well a couples of months i broke-up with my boyfriend, and well now im sure that im completely over him, but now it seems that he is in a new relationship, and for a reason i dont like it, i dont feel jealous or nothing, but i completely dont understand why if i have no feeling towards him, i care so much about what he does, or if he gets to be with another girl, i wat to think that is because we where eachother kinda first love..i really want to know why i feel this way, is that would mean i still have feelings towards him...well thanks for your time ! : )
2007-07-06 12:09:04 · 18 answers · asked by CRAZYINLOVE! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after me and him we broke up, i went out with someone else
2007-07-06 12:37:25 · update #1
It is a normal stage we go thru. You will all ways have feelings for him no matter what cause he was your first love and that is hard to see him with someone else and not you. You must occupy your time so it gives you less time to think about what he is doing. Wen he finds out about you he may have those same feelings as well.
2007-07-06 12:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would predict you still have not gotten over him. It does not mean you are jealous, but deep down in side maybe you feel less than her. You must understand that people can fall in love with eachother, and still care for eachother after a break up. I am sure in a few years when you look back over this, you will be able to think of him without those uncomfortable feelings
2007-07-06 19:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you probably still do have some feelings for him but that's OK and normal. The reason you may not like it is because he has moved on and found someone else and you have not yet. Once you find someone else those feeling will go away. You just don't wont him to move on before you. He has now you need to.
2007-07-06 19:13:41 · answer #3 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you don't like to think that he could get over you so easily. You make it sound as if you haven't gotten a new boyfriend and the fact that he does have another gf makes it appear as if your relationship was a thing of the past that he got over quickly.
2007-07-06 19:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by kusainezumi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems to me that you are in a sense of denile !! the guy and u break up and u think u are over it well now it bothers you so that is a singn that means something now that he is trully gone or at least now he is someone elses those feeling come out naturally because that is what u felt all along but tought something else !! so u still have feelings for him !!!
good luck!!
2007-07-06 19:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by cecilia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you still have some feelings for him, whether you like it or not. I think it might also be that if you guys had a really good time together, you're jealous that he and his new girl could be as happy as you were. Don't worry, it's natural. Your feelings will fade over time.
2007-07-06 19:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal, like you said, because you were each other's first love. I was strangely sad when I heard my first boyfriend got married, which was about 10 years after we broke up. It's normal :)
2007-07-06 19:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by christine_ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily, maybe its just being human but if they are not doing well without you , things seem so much better and just the opposite, if they appear to have gotten over you and now have another gf, it does still play on our emotions..it doesn't always mean your not over him.
2007-07-06 19:14:47 · answer #8 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. The same thing happened to me. Your just confused. Just remain his friend and find a new boy. everything will work out.
2007-07-06 19:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he moved on before you did and it makes you mad. Get out there and find someone, will help you forget about him being with someone else.
2007-07-06 19:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by harleychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋