I went to live with my cousin for the summer to go to summer school and my boyfriend has some trusting issues. So far its been good but now he told me that he doesnt want to keep contact with me on the phone or internet or anything. He said that we can talk when i come back on weekends but other than that he doesnt want to talk to me.
what do i do?
2007-07-06 16:00:43 · 12 answers · asked by tiff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he is missing you. Its hard for men to admit that they miss someone. Sometimes they just shut you out so they dont have to think about you. How do you know this has to do with the trust issue? Ask him why he only wants to talk to you when you come back on weekends. I would tell him your not just a weekend girlfriend
2007-07-06 16:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask him why he feels this way? It sounds like he doesn't want to be in a relationship that is too far away. It might be more than he can handle. I would tell him that if he doesn't want to date you anymore, he needs to be honest with you. Usually a boyfriend and girlfriend do not go without at least some contact throughout the week in some fashion if they are away from each other. Sounds like he is waiting to tell you something in person. If he is trying to "dump" you, he may want to do it in person rather than be disrespectful over the phone. I would ask him why he feels this way.
2007-07-06 16:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid there is nothing you can really do. It is obvious that your boyfriend is having trust issues and is immature. Unfortunately, girls mature faster than boys. The only thing you can really do is to either wait for him to grow up or find a new boyfriend. I will keep you in my prayers. Peace and God bless.
2007-07-06 16:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he's trying to make this relationship just a convenience for him. by doing that he's totally dominating what he thinks should happen to make him comfortable. in other words he's trying to be controlling and see if he can get away with it. if he's only gonna talk to you on that rare of an occasion, then he's not worth your time and he's selfish and doesnt deserve you to begin with. i'm sorry if i sound harsh but this guy is being a loser right now
2007-07-06 16:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has trust issues you would think he want to talk to you more often...unless he's cheating on you. Some people who are cheating will not trust the other person even though they are doing the cheating.
2007-07-06 16:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by misstsukino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why , and what is the point of haveing a boyfriend if you only talk and see him on the weekends!!
2007-07-06 16:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by Americangrl4564 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me as if he is "cutting you off" and being very rude. And it does sound as if doesn't want anything to do with you unless you are RIGHT THERE with HIM. I'd let it go and don't talk to him, if he tries to contact you, then he realizes he's made a mistake, if he doesn't, then he's not worth it! GOOD LUCK! :)
2007-07-06 16:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should tell him, "Boy I swear to god if I find out that you cheat on me I'm going to call up a few of my older cousins to hunt you down and kick the mother F***ing S*** out of you." Then you should call one of your close friends to keep an eye on him, but your BF shouldn't know she/he is watching.
BD
2007-07-06 16:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by Black Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is an a s s hole. break up with him. he dsnt luv u enough to deserve u. youll find someone else...
2007-07-06 16:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by shorty babee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SCREW HIM!!!!!!!!!! why are girls always crying cuz he doesnt like you?! he's just another ***tard who lost you! you dont deserve him and he sinks way toooo low!!!!!!! move on !!! its NOT worth it !
2007-07-06 16:05:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋