Family & Relationships - 2 July 2007

im 17, and ive chased my stepfather with knives, given him black eyes, I throw things at my parents,broken my moms finger before, constantly call them names, and beat up my little brother, and i argue with EVERYTHING that everyone says!! what kind of help should i get, or give me some good advice please....Im so tired of being like this.

2007-07-02 15:41:11 · 31 answers · asked by ThatoneGirl90 1 in Family

why / why not?

would you ever take them back if they cheated on you?

why / why not?

2007-07-02 15:39:43 · 14 answers · asked by <3 3 in Singles & Dating

Alright there's this one chick. Me and her are really into each other. Right now though she is in a relationship. It is on the downfall though. He calls her a Ho and everything. Me and her have been close ever before that relationship started.

Lately I have been hanging with her more and want to hook up with her. How should I handle this?

2007-07-02 15:39:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got divorced almost 10 years ago. Sad, I really did love her. Part of me always will....it's just the way I am. But I AM over her. The last few relations I've been in have been tragic... I'm just tired of it working out so badly. I'm obviously connecting with uncompatible women. Take a look at my profile...what should I be looking for? You know, I actually want to get married again some day. Being alone...or in short term relations...just sucks.

2007-07-02 15:33:24 · 6 answers · asked by trustedhacker 2 in Singles & Dating

I work with 2 little children and their mom knows I wrote a book and wants to read it but am a little hessitent about giving it to her because of my past and the things that I got hooked on like masturbation. I am nervous because I am not sure how that will affect my job or my relationship with the mom. Is it a good idea to let her read it.

2007-07-02 15:31:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

????????????

2007-07-02 15:24:02 · 17 answers · asked by tashie_nichole 2 in Singles & Dating

what makes a girl beautiyful other than her looks?

2007-07-02 15:23:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was hurt by a guy friend really bad when he rejected me I have bottled up Love,Anger,Sadness,Depression,Rejection,Positivity am I crazy? I plan to destroy these emotions and all the others that you feel when you care deeply about a person if you dont have them you cant feel pain and if you cant feel pain you wont be so depressed. Am I wrong? Should I let love have a chance when and if it ever comes? If you think Im wrong please tell me why and why I should give love a chance. I really cared about him deeply and this hurt he blew it off and didnt even say dont want to ruin out friendship he just blew it off like well I think everything is back to normal I get the pic now I wasnt good enough for him and got hurt so badddddd he never said I wasnt good enough I finally came to the conclusion if yoy dont have feelings they cant be hurt I also realized Im just an un special person that my friends dont even care about especially them one I cared so much about. Im 15 and I loved

2007-07-02 15:23:52 · 7 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-02 15:21:34 · 33 answers · asked by h0rseluvr4life 1 in Marriage & Divorce

5'10-weight 145 brn hair-grn eyes white guy med complex..fun loving countryboy
age and race oppened ..

2007-07-02 15:08:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems like no one is willing to work at their marriages. The phrase "til death do us part" should be replaced by "until you screw up or I find someone that I like a little bit better". I just don't understand. When did marriage become something that could be thrown away like yesterday's garbage?

2007-07-02 15:06:58 · 34 answers · asked by ncgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Both in our late 40s, she's been divorced twice, wants to marry me, tells me I'm the love of her life. I was married once and divorced, and I don't want to get married again unless it's the right person and circumstances. I was never blessed with children, would have loved to have them, but it takes two to tango and ex wife finally decided she didn't want kids. I think if you have kids it means you're committed to your children and spouse forever unless something truly catastrophic happens. I feel "third best" with this woman - she has loved two men enough to bear their children, yet she will never have kids with me. How can she tell me she loves me more than any man ever in her life? I love her, too, I just feel like I'm the "good enough" guy to marry at this later stage in her life. Is it possible for a woman to have kids by two other men, and yet love a third man more who fathered none of her children?

2007-07-02 15:06:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-02 14:59:50 · 18 answers · asked by cutie pie 1 in Weddings

is there any way to convince someone you love this isn't true??? i cheated on my ex with his brother and after he decided to work things out with me but nothing has worked since. Mind you, he cheated on my first and our relationship was at a very weak point when this happened....not that it was right. Anyways, i feel horrible still and i know i still love him although we've been apart for a year now...i just miss him. We have a child together so he is still very much in my life...how can i show him i'm sorry and made a HUGE mistake?? is there a way?? i'm not saying i want to be back (although at some point i might) with him because we both caused one another immense pain...i just want him to know that ive changed and that even when that did happen i loved him....i was just trying to get revenge i guess....sounds horrible but it's the truth. anyways, is there a way to make it right????

2007-07-02 14:59:12 · 19 answers · asked by Dreama1212 2 in Marriage & Divorce

At first, I was infatuated with this girl and I used to talk to her alot and make her laugh etc. It was kinda like me chasing her.......
I don't feel in love with her now......but she invites me to her house and to her play, so I went to them and bought her a drink etc. etc. I stopped talking to her for a month roughly and then she keeps sending me text messages and stuff, saying how much she misses me............haven't kissed her yet and just sorta gave up on her.
I think the pendulum has swung the other way.....

2007-07-02 14:57:39 · 19 answers · asked by Mr. Captain Charisma 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 years, yet we seem to be polar opposites. Compromise is really difficult a lot of the time. What do you think couples need to have in common to have a good and lasting relationship?

2007-07-02 14:55:43 · 12 answers · asked by dolce 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband name is shyam dass
that lady name is sarina

2007-07-02 14:54:48 · 14 answers · asked by swinky s 1 in Friends

Only serious answers please.

2007-07-02 14:53:51 · 5 answers · asked by lucky 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-02 14:47:08 · 33 answers · asked by Sace 1 in Singles & Dating

I am invited to a bridal shower. The "theme" is the alphebet.
"Use the letter at the bottom of this invitation as an inspiration for your gift." My letter is "H".
The shower is this Sunday. HELP!

2007-07-02 14:42:12 · 23 answers · asked by luvmyrotts 1 in Weddings

okay my bf and i have been together for 2 years and 8 months. i sometimes want to be intimate with him and he doesnt say anything just ''me too'' like hes bored. well, we havnt had s ex for about 6 months, and today i wanted to. well, after bugging him!!! we started, then he wanted to stop so we did, and i kinda was sad. i asked him ''u dont want to anymore do u?'' and he said ''it just doesnt feel good with a condom on'' and IN THE PAST HE ALWAYS WANTED TO AND EVEN SAID IT FELT GOOD. he got mad at me for caring about how he never kisses me anymore, never touches me, or never wants''to'' anymore. (when sometimes he hints for me giving him....(down below) i guess he rather has that.AND WANTS that..... im so upset what do i do? it just seems he only cares for himself

2007-07-02 14:41:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-02 14:39:28 · 7 answers · asked by rlfesty 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 24 this year, and he is 31. If things go well, we hope to get married the end of next year. We have been together for 8 months now. Since when i was young, i have always been the daughter that listens to them regarding everything, and now they are trying to control who i want to be with as well... I know that my parents want me to find the best person, but how can i make them understand that i kow what is best for myself, and stop them from pressuring me on what i should do, cause this is really making me very upset, and creating problems for me and my boyfriend. Can anyone help?

2007-07-02 14:38:30 · 6 answers · asked by AngeLK 1 in Singles & Dating

you may think that i'm obsessing, but i really don't care.
i am worried about him.
do i have a right?
he got his tonsils taken out a week ago.
he has yet to call me.
he had to fly to another state to get them takem out so i can't visit him.
one of my friends keeps telling me that he's sick of me.
it's only been a month since we've started going out.
he left about two weeks into it.
how can he be sick of me?
is it over?
what do i do?
i called once and his phone was on so i left him a message and said i hope you feel better, call me when you can.
my friend called him maybe an hour ago and his phones off.
please someone, give me some answers.
none of my friends are helping me, and i really don't know what else to do.

2007-07-02 14:36:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he doesn't satisfy me sexually-not because he can't, he has in the past, it's just that he very rarely pays attention to what I ask for and when he does I don't think he fully understands....I try to communicate clearly and I've done alot for him sexually (I've joined yoga, learned to strip, read every "how to give a bj" book there is; I've bought lingerie and costumes, and he never tries anything new for me...)

he breaks promises all the time...he promises to take me on romantic dates but then expects McDonalds burgers on a blanket in the park to be enough for our three year anniversary...he promises a get-a-way, like the hotel date we were supposed to have yesterday, and it never happens...he promised he would marry me this fall and now he moved the wedding date back several years

and when I had my miscarriage all he wanted was to see a movie with his friend...

I hate him...but I keep thinking this is all somehow my fault
like I'm asking to much

2007-07-02 14:36:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a pretty good guy, but I can't seem to find a good woman! they're either taken or hiding! whats the deal ladies? why must you hide?

ha-ha

2007-07-02 14:36:13 · 16 answers · asked by Soap Box Preacher 5 in Singles & Dating

I don't wear make-up or flashy clothes. I just focus on my studies. Boys/men stare at me when I walk by and they try to lean into me when I walk by. Even older men stare at me. Girls stare at me like I'm going to steal their boyfriends. Maybe because I am the shy, quiet type--boys like me. Maybe I should be more confident and assertive.

2007-07-02 14:34:16 · 12 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-02 14:31:53 · 6 answers · asked by cats 7 in Singles & Dating

like when you see someone and they see yu but yu are away from your home state

2007-07-02 14:28:04 · 9 answers · asked by redsoxfan_1966 2 in Singles & Dating

how there is a bunch of young kids, even as young as 11-12 asking for dating advice in this section!

Or claiming that they have fallen in love. Or worried that their boyfriend is cheating on them. HAHA . Im pretty sure when they are older they wont even count these "relationships" they are in now.

So, am i the only one who think kids should'nt be worrying about relationships until they are atleast into highschool or are old enough to have a drivers licsense??

2007-07-02 14:25:58 · 13 answers · asked by danielle D 2 in Singles & Dating