. It was my fault. I blew it way out of proportion and I have already let it go. I just want my hubby back. It's like he's not even here. I haven't seen him smile in days and when he talks to me it's so quiet that I can't even hear him. I told him that I want my husband back and he said...

2007-07-06 18:22:54 · 12 answers · asked by redpeach_mi 7 in Marriage & Divorce

nowadays age determines the various way to express the love.

2007-07-06 18:15:37 · 24 answers · asked by jay68mehta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Married to a pretty good guy. I have started to have serious jealousy and distrust issues with him. It is just little stuff through our relationship. Tonight he went out with some friends to a bar and text me ... asking questions and saying its not fun without me. He hasn't ever cheated on me. I have serious self esteem issues. I know why I have the issues. I'm not going to seek therapy for them. That won't make my boobs get any bigger. *hint. I don't want a relationship with him anymore. I'm tired of wondering if Im pretty enough for him. I don't like him looking at other girls and lusting after them. I know he does. He makes comments about their boobs and butts to me all the time. I just don't have the energy or the emotional strength to deal with his shyt. I'm tired of it. my profile on myspace is dannanicolexxx. There are some pics of the there. Hearing "your beautiful" and actually believing it are two different things. Divorce is in my head. Am I wrong? ????

2007-07-06 18:13:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

her parents disapprove of me because im black she loves me alot but I dont wanna **** up her life because of this if I stay she gets abused by her parent emotionally and physically but if I go I miss out on true love and she will have a better domestic life

2007-07-06 18:10:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am halfway around the world in a different country. While here, I attend this fitness club, and met this girl, she's normally shy, and my knowledge of the language here isn't great, but each time I see her we talk for hours. I am about to leave in three days. I am about to leave for the gym now, would it be a good idea to get a florist to send her flowers while I am there? I may not see her again though, but she's told me not to forget her, but she doesn't have internet, so e mails are out...whta do you think? flowers or no flowers?

2007-07-06 18:08:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello! We need some help deciding on a filling for a chocolate cake. The cake is the Groom's cake and the lady making it said she can do any filling, all we had to do was ask.

But what goes good with chocolate, other than more chocolate? I don't like cherry filling and our wedding cake is strawberry with Bavarian creme filling.

Ideas would be appreciated.

2007-07-06 18:01:48 · 28 answers · asked by Keep on Truckin' 4 in Weddings

HEY!!! PLZ read and answer my other open questions. i seem like after 5 minutes after posting your question you don't get any replies!!!! Thankks and plz spread the word
I'll be adding more question in the next few days... and remember you get points for helping me!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-06 18:00:13 · 4 answers · asked by beachykeen8 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I posted today looking for my half sister and brother

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvCDXKCqVm0uV15J9Uuta3_sy6IX?qid=20070706113224AACoqH1

Julie gave me a link and I followed it straight to them!! I found them!!

I spent about 3 hrs or so on the phone with both of them who never even knew I existed, needless to say my sister was totally shocked and my brother was overjoyed!! Thank you Julie for directing me to zabasearch.com

2007-07-06 17:59:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm now starting second year in college... and thinking back - My father has such a terrible view of me - I come from a semi-liberal non-practicing muslim family that still holds up some of the old fasioned values (although very liberal by comparison to others).

My Dad always seemed to think I'm stupid - and he makes it known - It never really bothered me...

When I was in early High School he caught some Porn on my computer (yes... I'm sorry - teenage boy - guilty) and ever since then it seems that he thinks I'm a dirty child molestor or something...

he even keeps me out of the room when my female cousins come over, and he was suspicious when he came and saw a camcorder at my efficiency (which I swear I was not using for anything improper - i mean... lots of people own camcorders).

I keep thinking back to childhood - early childhood was nice, and he was my hero - things started to go downhill as I got older - we used to fight so much - whenever I see him we still do

- thoughts

2007-07-06 17:59:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How old do you have to be to buy a vibrator from spencers?
I was wondering how old you have to be in order to buy a vibrator at spencers. does anyone kno? if so how old thank you... oh and by the way im 15. and im not buying it for me, i was buying itsfor my girl which will be also 15 july 31st

2007-07-06 17:57:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cry babies? they cry over some silly stuff. e.g. they cry when they see movies like Titanic or The Notebook. why were you crying when leonardo drown? i, for one, was glad he died.he was annoying prick. too bad the sharks didn't come and snatch him that would have been hilarious.
what's up with women crying in the TV show "The Bachelor"? it makes you even more pathetic when you say you love the guy you barely know.
what's is up with women crying when their guy tells them that he cheated? i mean do you have to go overboard "Why did you do this to me WAAHHHH?
so i'm basically asking, why do you cry over every lil sh1t?

2007-07-06 17:54:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am divorced and am very amicable with my ex. Not long after we split she had a boyfriend, who had a kid around my sons age. They were together for about a year and she moved in with him. They lived to gether for about another year or more. During this time it was difficult to schedule time with my son. I have a bit of an odd work schedule and she was well aware of that. We did the best we could to set up monthly schedules. There were times when things needed to be changed, and when I would ask her for this weekend or that weekend, she seemed to have something planed for her, the boyfriend, and the kids. That relationship is over. Now for the past few months I have been able to see my son pretty much whenever I wanted. She would ask me to take him sometimes for reasons that she gave me but turned out she lied. Now she has a new boyfriend and that's great but now it seems like she always has something to do and needs me to take my son for more than a weekend. I love my time with my

2007-07-06 17:54:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i asked a question about 5 min ago and most people told me to make the first move since the guy i like is prob shy.
how??
guys: how would u want a girl to make a move?
girls: if u have n e experience with this then could u tell

thanks!

2007-07-06 17:52:03 · 13 answers · asked by .. .. 3 in Singles & Dating

My aunt is only 40 and has 2 very young kids that love her deeply and it breaks my heart when they ask "why is mommy at the hospotal". She has cancer all over her body and in her brain, and doesnt have much longer to live. Everyone is praying a lot and tried everything to help her, but it seems to be getting worse. I feel so bad for her kids not being able to grow up with their mom like most others. Why isnt anything working, like praying? I cant even say goodbye because she lives across the country and cant even move or talk. Its so hard dealing with this and watching my family, and her kids suffer. Please give me any type of advice that will help me make more sense of this situation and how to deal with death and my family. I have never lost anyone so close before.

2007-07-06 17:48:13 · 2 answers · asked by Krissy 2 in Family

we talk about it all the time and i never know what to say i usually just listen but sometimes she will just stare into nothing and i dont know what to do
she has had a pretty good life and it seems that it is all crashing down on her.
her parents court date is coming up, her dad wont even take her and her siblings for 2 days, her mother has to get surgery because of something pre-cancerous just a whole lot of **** that she doesnt deserve
i am the only one of her friends that knows about all of this so she relies completely on me for support and stuff and i never know how to help her. . . we go and do stuff a lot so she can get away from it all and i talk to her but i dont know what else i can do i just want this to stop happening to her

2007-07-06 17:45:06 · 6 answers · asked by me 2 in Friends

well I am looking for ideas of simple stuff i can do over the next wee to show my wife that I love her. I started today with post-its on the bathroom mirrow while she was away and made sure i was "still at work" so she would not suspect it. I am looking for more simle ideas to make her know she is loved.

2007-07-06 17:42:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do you let go of the past to get on with the future? My marriage has seen better days and i think in order for us to see better days again, I need to let go of many things that my husband has done in the past. (nothing like cheating or beating) I just do not know how to forgive and forget. i try but it is always in my mind. I know we cannot move foward until i let go but I DONT KNOW HOW!! Please help. Serious answers only please. Thanks in advance.

2007-07-06 17:41:48 · 11 answers · asked by who are you anyway?? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-06 17:38:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he can't get off of me. 14 times a week is our average. what are some others signs he is on it besides ofcourse unbelievably hard and h0rny

(night...morning...night...morning...etc)

2007-07-06 17:34:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

period I purchased a house, would my ex spouse have any rights on it during a divorce?

2007-07-06 17:34:15 · 14 answers · asked by Joe S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok im bisexual now and im 15 every guy i have been with have hurt me in some way theres always been a reason to brake up with me (i like your sister, i cheated on you and i never liked you, you were a peice of ***, your to young) all of these have happend to me and more and im soo tired of it im going lesbian is this a bit drastic

2007-07-06 17:34:14 · 22 answers · asked by Katelyn G 2 in Singles & Dating

It happens to me so much every day. So much I can't get things done. Guys stalk me like I'm a celebrity or something. What can I do to make myself ugly to get these sorry jerks off my back?

2007-07-06 17:34:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean "true love". We are ordered to remain chaste as long as we are unmarried. Sex is only for married people. Fornication and adultery are strictly forbidden.

OK, I understand how precious these rules are, but does that mean that "true love" will only occur after marriage? Is there true love before marriage? If so, could this mean that love is actually more psychological than physical?

2007-07-06 17:32:47 · 11 answers · asked by Ash'ari Maturidi 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Seriously, I'm wanting to know.

2007-07-06 17:30:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It never worked out with my lover and I but, now my baby daddy has someone else in his life I know that his not happy because I know him but do you think that I should move on or tell him how I really feel even though I had cheated.....

2007-07-06 17:25:45 · 16 answers · asked by bunny 1 in Marriage & Divorce