I am white, she is asian. She wants me to go to her friend's wedding. And feels I am not supporting her. Help!
2007-07-06 12:33:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
you said a wedding OF a racist. does that mean the groom/bride is racist of white people? i think you should go anyway just to support her. weddings lose their fun when you go all by yourself and leave your loved one behind. talk to her about how you feel about the situation, but i think its a good idea to go just to be there for her and support her :) liuttle things like that make a woman ahppy
2007-07-06 12:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by one&only<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What proof do you have that this person is racist?
In general I would say no, because I believe that if you go to a wedding you are standing up with these people and saying you support the union.
2007-07-06 20:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the wedding. It's only a few hours of your life.
2007-07-06 19:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't go. Your wife is being very selfish by saying you aren't supporting her. You shouldn't have to go to a wedding of someone who is racist. By going, you are condoning that persons behavior. Your wife should understand that
2007-07-06 19:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by Joscelyn C 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
So, go to the wedding and support her. This isn't about the wedding, this is about your wife.
2007-07-06 19:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes go! Keep and make your wife happy. Also remember who says you have to enjoy it right... Oh yeah do u have an Ipod? Thats All I gotta say about that. Good luck with your decision.
2007-07-06 19:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by arty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go to make your wife happy. Remember: your not there for the racist your there for your wife.
2007-07-06 19:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by melissa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the wedding and if they say anything rude, leave.
2007-07-06 19:37:08 · answer #8 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should go with your wife. You will be spending all of the time with your wife anyway. Have fun!
2007-07-06 19:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wife will be upset if you don't attend, and the "racist" will probably not give a sh*t if you dont show up... and not notice that you are making a statement.. just go dude
2007-07-06 19:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋