At first, I was infatuated with this girl and I used to talk to her alot and make her laugh etc. It was kinda like me chasing her.......
I don't feel in love with her now......but she invites me to her house and to her play, so I went to them and bought her a drink etc. etc. I stopped talking to her for a month roughly and then she keeps sending me text messages and stuff, saying how much she misses me............haven't kissed her yet and just sorta gave up on her.
I think the pendulum has swung the other way.....
2007-07-02 14:57:39 · 19 answers · asked by Mr. Captain Charisma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be kind to her. Don't keep giving her mixed messages. She thinks you are still interested.
2007-07-02 15:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
SOunds to me like she either can't take a hint and acts needy and it would be enough to drive anyone nuts or is there any possibility that you keep strumming her along even just a tad? If you haven't talk to her at all, maybe text her back or make a quick courtesy call letting her know that you don't enjoy getting the texts or invitations because they make you feel uncomfortable and you dont want to give her the impression that you want to be more than just friends. Let her down easily and make it clear you look at her as only a friend, nothing else. Good luck.
2007-07-02 22:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by makena92504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Captain Charisma..is it..
Do you live up to your title?
If it was you in her place and she stopped communication with you, what would you expect?
Maybe she thinks that she did something to make you mad or hurt your feelings.
If you were once infatuated with her then what happened between you two that changed that?
You led her to believe you liked her and now she has been cut off with out reason.
I suggest you use some of that so called charisma you have and explain to her in person,not by text message if possible, in a tactful way that your feelings have changed in this relationship.
At least tell her something so she won't think she did something wrong.
2007-07-02 22:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by Stormchaser 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you were so into her that you didnt give her time to chase you back. You were the one falling. But she really enjoyed your company and likes you and wants to hang out with you the way the two of you use to. I think you should hang out with her and see if there's anything there. If there is then go for it. If you don't feel the same feelings for her like you did before then just stay friends with her- you don't have to hang out with her as much as before. Just make sure not to lead her on if you're not trying to take things to another level. Good Luck. :)
2007-07-02 22:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by LilMiss143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah.
you only liked the chase.
BIG JERK.
jk lol, you just need to focus on your real emotions--don't be so taken by the chase. but i think you should still hang out with her sometimes because it's more than likely that the pendulum swings again and hits you in the face.
good luck && remember: have heart.
2007-07-02 22:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by cant§touch§this™ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Probably has. Maybe she thinks the months time away from you has made you two farther apart, so she is trying to make things better.
She could also be becoming more dependent on you. Who knows.
Maybe now that you are trying less, she sees that and doesn't want to lose you.
Who knows. Try talking to her about it. ;)
2007-07-02 22:01:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
omgssh! i know exactly how u feel, haha. evn though im a grl. Well ur stry sounds exactly like a book i read called "flipped", its awesome btw. Anyways, back to ur case....ther r some ppl out ther tht r like tht trust me i've seen it in movies & real life. All they want is to be loved they'll go to any extent, evn to hurt.
2007-07-02 22:03:26 · answer #7 · answered by Megan :] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As my firiends say a woman and a man can not be friends. They will fall for each other. Whether it be the man falls for the woman and gives up and then the woman will fall for the man, and vis-versa, or maybe they will fall at the same time. It is the way life goes.
2007-07-02 22:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her your not interested. She needs to know. Basically your leading her on. BAD! Don't do that. She'll get hurt more than if you just told her you weren't interested in her.
It's a simple as that. Don't say anything you don't really mean.
2007-07-02 22:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by isolatedeternity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you wanted the chase more than the girl.
2007-07-02 22:01:07 · answer #10 · answered by t 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋