Family & Relationships - 6 July 2007

I have a loving boyfriend who will do anything and everything for me. People say that we are even soulmates. Don't get me wrong I love him with all of my heart. But sometimes I don't even want to be around him. I can't explain why. I don't know why I'm so unhappy. So is there something wrong with me or should we break up? I just don't know what to do.

2007-07-06 12:22:15 · 42 answers · asked by Ashes 2 in Singles & Dating

My friends are trying to make me break the rules at my school but i'm not that kind of person. when school ended they still thought i was a goodie- goody. next year they might try 2 make me break the rules again. what should i do?????

2007-07-06 12:21:47 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm tierd of saying "I love you" to my boyfriend because after a while it doesn't feel like it means anything..any ideas of things i can do to show him i love him? thanks! ♥

2007-07-06 12:21:35 · 8 answers · asked by southernsweetie 3 in Singles & Dating

I am with this guy that I had a previos relationship with...we ended it seven months ago. We've been intimate a few times since then but lately he has been asking me over pretty much every night and when I get ready to leave he gets sad and asks me to stay. Well last night I tried to discuss things with him a little and see what he was thinking about us and he just looked me in the eyes and said I wish things could be different and I asked how and he said "it doesn't matter because they can't be" to give a little insight we are divorced and I feel like we had just gotten married too soon, we are both in our early twenties and I think we both still have a lot of growing up to do. But I feel like now he is acting like he wants me back in the girlfriend capacity but he won't let himself. Am I wrong?

2007-07-06 12:19:44 · 12 answers · asked by hideemosquito 2 in Singles & Dating

My great grandmother (my mom's granma) died a couple days ago and I am having a really tough time dealing with it, but how do I comfort my mom? I have been really depressed and I don't know do and how to comfort her...how can I be strong for her? Please help!

2007-07-06 12:18:24 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Jara-Lee♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 10 yrs old and my cousin is 9. we live in the same state, different towns. we are both girls. the kids in my school, (i'm going into 5th grade) all look older than their ages. they are all in puberty and some of the kids have their periods and have bigger boobs and are at least 5 foot. all the kids in her school (she's going into 4th grade) all look so young and the 5th graders look like 2nd graders and they probably all start puberty in like 6th 7th grade. my cousin does not know responsibility! she thinks she is a baby. i told her she's growing up but she dosesn't listen. she still has her baby blanket! i have my period and i am 77 lbs. she didn't even start puberty...58 lbs! she thinks shut up is a bad word. she thinks stupid is a bad word. she doesn't know responsibility! how can i tell her she acts like a 6 yr old! other details please!

thank you!

2007-07-06 12:15:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well a couples of months i broke-up with my boyfriend, and well now im sure that im completely over him, but now it seems that he is in a new relationship, and for a reason i dont like it, i dont feel jealous or nothing, but i completely dont understand why if i have no feeling towards him, i care so much about what he does, or if he gets to be with another girl, i wat to think that is because we where eachother kinda first love..i really want to know why i feel this way, is that would mean i still have feelings towards him...well thanks for your time ! : )

2007-07-06 12:09:04 · 18 answers · asked by CRAZYINLOVE! 1 in Singles & Dating

feel odd about posting this but i rly need sum help ... it goes like this ... i know her and i rly rly rly rly rly rly like her ... we talk daily (phone;online), everynight ... we do things together ... but still i don know what's in her mind ... and ... i really think that i should say smth but i dunno what ... we're getting along so well and i always say that i'll w8 4 the best time to tell her what i feel ... but now i'm tired of waitin and i'm afraid that soon it'll be 2 late ... what should i do ? the fact that i could lose her makes me very sad ...

2007-07-06 12:08:48 · 13 answers · asked by notme 2 in Singles & Dating

Our kids 10,11,12yrs. Other kids are 23, 21, 20-girls by one woman & 14-boy by another. All of this was B4 we met. I found out by his mom 3dys B4 wedding. DEVASTATED. He has no relationship w/any of them. Never did. Since we married I demanded blood tests, he claimed they weren't his. All tests came back yes and he has been paying childsupport since. My kids do not know. Should we tell them? Our daughter thinks she is the only girl, but there are three daughters of his out there. Our oldest son thinks he is the first born and named after my husband. Thing is, I found out the 14yr boy is named after my husband also. I feel this complicates things more. I am carrying this in order to protect my kids from heartache. I keep them away from his family so they will not find out. I think of this and often times HATE my husband but am starting to hate myself for choosing to marry him and put future kids in the middle of it. He's an excellent father/husband, there's just this one thing. HELP!!!!

2007-07-06 12:08:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Yes he has cheated on me, i plan to spend the next 6months while he is on tour in iraqa getting over us cuz we will more then likly be getting a divorce. But he leaves in two weeks, should i go see him a couple days before he is gone for 6months or stay away so i dont get suckered into ne fights or him trying to make me feel bad for not trusting him. what should i do?

2007-07-06 12:06:09 · 24 answers · asked by corrick_1 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-06 12:00:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have these 4 friends. We use to be close, but haven't really talk since an incedent took place a few weeks ago (they were working on a project without me- which wouldn't have made me mad. But I noticed that when they saw me in the distance they tried to act like they didn't see me. Which really irritated me and caused me call them out on their bluff by stoping to say hello to the Bit$%^ and wishing them well on the project). Now anyway- since then we haven't hungout or even really talked. So now my question is why do they still feel the need to talk about me behind my back? From what I know, not serious stuff, but they always seem to be trying to get into my business like indirectly making fun of my car my appartment, and lack there of social life. I never even asks about what these ho's are up to. so I don't unerstand why they care. Someone give me insight as to what there deal is?

2007-07-06 11:59:38 · 7 answers · asked by breezy 3 in Friends

after you kissed a guy, what do you say?

2007-07-06 11:50:40 · 16 answers · asked by Kaylieee 2 in Singles & Dating

if a guy says he wants to go down on u, wat exactly does it entail of? i mean, i kno the overall idea, but.....?

(sry if this is crude...!)

2007-07-06 11:45:39 · 6 answers · asked by Sofia N 1 in Singles & Dating

Who here is sick of this pathetic little Troll, and hopes that little zachie ends up losing much more than just the one arm?

Come back to the Library, dad, and finish the job!!!!!!!!

2007-07-06 11:45:22 · 3 answers · asked by Bubbles 5 in Family

You ask a question cause you are upset and they diss you. I mean sometimes you just need someone to bs a little and say everything is ok or things will turn out fine. People on this site are rude and cruel. I mean they could at least be nicer when they answer the question instead of pointing the finger and saying your an awful person.

2007-07-06 11:35:59 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems as though it's just a "thing" people do now if they've been together for a little while. It's like it doesn't hold the same sentimental value and sacrement it did in the past because people know they can get it divorced or anulled so easily as we see so often in Hollywood. I figure why pay a whole bunch of money to go through procedure when one could just not get married and just be together for ever without any ceremony or go to the justice of the peace. Any why do marriage divorces cost so much with these prenups and alimony and child support? Gosh!

2007-07-06 11:30:40 · 8 answers · asked by radioactive_babywipes 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i went to hawaii and meet this really cute guy and he flirted with me and stuff but i never got his name or email address not even a number and i can stop thinking about him and i just found out that another boy in my class liked me bit i cant stop thing about the boy from hawaii what should i do

2007-07-06 11:30:33 · 18 answers · asked by hannah w 1 in Singles & Dating

Who are you, and why did you answer this?

How do you feel about that lead-in: "For the ladies..."?

Are you even female?

If only there was a way to find out who ignored this question.

2007-07-06 11:21:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If so, what keeps you happy??

2007-07-06 11:21:00 · 14 answers · asked by Alisha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I already know I'm not the most talkative person, and don't really know how to be naturally friendly to people but I do at least say HI. The problem is that I never know what to say after that. My mind just goes blank and a kind of look at the other person willing them to sy something. I just can't carry a conversation even when I have something to say. Am I giving off some type of mean-person vibe or something?

2007-07-06 11:17:50 · 7 answers · asked by RedR0ses 2 in Friends

I am only 5'1 and my boyfriend is above average height - probably like 6'2 (aka a head or taller than me). I this weird? Do you think he's bothered by how short I am?

2007-07-06 11:17:39 · 31 answers · asked by mels211 1 in Singles & Dating

i need to find a site that i can wright about an ex partner that people need to be warned about....
where is a go place to do such a thing.....

2007-07-06 11:17:38 · 6 answers · asked by sexygirl4u083 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My father highly pisses me off, he was never a dad, has other kids outside of marriage that i never knew about for awhile, and is selfish. He doesn't like to pay bills.

All throughout my academics, he did not support me not once. He offered not one dime to help with school tuition. In fact, he doesn't take care of any of his other kids. My mom has gone through hell, and I don't know why she continues to stay with this clown.

I get so enraged i conceive thoughts of premeditated murder with a firearm or taking a heavy object and making it one with his head. I sometimes can't help it. Plus, he's very close-minded to see the errors of his ways. All the pain he has caused me and my mom brings me to conceiving such thoughts of homicide.

2007-07-06 11:16:50 · 7 answers · asked by Enigma 1 in Family

2007-07-06 11:16:26 · 2 answers · asked by iMarty 4 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for mor ethan 2 months and i am not her first bf. i know she has given it to her other bf's but how do i get her to give me one?

2007-07-06 11:14:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my girlfriend and really want to be with her but she is making it really hard for me. She developed minor acne on her face about 4 months ago and she doesnt want to be seen by anybody including ME!! I do see her but just barely (once every two or three weeks). We talk everyday on the phone and I try to bring her up by complimenting her and saying nice things but she tells me to stop doing that. Also, she doesnt show me any affection at all -she says if she doesnt love herself she cant love anybody. This used to be a very great relationship until the acne and I dont care about the acne because I love her and I know she loves me too. Why cant she understand that?? Im really trying to make it work but shes making it really hard for me. I want it to work, what can I do??

2007-07-06 11:09:05 · 8 answers · asked by StraPPeD!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I've met this guy we've spoken a couple of times but don't really know one another. I thought he was gorgeous immediatly but thought he wouldn't look at me twice. But he was flirting with me a little and i'm really quite shy about these things, but now we have this really intense connection. I think about him romantically practically all the time. I feel all warm inside and I know he thinks about me too. This has been going on for two months.

Has he fallen in love with me? Am I in love with him? Or is it just a need for sex?

2007-07-06 11:08:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a boy i know died two nights ago. he was in a car accident and his brother was driving. a friend from school just texted me today with the funeral date and i dont know if i should go or not. i wasn't really close to him. in fact, i hardly spoke to him at all during the semester he went. do you know if you need an invitation to go to a funeral? i don't know if anyone else i know is going either. please help me.

2007-07-06 11:05:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-06 11:05:43 · 8 answers · asked by puppylovr203 1 in Family