On the last day of school this girl i liked said she liked me so we started going out. We talked online and met at the bowling ally and stuff on Friday nights. I live in Los Angeles and last weekend we went to the pier in Santa Monica and I thought it would be kinda romantic if we rode the ferris wheel at sunset. When we got off she slapped me and said "I hate ferris wheels!" And left. She acted fine and like she was having fun while we were riding it. She has never said anything about hating them. Please help how can I get her back?
2007-07-06 12:55:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, Should I feel guilty about ANYTHING?
2007-07-06 12:56:35 · update #1
wow lol she sounds bipolar to me. no offense or anything but loving it one moment and hating it the next is kinda out there. but if you want her back apologize and explain that you had no idea that she didn't like them
2007-07-06 13:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by VBall LuVa! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had the right idea..However it's not your fault that she hated Ferris Wheels. Maybe she had a badf experience in the past with them I don't know. She sould have told she hated them before riding with you on it. That would have been better for the both of you. Look..it's not your fault you got slapped. You had no idae hse hated those things. Don't feel bad abut it. she didn't speak up and she should have before gettin on the ride with you. I feel bad for you. What you can do is:
You can try and ask her out again and this time....ask her more questions about places she doesnt like and then don't take her to those places. Find a good place you both can agree on...so you both can fun too. You know? Try to make it a fun and light date...nothing heavy...ok? Good luck and be gentlemen...no funny stuff unless you want to get slapped again? Good luck and take it easy.
2007-07-06 13:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by Warrior Guardian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, she sounds wacky. I also hate ferris wheels. but I would have said something before you got on. I wouold have waited for you. You are not a mind reader, but next time you want to take a girl on a ride, ask her first. My mother learned she did not like roller coasters when she was on a blind date who took her for a ride on a roller coaster. She had never ridden one, so didn't know. The guy ended up with lipstick all over his shirt from where my mom hid her head on his chest during the ride. 2 years later she married him, and 3 years later they had me. Hopefully that stupid girl will apologize. The slap is either from nerves and she is embarrased, or she is just nuts. Good Luck.
2007-07-06 13:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by M S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she didn't say anything about hating Ferris wheels and actually got on one and finished the ride before slapping you and declaring that she hates them, she sounds like a mental case. You're better off without her.
If you'd like to find out if she's actually a mental case or was just having a bad relationship with reality, call her and find out.
2007-07-06 13:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by KD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look carefully at everything you did during the date. You might have Done something to upset her, and she is using the Ferris wheel to cover her anger. You also should have asked her if SHE wanted to go on the Ferris Wheel.
2007-07-06 13:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by Optimistically... 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, she was either on her period or else you're really dense. She sounds sort of psycho, too. Do you honestly want her back, because if she does this again and tears your heart apart, then what?
Just mark down the date, and see if she has problems about that time next month. If it's a pms thing, then you'll just have to learn to let her be on those days. Otherwise, take a step back and think about it - is she worth keeping, really?
2007-07-06 12:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by Yuki 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong and shouln't feel guilty. In fact, that girl is a ***** and you should dump her crazy @ss. There's something wierd and wrong with her to make her hit you for no reason whatsoever.
You don't need her and remember, you have no fault in this and it's SHE who's guilty.
You sound like a great guy, so now all you need is a great girl. Give this wierdo up and find her.
2007-07-06 13:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by saintmeghan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont feel guily..she didn't mention anything to you about ferris wheels...but if she wants to act like that id ditch her..thats totally nonsense and immature..apparently she doesn't want you..find someone else that likes ferris wheels and will tell you she hates something before she rides it or eats it or w.e!
2007-07-06 13:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u shouldn't feel guilty. if i were her i would've said hey i don't like them. If u really love her call her and tell her u r sorry and that u didn't know she hated them. make her see it wasn't ur fault and it really isn't. if she realizes the mistake she did she will see it wasn't ur fault. if she doesn't move on you'll find someone better.
2007-07-06 13:00:32 · answer #9 · answered by WonderWoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds freaky. I mean, you went through all this trouble and she slaps you? JERK! That's what she is. I'm sorry she slapped you, it's nothing you did. If I were you, I don't know if I'd want her back.
2007-07-06 13:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by ~♥ Easily Amused Dijinn ♥~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋