My friends are trying to make me break the rules at my school but i'm not that kind of person. when school ended they still thought i was a goodie- goody. next year they might try 2 make me break the rules again. what should i do?????
2007-07-06 12:21:47 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should talk to your parents and ask them. Believe, most likely they went through something like this when they were in your age or close. They will give you a good advise because they love you.
Do not be afraid to trust them. Good luck.
2007-07-06 12:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stand up for what you know is best! You are NOT a goody-goody, and you'll believe me when those "friends" are possibly in jail for breaking rules, and hopefully, you won't be, b/c you didn't just join in. They just want to influence you so they can feel better about themselves. They know it's wrong, that's why they don't want you to point that out. You sound like a great, strong person....keep it up! Rewards will come, and there are other kids who don't want to break rules out there. Hope you find some real friends. A real friend won't try to get you to do something you know is wrong.
2007-07-06 12:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Dj 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a mind of your own and you can make decisions by yourself. These are not really good friends if they are trying to get you to do the wrong things. Do not let them break you down stand your ground who cares what they think cause in the end no one will be getting int o real major trouble but you and they will be sitting on the sit laughing at you. Next time tell them that your not going to do it and they should not do it either cause they will never know what the consequences may end up being and just walk off and go to class. You have to be the leader and not the follower.
2007-07-06 12:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't ever go against your judgement. Let me tell you, ask my son. He is a "goody goody" and he got caught up with some bad decisions on his friends part and they did a beer run. My son doesn't drink and didn't know really what was going on. The police came to the door and arrested him, so now it is community service and fines and more. All because of a bad decision.
The schools are so tough now a says, be careful. They will arrest you for pranks....
Follow your gut and your heart.
2007-07-06 12:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by Chelle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, dont worry all summer about something that may or may not happen. if and when the time comes that anyone tries to make you do something that doesn't feel right to you, simply tell them "that's not me". goodie-goodys end up with homes, good credit and decent lives. not to say you'll never have problems, but breaking laws/rules sure wont add to your life.
2007-07-06 12:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by kimm24seven 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends, people that want you to do things you know are wrong and hound you about it aren't your friends, if they were they wouldn't want you to do anything that could get you into trouble because they would truly care about you as a person and not just someone they can push around.... Also someone mentioned you won't be the one sitting in the Principals office waiting for Mom & Dad to pick you up or worse yet the Police and then if you want to go to College your chance could be messed up just for breaking the rules....Good Luck and God Bless :-)
2007-07-06 12:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what if you are a 'goodie-goodie'? Is it so bad to act with honor and integrity?
Breaking the rules is only fun until you get caught and feel the reprecussions.
2007-07-06 12:24:35 · answer #7 · answered by Diddy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-08 08:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if they are your friends they should listen to your oppinion and let you do what you feel comfortable with. First you should comfront them and basically say that you aren't into doing that kind of thing. If you don't want to break rules and they keep pressuring you then I would gradually start hanging out with other people until I didnt hang out with them much at all.
2007-07-06 12:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either find new friends or just continue to stick by your choice, not to break the rules. I think doing the right thing is harder than breaking the rules.
2007-07-06 12:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by reggie29 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't break the rules...it's not you, and it's not polite whatsoever...if they want you to break the rules, why are you calling them your friends? friends don't peer pressure you into doing bad things...and even if they do call you a "goody-goody", don't let it get to you...
sorry that this happened to you sweetie!
~always me~guitarzz4me123~
2007-07-06 12:29:06 · answer #11 · answered by alli 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋