I've met this guy we've spoken a couple of times but don't really know one another. I thought he was gorgeous immediatly but thought he wouldn't look at me twice. But he was flirting with me a little and i'm really quite shy about these things, but now we have this really intense connection. I think about him romantically practically all the time. I feel all warm inside and I know he thinks about me too. This has been going on for two months.
Has he fallen in love with me? Am I in love with him? Or is it just a need for sex?
2007-07-06 11:08:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well for me, I crushed (was cruched back), lusted (was lusted back) fell in love (was loved back), and I am extremely happily married. There`s just no end in sight. Just go for it, be genuine and good things happen.
2007-07-06 11:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by Ashlee C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly Love has nothing to do with a crush, lust or like.
Those just act to attract you initially.
I will tell you when I knew I loved my wife completely and wholly was when she gave birth to our child. Sure I loved her before but I cleaned up her bed after pushing our baby out for 30 hours. Thats just not blood I am talking about.
I stood by her side when she was terrified in the hospital.
We have a connection that I have never felt before.
As you date you think you love people but one day you will REALLY know what love is and it is amazing.
2007-07-06 11:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw cummon now. How in the hell can anyone give an answer as to what goes inside the head, heart and the pants of two individuals we know next to nothing about.
Maybe you should call on one of the C.S.I. teams for an analysis of these three areas of investigation, if n you really want an answer.
The only other one I can offer up it to simply say the likely boring one one of, 'give it time,' then you'll know.
Good luck.
Sash.
2007-07-06 11:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no time limit, no signs to look for or no rules to go by. If you have to ask then the answer is probably no it's not love. Have some fun and relax, flirting can just be flirting & nothing more. Enjoy it!
2007-07-06 11:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by munkydogg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you care more about his happiness than yours then it is love. Anything less is lust, crush, or a lessor version of love. Don't worry about it. Go with the flow and see where the stream takes you. It may turn into a river.
2007-07-06 11:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust is the butterflies in the stomach always wanting to be around that person and stuff-yuk
now love is-sitting on the couch together fighting over a bag of chips,then you lift your leg ever so gently and let one off,argue over that a little,then start another argument over what to watch next, now THATS LOVE
2007-07-06 12:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by multicurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not love, its lust. You actually have to get to know a person to love them! Its the attraction that makes you think of him constantly, thats a good thing but love comes through respect, admiration and experiences.
2007-07-06 11:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by MysticMaiden2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its love. Thats how I felt about my ex. It was the most amazing feeling in the world. Honestly wait it out, try not to have sex... I think that makes things confusing because "sex" is over-rated... ecspecially cause when people do have sex they think its love. I dont think that one bit. its all about the inner connection...
2007-07-06 11:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by Mo' Sigg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you willing to do what it takes to find out girlie?Got the ovaries it takes?Are you willing to lose him if he doesn't love you?There IS one sure way to find out.Tell him NO sex of ANY kind until you are married.Stick with it no matter what he says and does, you will get your answer in time.
2007-07-06 11:11:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in the raging hormones part of the relationship. Enjoy... it really doesn't last forever (but love can).
2007-07-06 11:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋