I am with this guy that I had a previos relationship with...we ended it seven months ago. We've been intimate a few times since then but lately he has been asking me over pretty much every night and when I get ready to leave he gets sad and asks me to stay. Well last night I tried to discuss things with him a little and see what he was thinking about us and he just looked me in the eyes and said I wish things could be different and I asked how and he said "it doesn't matter because they can't be" to give a little insight we are divorced and I feel like we had just gotten married too soon, we are both in our early twenties and I think we both still have a lot of growing up to do. But I feel like now he is acting like he wants me back in the girlfriend capacity but he won't let himself. Am I wrong?
2007-07-06 12:19:44 · 12 answers · asked by hideemosquito 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you already know the answer to your question,but I will tell you all over again he is USING YOU FOR SEX and only you can stop it yes you do need to grow up and this is a great time and place in your life that you can and need to start
2007-07-06 12:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by heavenlli_61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he may still want something with you relationship wise. I don't know of the circumstances of how you guys broke up or how serious it was, but it definitley looks to be that it isn't just a booty call, to him in any case. You really need to just examine your own feelings and decide whats best for you. If HE is a booty call to YOU, you might want to move on at this point since it seems he is getting a little more serious about the subject. However, if you are harboring feelings as well, I would sit him down again and have a nice long talk about what the future holds for both of you. Good luck!
2007-07-06 19:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by Enjoyinglife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it could still be a booty call but you should really talk to him and ask him what he really wants because i dont think is a good idea to get him used to just a booty call that will more like he just using you!may be he is just not ready for a commitment so i think you should really talk to him !
2007-07-06 19:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by shorty! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its a booty call if your not gonna stay with him. Do you still have feelings for him and want it to work? If you do, no your not wrong at ALL.
2007-07-06 19:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a booty call to me....maybe he just wants to tag you again in the morning
2007-07-06 19:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a safe piece of tail,sorry gal but if don't want to commit or don't want to talk then yes you are a booty call
2007-07-06 19:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds really shady. If he wanted to date you again, wouldn't he just SAY that? Sounds like he's with someoene else but wants to have s*x with you still.
2007-07-06 19:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he doesn't want you back. He's just using you for sex. He'll drop you like a hot potato when something better comes along.
2007-07-06 19:22:59 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont fall for this one. hes working his charm on someone else and using you in the process. Drop this guy quick before he drops you and you feel completely used.
2007-07-06 19:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by lil ol me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it seems that he does. men dont like being wrong, so if he says he wants you back its kinda like saying he was wrong. if you want him back your gunna have to be the one who says something. lets face it, men are stubborn.
2007-07-06 19:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by melissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋