my ex says that she still loves me and I love her and we both care alot for eachother should we give it a try?

Answer 1

As long as the two of you parted under somewhat amicable reasons, why not? It's better to have tried than to have not done anything & regretted it later.

If the two of you parted for reasons such as lies or cheating, then I'd be a little more careful about getting back together. People rarely change their spots in a relationship & often revert back to their old ways & habits. This isn't always the truth, but often it is.

In any case, make sure & take it slow before making a big commitment & moving in with each other. Date for at least a month before moving back in with each other or other big commitments (such as a proposal of marriage). This way you will have a chance not only to watch out for both of your best interests, but it will also make it seem like a nice fresh (and romantic) start to you your relationship. Moving directly in with each other may bring the two of you back into the same rut as before & be too big of a step. Just remember: even though the two of you have dated before, it's still technically a new relationship.

Answer 2

Why not!! If you both still love one another & both want to get back together, you have no reason not to give it another try. You know what it was that caused the break up before, if you learned from your mistake, that could even cause a closer more caring bond. You have nothing to loose & everything to gain. This way you'll know you really did try your very best & left no stone unturned. I certainly wish you success & hopefully everything w/turn out for the best this time. It sure isn't the first time it's been done & I've heard very happy success stories as a result. Trust yours w/turn out the same.

Answer 3

If you guys care about each other a lot then go ahead. Because in 10 years from now you guys are going to look back and be like " Why didn't i give it another chance," & you might just regret it. Good luck to both of you =)

Answer 4

Well, what was the reason you broke up in the first place? If the problem seems to big or you are still hurt by it, then you should definately have a long thought about getting back together with this woman. If you are no longer hurt by whatever happened, or it has been resloved, then go for it. What have you got to lose?

Answer 5

nope, if it didnt work once, it wont work again. Its that simple. there is a reason it failed and those issues are still around, so it will be a repeat. move that *** along, and find someone new. besides everybody know startin a new thing is the best, the nerves, the first kiss. U need to drop homegirl like a bad habit and hit the block looking for a new woman

Answer 6

if your willing to put the past aside don't let anything get iin the way you never know how many times you'll ever get to find someone like her so go for it... make the best of it... start off new..... remember all the reasons you two love eachother focus on all the good not bad forget about the bad and just do it

Answer 7

why are you exes anyway? what made you break up?

it depends on what made you break up.
if you were fighting all the time, then it's usually not a good idea, it's a biggie. one of the biggest reasons why lots of people have divorces.

if it's not that, then I think you should give it a shot. But you should say why you broke up so you can get better answers, unless it's personal.

Answer 8

Sure. If this girl wasn't your ex and you loved her and she loved u, would u go out with her? Probably yes. So, it's basically the same thing. But if u don't really love her, don't put yourself through the drama.

Answer 9

How long have you been apart? What broke you up? Be careful you just don't get into another hurtful pattern.

Answer 10

no way, never go back, if you broke up it was for a reason, you are only covering old ground, its worthless and hurtful for both people, both of you should move on other wise you are just going to waste more time living with out your soulmate