What do people think about having oral sex if a person has never done it before but wants to wait until marriage for sex. I'm still a virgin, but want to know what people think about doing this or fooling around in other ways before marriage.
Also, is being engaged a reason to loosen up and experiment some more? I'm not engaged yet but am wondering what other virgins have done.
Anyone with experience in these areas or from a religious background, please answer my post. I don't feel comfortable asking other people I know since it's such a sensitive issue for me. Also, most people I know my age don't value virginity as much as I do.
2007-07-06 17:18:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if yiou are truely saving yourself then you should avoid oral sex until marriage, as that is a form of sexual contact and is considered a sin (before marriage).
2007-07-06 17:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is still sex...whether it's oral , anal or whatever. Sex is still sex. Just like a lie is still lie...whether is little white lie or a big lie. You should wait until you are in love and go do it with your future husband. It's cleaner, safer and right.
I was a virgin untill I was 29. I still had lots of oral sex with my ex. It's still sex like I said before. Good luck to you
2007-07-07 03:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by Warrior Guardian 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What part of "oral sex" don't you understand? to be blunt but you asked. you will be puting his penis in your mouth untill he has a orgasm. Does that sound like not having sex to you?
you said you are waintig till marriage until you have sex.
Would you go and talk to who ever leads your church and tell them we ane not having sex but I gave my BF a BJ. I think you are looking for justification to fool around by asking what have others done, this has nothing to do with what others have done and everything about whaty you do. You can try to fool yourself and say it is not sex, but in the end all you have done is have sex and to top it off you have lied about it yourself and GOD.
2007-07-07 00:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well,it says in the bible not to have oral sex anyway,so if you plan on doing that,you might as well bang anyway!
2007-07-07 02:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
save it for when youre married, its still a form of sex...
2007-07-07 19:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
According to former President Bill Clinton it is not Sex*... Go for it*....
2007-07-07 11:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you shouldn't. i'm a virgin and loving it. i won't push it until i'm married.
2007-07-07 00:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by cali_girl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋