im 17, and ive chased my stepfather with knives, given him black eyes, I throw things at my parents,broken my moms finger before, constantly call them names, and beat up my little brother, and i argue with EVERYTHING that everyone says!! what kind of help should i get, or give me some good advice please....Im so tired of being like this.
2007-07-02 15:41:11 · 31 answers · asked by ThatoneGirl90 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Go on Maury
Or um...STOP. If you know what you're doing wrong and you know that you're hurting the people who should be most important to you in your life why would you screw it up? Your little brother is supposed to look up to you.
You're not setting an example and you are in fact, ABUSING him, and that will affect him later on in life. If you are so tired of it then you need to get some serious mental help. It's ridiculous that teenagers my age do the things they do. Wise up, please.
2007-07-02 15:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by TegLover 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Heres what you need to do is GROW UP your 17 and from the sounds of things you act worse that a 7 years old next you need to stop being violent that will land you in Jail and trust me you do not want to be in a place like that. and why do you argue with everything that just plain stupid... if you have a older sister or brother talk with them first before you end up with out a family
2007-07-03 09:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by jrsmith9900 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're on your way to success. Speak to your parents and tell them that you are sorry and that you don't want to be this way anymore. They will be more then happy to help you. But you will need to go speak with a counselor. I don't believe that they should medicate you, that will only mask the problem. You need to talk. And when you feel rage coming on take a step back and breath. You'll be fine just reach out to your parents and don't listen to any of the judgmental comments some people have posted. Good luck and put all your determination in become that person that you so want to be.
2007-07-02 15:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow
You made the first step now you should also call a crisis line and get some counselling for your anger issues I hope they give you some medicine to calm you down, while you are still okay and before you do something you will regret for the rest of your life.
Keep trying to get help for yourself and keep reaching out
AND ignore people who will say things to you that make you
angry, tune them out.
Good Luck and please call the help lines to speak to someone in person and with more expert opinions then
us here on this site.
Sounds like the road to self and other destruction
Take a deep breathe and calm down
2007-07-02 15:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by darcy m 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you have an anger management problem on your hands.
Your best bet is figuring out WHY you act the way you do and then going from there. Most people aren't that angry for no reason (trust me, my teenage years were very similar) and so usually there are underlying issues that need to be addressed before the physical manifestations of these issues can be stopped.
Talk to someone you trust, a counselor, a teacher, a mentor but do it quickly because the anger won't go away on its own.
Good luck!
2007-07-02 15:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by mula012 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you need anger management and I also think that your parents should throw your *** out of the house. How dare you be so disrespectful to the people who provide a life for you. I don't care for your reasons for doing the things that you do. There is no excuse for your behavior. It's just plain disgusting. You think life sucks living with your parents, just wait until you have to live in the real world. What is that how you will treat a landlord, boos, friend? Treating people that way will land your *** in jail. Maybe the next time you act like that your parents will call the police and have you thrown in jail. That is if you don't kill one of them first. You should be ashamed of yourself.
2007-07-02 15:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by lanora C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am so so so sorry that you are dealing with this. I don't know for sure what is wrong with you and you really would need to see a psych doctor to find out. I was the same way when I was 12 and continued to be for a long time till I was diagnosed with bipolar and medicated. I truly believe that this is not your fault...it is very likely a chemical imbalance in your brain.
Good Luck!
2007-07-02 15:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by Chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you have to do is call the police right away. 999 means you're in Hong Kong, or a British Colony possibly in the UK somewhere. Most places in North America are 911 (Not including Las Vegas 311) Call the police right away, explain the story. Say that you would like to press charges for assault, assault causing bodily harm, destruction of private property, etc. It seems like your mom owns the place, because she said "Make sure he doesn't break anything else." CALL THE POLICE ASAP. B.
2016-05-17 05:02:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BRAVO!!!! You just made your first move.Accepting the fact that you have a problem.A big one at that.Hormones,Stress play a big roll in a teenagers life and it can take a toll on your body and others around you.Please seek a doctors advice.The doctor can help you with Your stress and anger levels which is brought on by messed up hormones which does not mean anything sexual or about your gender.Good luck and bless you.
2007-07-02 16:13:15 · answer #9 · answered by rubyjuly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
something to think about "what go around come around." what i mean is one day you will have kids and tell me do you want a kid like you... you don't sound upset by what you do.. i feel sorry for you.. you sound very unhappy.. growing up is hard and being mad and upset all the time make it even harder.. you have control over what you do and say.. YOU are the one that has to want to stop this.. you have to find out why you are doing it.. look deep and start reading self help books.. find some one you can talk to.. you do not have to be this way.. i know i was young and violent and of all the thing i did i wish someone told me that it was me that want to do them and if i wanted to stop i could because i was in control of me.. i control my actions.. i am responsible for what i do.. when you start to understand that and take responsible for your actions you will not be so mad..
2007-07-02 15:54:56 · answer #10 · answered by jackie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to ask yourself why you're doing these things...be honest with yourself. You know it's not acceptable behavior, if you can figure out why you're always violent, you can start to change your behavior. Part of it is being a teenager, but just try to relax a little and don't let everything get on your nerves. It's not as bad as it seems.
2007-07-02 15:47:56 · answer #11 · answered by colorguy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋