Alright there's this one chick. Me and her are really into each other. Right now though she is in a relationship. It is on the downfall though. He calls her a Ho and everything. Me and her have been close ever before that relationship started.
Lately I have been hanging with her more and want to hook up with her. How should I handle this?
2007-07-02 15:39:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only friends until they break up. then you can be there to comfort her, and she cant look back later and say" you caused our relationship to fail", or "I couldve had something with him if it werent for you".
Good luck.
2007-07-02 15:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you need to know what is the girl's status. You maybe ready to go with her, but she still could be holding on. You can be with her if she still with the guy, but that's pretty her playing you and the guy. Second you need to be sure your ready for whatever happens. Some people are crazy and you can never be too careful. Third what does she mean to you? Is she the right one for you? Does she meet your needs in a relationship? Do you meet hers? Just be thinking about all the negatives and then if your ready turn it into a positive. Good luck and in the words of T.I. "gotta keep it pimpin understand"
2007-07-02 22:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by Thegreatgk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats where things can get messy. If you really like this girl then you need to take it slow and build the relationship. For now, stay hanging out with her, get to know her even better, laugh and have fun with her. You shouldnt take it anywhere else until her boyfriend is out of the picture. That way you won't get hurt. Treat her the way she should be treated and just have patience with the situation. Good Luck.
2007-07-02 22:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by LilMiss143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are not on the same page as she is. You said you and her were close before she went into a relationship with another person?
I guess you were not as close as you thought. Think again...she really wanted a different relationship with someone else than she has with you.
Leave it as that and move on....your just kidding yourself and making things worse for yourself. Face the music and find a girl that really enjoys your company.
2007-07-02 22:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by Stormchaser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Rule Is: Stay Out of Someone Else's Relationship. If and when it comes to an end and she's had time to get over it, then you can make your move. In the meantime, stay away from her and quit hanging out.
And see if you can learn proper grammar.
2007-07-02 22:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the right thing to do would be to back off until she finished things up with the other guy. Maybe even gently suggest to her that you would be interested in being with her once she is finally through with her current boyfriend.
The guy does sound like a loser, but I wouldn't suggest anyone get tangled up in a web of cheating.
All the best!
2007-07-02 22:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by ~Brenda~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is still with her current relationship. Hands off until she makes up her mind. Mean while enjoy the company of others have fun
2007-07-02 22:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by velvagagnon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is really into you wait till she breaks up w her current guy so that there is no drama later. ive been in a similar situation, i met this guy and after talking to him i began to have feelings for him, ultimately i decided to break up w my boyfriend of 3 yrs and ive never been happier, and even so i had some drama. so have her finish things off w her bf and then mess around w her all u want, she will be ALL yours!!! :P
2007-07-02 22:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by janie rey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until they definatly do break up.
Girls will say stuff, just hang out with her, show her that you are there, and that you care...
then when she calls to say she finally did dump him... you'll be there. Dont rush her into anything too.
But just because someone says they will break up with someone... doesn't mean they will really do it.
2007-07-02 22:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by Skyleigh's Mom :)™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say something like,
"I'm not sure where things are going with you and so-and-so, but if things don't work out with him, I'd like to take you out sometime."
A guy I liked said this to me, and I dumped my boyfriend the next day. :)
2007-07-02 22:43:53 · answer #10 · answered by Laura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋