feel odd about posting this but i rly need sum help ... it goes like this ... i know her and i rly rly rly rly rly rly like her ... we talk daily (phone;online), everynight ... we do things together ... but still i don know what's in her mind ... and ... i really think that i should say smth but i dunno what ... we're getting along so well and i always say that i'll w8 4 the best time to tell her what i feel ... but now i'm tired of waitin and i'm afraid that soon it'll be 2 late ... what should i do ? the fact that i could lose her makes me very sad ...
2007-07-06 12:08:48 · 13 answers · asked by notme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
come straight out and tell her. take her out to dinner/drinks and just confess. be honest, embrace your answer, and give her some time to think.
2007-07-06 12:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losing her as a good friend is very possible. However, I was in a similar situation and was in no position to budge from the friendship status until he asked me out. If she does like you, she won't wait forever.
So I'd suggest looking at her body language for clues as to whether or not she does like you. It can be small stuff like whether or not she goes at great lengths to talk to you (like traveling from the other side of the room to you), is hesitant at leaving after you guys hung out... I can't think of any more, but if she is like I was, she'll be in very much of the same situation you are, wondering if you like her (or she's confused about her own feelings) and doesn't want to lose what you have.
2007-07-06 19:20:56 · answer #2 · answered by kusainezumi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime is the right time to express how you feel towards someone. Everybody likes to know that they're liked, so even if she doesn't feel the same way about you then she'll be understanding. The chances are though that since you guys spend so much time with eachother that she likes you too, i dont think you have much to worry about, so go for it!
good luck : )
2007-07-06 19:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her right away b4 its too late. or u can send her an e-mail ( that would probably be the easiest bcuz then it wont be as awkward and she wont feel uncomfortable about what to say back. or u can IM it to her.) if u want do it in person but id do it online. its a lot easier!! good luck and can u maybe post what happens when u tell her?!!? thanx!
2007-07-06 19:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by cassaaaay !(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all depends it sound like u will have to weight whats more important the friendship or her being with u !! think about it but dont rush things this might sound cheese but u just need to hold on and dont give up if it happens it is meant to be so from what i read i came to the conclution that you should tell her she might feel the same way !!!!
good luck!!
2007-07-06 19:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by cecilia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are some kind of stupid, get up of your a** get dress and go talk to her, IN PERSON, not on the phone, not on the internet IN PERSON, and tell her how you feel about her, if you don't then you will lose her and you will regret it, go out and get your woman don't be no chicken a**.
BD
2007-07-06 19:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by Black Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to tell her, but don't blurt it out, kinda makes me a lil awkard if a guy blurts out his feelings for me especially if i dont lik em. but before u tell her... does she ever tlk to you bout anyone she likes, does she like anyone at the moment? if she says she does but she doesnt want to tell u hu it is, it cud well be you. neways, during your convosation with her ask her bout her love life - if she fancies neone that sorta thing, cus wen she is done she will ask you the same question. dont just say you. be like well i ave liked someone for ages i reli like em wat shud i do? she will say tell them, then you can say i think i just did, trust me it might take a while for her to realise - past experiences. then wen she knows your interested just casually ask her if there is any possibilty she feels the same etc... hope this helps x
2007-07-06 19:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel if she doesnt feel the same way then hell tough mayb next time, but if yall get along so well then it shouldnt change things 2 much
2007-07-06 19:13:20 · answer #8 · answered by Money Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a grip on reality ! phone sex is the same as yahoo , its a game place for most , if your gonna do then do it , meet her and go from there , but if she will do this on the phone with you who says not with someone else , the same for you , its not reality until you make it reality ,
2007-07-06 19:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by gate_heavens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres always a chance of losing sumthing you want or have. but u need to put urself out to her and tell her how u feel
2007-07-06 19:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋