ok im bisexual now and im 15 every guy i have been with have hurt me in some way theres always been a reason to brake up with me (i like your sister, i cheated on you and i never liked you, you were a peice of ***, your to young) all of these have happend to me and more and im soo tired of it im going lesbian is this a bit drastic
2007-07-06 17:34:14 · 22 answers · asked by Katelyn G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not at all...but the same thing can happen in same-sex relationships too. You'll find as you get older that you might get your taste for men back. I was the same way at your age...but I really thought I was a lesbian from the rip. Turns out that I'm not. I still like women but I'm very happy with my man!
2007-07-06 17:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think choosing to be a lesbian is drastic, but I'd hope that you would follow your sexual orientation where it leads you. If you're still attracted (both mentally and physically) to men, just as you are to women, then still pursue dating guys too, if you feel like it. Although guys have probably hurt you in the past, don't turn away from dating them unless thats not what you're attracted too. It could be that you deserve much better and that you have to raise your standards a bit in the type of guys you're dating.
As a heterosexual female, I often can see heartache coming when a guy arrives because I try to figure out early on what type of guy this is and what type of guy he has the potential to be. Trust your instincts. If you feel early on that the guy is a jerk, believe that and move along to someone better or wait til something better comes along. There are good guys out there, its just kinda rough fishing through all of them to find the right one. So, don't give up on dating guys unless you are totally uninterested in them and you're led to do that.
2007-07-07 00:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, way too drastic.
Maybe, because you are so young, you should leave sex alone. Honestly, I don't think you fully understood the ramifications of having sex too young--because you are too young to be having sex with ANYONE, man or woman.
Just because you move to the other gender doesn't mean that you won't have the same problems...if not worse problems. Women can be more devious, manipulative, and cunning than men. So if a man cheated on you, what do you think a woman would do to you?
Put the breaks on sex, sex will not make you happy. To the contrary, sex will make every decision about every person you sleep with even harder.
2007-07-07 00:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are fifteen. Personally, I think you are too young to decide to be strictly a lesbian. As you get older guys will be better at being boyfriends. At this age boys are learning how to have girlfriends and how to treat them. You might find that girls would treat you the same way. Hang on, see both males and females, but wait to make a decision.
2007-07-07 00:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by D M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Katelyn G guys at 15 or 16 are very immature. As you get older you will meet nice guys and not so nice guys. Always guard your heart and take your time getting to know someone. Always remember anyone who truly cares about you will not offer love only under certain conditions!
Going lesbo because a few immature boys acted like well
immature boys is not your best option
2007-07-07 19:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by Buffet4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 15. Don't make any decisions like that until you are old enough to know what you want. And excuse my language, but guys your age are, for the most part, immature assholes. As you get older you will find that guys tend to mature a little and won't treat you as poorly as a 15 year old guy will.
2007-07-07 00:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by Brewtus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young. And there is nothing wrong with "going lesbian". You still have many years of learning who you are. You will be fine in the end. There are many wonderful men out there and there are some bastards. Some goes for women. Just have fun dating and you will be fine.
2007-07-07 01:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by son_of_glen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course that is drastic. you have horrible tasted in men. stop being so dependent on men because women are just as bad as men. I think you should go single for a little while to see what you want in life before looking for a mate.
2007-07-07 00:40:15 · answer #8 · answered by littlegirly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is way over the edge cus you or only 15 you need to test the waters but not that way..cas weather it is a guy or girl they are all the same ..So just play it safe till you find the right..You will
2007-07-07 00:39:49 · answer #9 · answered by melme_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm yea...only go lesbian if you truly are not attracted to guys anymore..but just bcuz you feel like giving up on them really isn't a good reason..or fair to the people who actually are lesbian
2007-07-07 00:39:18 · answer #10 · answered by berry's the best 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋