is it over?

Question

you may think that i'm obsessing, but i really don't care.
i am worried about him.
do i have a right?
he got his tonsils taken out a week ago.
he has yet to call me.
he had to fly to another state to get them takem out so i can't visit him.
one of my friends keeps telling me that he's sick of me.
it's only been a month since we've started going out.
he left about two weeks into it.
how can he be sick of me?
is it over?
what do i do?
i called once and his phone was on so i left him a message and said i hope you feel better, call me when you can.
my friend called him maybe an hour ago and his phones off.
please someone, give me some answers.
none of my friends are helping me, and i really don't know what else to do.

Answer 1

It does sound as though he is ignoring your phone call and you. Wait a few more days, maybe a week. If you don't hear from him, it is over. The worst thing you can do is pursue someone who is finished with the relationship. I know it hurts; that's what sucks about dating! you could run right out and get someone else and make him jealous, but chances are it won't work. If he isn't into you, he isn't into you.

Answer 2

Good grief! I am so tired of selfish brats! You're not worried about him; you're worried about you! He just had a tonsillectomy a week ago. He still hurts. He can barely talk. He's still recovering. Try thinking about him instead of obsessing, yes obsessing, on how his not calling makes you feel. You "friend" may not be right, but she probably should be. Grow up.

And we are supposed to care about this...why?

Answer 3

i am sorry to inform you but you do not have to leave your state to get tonsils taken out, he is trying to get rid of you the best way he knows how so move on