I liked this girl at school and I looked at some pics on her Facebook profile and noticed the houses and pond in her neighborhood looked like they could be in my neighborhood. So about a week or two later, I was looking around Google Earth at homes in my area and saw another neighborhood that had a pond and I thought that that was where she lived. I told one of my friends that I may have found the girl's neighborhood and it got out and now her and her friends think I'm a stalker. One of her friends sent me a message telling me to chill and not do anything stupid. I have NOT been harassing or bothering this girl. Hell, she posted her number on Facebook a while ago, wouldn't I have used that to my advantage if I was stalking her? That was in May, it is now July and she won't let it go. I could understand if I was bothering her but i have NEVER said a word to her EVER. Am I a stalker?
2007-07-06 13:07:23 · 14 answers · asked by Jordan Murray-Future Dictator 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She posted HER own number on Facebook. You are not a stalker. You were curious and used the net to check things out. Don't worry. If you were driving by her house all the time or standing in her bushes at night then yeah that would be a stalker.
2007-07-06 13:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by Cherrybomb 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she has told you to stay away from her and you haven't or did not, she could get you for stalking her. The poem is lovely but can you see now that it is not appreciated from her and she is in no way attracted to you? You said, "I don't follow her anywhere", you don't have to only do this to be considered a stalker. Do you call her? Email her? Are you anywhere near her like all the time? you have to realize she wants nothing to do with you and you shouldn't now even give her the time of day sorry to say, but true. I will tell you one thing and you should be feeling the same way. I don't go near anyone who doesn't like me or where I don't feel welcomed. If she's already told you "to get lost" or anything like that, from now on, yes she could go and get you for stalking. Now that she has this "written poem" in her hot little hands she now has more proff against you whether you're a stalker or not. I think there is just a tad bit more to your story. No one really calls a person a stalker ONLY because of a love poem. I have had ex boy friends drive by my house and I hate it. They have denied it until I got 2 different guys of course at 2 different times. I told them both, if I ever saw them in my neighbor hood again I was going to get them on stalking. (They actually were) I don't know about you incidents with her, but you already know you either leave her alone and move on or if you do continue to "bother her" with anymore notes, or anything you have done and been caught yet, you can bet she is now looking for you and so are her friends....Just to go and now finalize that Stalking Order. If you have done zip, zero, null to her and ONLY gave her a little poem then she's being a little harsh to say the least, but what she is MOST certainly telling you is to leave her alone. Sorry, Stalking is not anything to fool around with and you need to just move on ~
2016-05-20 01:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't a stalker. You are just a little nosey. Besides, who hasn't looked at someone's house on Google Earth? It sounds like she and her friends might be harassing you now. If she or her friends contact you again, send a simple reply stating that you want them to leave you alone, and nothing more. Don't correspond with them at all after that. Be sure to save any messages they send, as well as your reply asking them to stop. If things turn ugly, you might need to have the messages as evidence. You should also let your parents know what is going on.
2007-07-07 02:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by lj1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those are the first steps to being a stalker and since you dont want to be one, you dont have to go all the way and sleep in her bushed. those people are just callin you a stalker and she believes it because shes not smart enough to know what a real stalker looks like. youre not bothering her, so i guess you can just let it go and never mention her again
2007-07-06 14:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by ceesteris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry, u just kinda freaked her out a bit. and no, ur not a stalker, u just let your emotions take over, and sometimes, they make u do some crazy things. and by the looks of it, if the girl is posting her phone #on her profile then shes asking for ppl to call, ppl she knows and and others she doesnt.
2007-07-06 13:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by sambellatrix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a stalker if you like the girl and you are not if you are madly in love with her.
(You did kinda go over board on searching her house on google maps)
2007-07-06 13:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by ninni04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stalker....not really. But you did kind of go overboard a little there. Ignore those who won't let it go. And don't bother the girl.
2007-07-06 13:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not a stalker. you just wanted to no where she lived. no biggie. she probably felt insecure and creeped out or something. tell her that you just wanted to know where she lived. tell her to believe what she wants, it's not the truth. ask her if she knows where people who arent her friends live. if she says yes, than ask her if she's a stalker. if she says no, she is lying. oh, and you shouldnt like her anymore.
2007-07-06 13:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by Candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a stalker, but you did go kind of borderline. Dont do anything bad to this girl, and youll be ok.
2007-07-06 13:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say more of a stalker in training
2007-07-06 16:17:28 · answer #10 · answered by D G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋