I have a perfect boyfriend so why am I not happy?

Question

I have a loving boyfriend who will do anything and everything for me. People say that we are even soulmates. Don't get me wrong I love him with all of my heart. But sometimes I don't even want to be around him. I can't explain why. I don't know why I'm so unhappy. So is there something wrong with me or should we break up? I just don't know what to do.

Answer 1

It's very natural to feel that way. Just b/c everyone says your perfect together doesn't mean that you are though, but if you feel that you are and he's really good too you then the problem is that you might be spending to much time together....... its very important that when 2 people are together that they have their own hobbies or something - anything....... maybe after work you go do yoga or he leaves to go lift or play basketball or poker w/ the fella's giving you your own space to where you miss him from time to time........ its good to miss someone, it makes you appreciate them more, but you need to give yourself an opportunity to miss someone or to atleast just get a breather........ an other reason is he might be a great guy but you still seek attention from other guys- so go out w/ the girls one night have a few arogant self-absorbed guys hit on you ( and thats it!) and not only will u be satisfied but you will appreciate your loving boyfriend more............ worst case scenario you might be one of those girls that likes guys that treat you crappy - in that case b/4 you break this guys heart just let him go easy and let him hook up w/ a nice girl and then go hook up w/ some self-absorbed loser!

Answer 2

If you love him with all your heart, definitely do not break up. You'd need a really good reason to break up with a guy who will do anything and everything for you. Sometimes when you are around someone for long you tend to want to break away. Everyone needs a little wriggle room, some space. You know you still love him but maybe there are some things that get that tiny bit annoying about him that cause you to feel that way. If you break up you might never meet someone like him again or never get back together.

Answer 3

It's partly because your hormones went up....and then dived. That's natural. If you feel smothered, what you need to do is find things you HAVEN'T done. If you're always hanging out, going to the movies etc, find something else to do. Or if there's nothing to do, then bring some friends along and just have a group date.

And when you say love, is it really love, or passion? If you've been passionate (you know, that feeling in your stomach, the need to be around him 24/7...) then it's just kicking in that maybe you two aren't so perfect. It's always better to be friends first. :) Good luck!

Answer 4

well maybe u love him and have been with him so ong that u r getingbored in the relatiinship or either yall have juss been togetjer so long that u want someone new. It is possible to love someone and not like them keep that in mind. But i really do think that u and him really need to sit down and have a talk to find out what exactly is the main base of the problem and then start from there.
Good Luck

Answer 5

Your happiness has nothing to do with boyfriends. It has to do with you. Do you know what you really want? I would think not. The negative emotion you feel, maybe confusion, maybe doubt, whatever, indicates that you are going in the wrong direction to get to what you want. Your soul or inner self is letting you know. Think hard about what you prayed or hoped for in the past because the deliveryman is at your door and he is knocking. He won't go away either unless you decide that you want to cancel your order or at least to change it. All is Well. Much Joy to you!

Answer 6

No, don't break up with him. You love him don't take a chance to break up. Think about it. I mean women always have emotional stage sometimes, maybe you're at it right now. I guess you are the person that likes to be alone sometime, that's perfectly fine. A good idea would be writing con and pro. It always help.

Answer 7

Do not make the same mistake my friend did. she was in a great relationship with an amazing guy but she felt the same way so she broke up with him and she's regretted it for the last 6 months. just make sure you're not abandoning your friends for ur guy or the other way around just rather than going to the movies with your guy every weekend spend some time with your girls. if he starts becoming jealous of them then break up.

Answer 8

well maybe you two should just take a break for awhile and if you like that better then being with him maybe you two should end your relationship , && of course there is nothing wrong with you if happens to just about everyone so maybe just tell him that you aren't as happy anymore and you need a lil time to think for yourself like take a week or two away from him and if you miss him a lot then maybe you just needed a lil space and that you really do l.o.v.e him && if you don't miss him and you end up being happier than usual then of course break it down to him.

Answer 9

I dont' think anything is wrong with you, it sounds like you just need 'me-time'

Perhaps you are just feeling a little suffocated, because you're always near each other. I suggest making like one or two (heck even 4) nights a week "me-time" where all you do is hang out by yourself, or do things that you like doing. If he really loves you, he'll respect the fact you you need time alone.

Answer 10

it depends on how long you have been together. It is always good to have some time apart. Then you will realize that u love him if u love him because you would miss him. Maybe you should take a road trip or something for about a week or two and think over your relationship.