I am 24 this year, and he is 31. If things go well, we hope to get married the end of next year. We have been together for 8 months now. Since when i was young, i have always been the daughter that listens to them regarding everything, and now they are trying to control who i want to be with as well... I know that my parents want me to find the best person, but how can i make them understand that i kow what is best for myself, and stop them from pressuring me on what i should do, cause this is really making me very upset, and creating problems for me and my boyfriend. Can anyone help?
2007-07-02 14:38:30 · 6 answers · asked by AngeLK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your mom probly doesnt like him cuz hes short,,, cuz shes afrais that he'll be a perv by sticking his face in your breasts... thats about it...
2007-07-02 14:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Mario N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex was way too short for me. Just tell you're parents that it doesn't matter if he's too short The only thing that matters is that you love each other and care for each other. Who cares about how tall people are? If you think then he is a good match for you, then he is! Try to explain to your parents that it doesn't matter if he's too short and the only thing that matterss is that you love each other. Don't make them think that they're not the people that control you anymore, but try to make them understand that you're independent and know what's best for you. Good luck!!!
2007-07-02 14:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by jdenimel101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 24 now so why let you parents dictate to you,you need to grow some balls and tell your mom your a big girl now and though you still respect your parents opinion it's time for them to back off because you have found the man your going to marry and they need to deal with it.
2007-07-02 14:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this sounds really familiar. You just have to let them know that u are a grown woman now and you need to make your own mistakes and choices just like they had to. and that they cant protect you forever. I prolly wouldnt rush into marriage if u have only been together for 8 months but yea.
Just dont get mad with them or do anything out of spite have a healthy calm conversation with them that its your life...maybe have dinner with them and ur man in a public place and see if yall can get along.
hope it all works out
2007-07-02 14:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man...that's tough....just tell them what their doin to u n Ur relationship....if they truly cared about u they would let u do what u feel is best...n don't let looks be a factor in Ur relationship if u love him that's ALL that matters...age (as long as hes legal) n looks should NEVER matter!
2007-07-02 14:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she really thinks you are shallow enough to judge someone by their height. if i dated someone based on if they were taller than me, i would't find anyone any time soon. i'm almost 6 feet tall, and highschool guys aren't very tall!
2007-07-02 14:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Wallflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋