why / why not?
would you ever take them back if they cheated on you?
why / why not?
2007-07-02 15:39:43 · 14 answers · asked by <3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course not. If I wanted to sleep with someone else, I'd be single. I'm not going to enter a relationship I don't want to commit to. That's stupid.
If they cheated on me, it would depends. People make mistakes, even good people. I've done it, and I would never do it again. I know other people who have, and deserved to be forgiven. On the other hand, some people are douchebags. And they aren't very hard to tell apart.
2007-07-02 15:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay.. now ofcourse everyone is going to say no, they wouldn't cheat! but.. i am going to stand up for the cheaters! Now, i've never cheated, but i have came close. I dated a guy who treated me like a princess the first few months, then he completely ignored me. He would go a whole week without returning my phone calls! It got to the point that i wanted his attention so bad, that i would do anything.. even cheat. I also just craved attention from anyone, because i felt neglected. I'm not gonna lie.. i'm a pretty girl... and smart, so i felt like it was unfair that i had all these guys wanting to give me attention and my own boyfriend didn't. Luckily i broke up with him, and then immediately started dating other ppl (instead of doing it while i was with him! However, i can see where some ppl would just cheat after that fiasco! Withall that said, i wouldn't cheat, but i can understand cheaters. I would take someone back if they cheated on me IF i knew that i had neglected them causing them to react and IF they came clean to me and IF they didn't go catch some disease. But.. if i was treating that person well (which i would), then i wouldn't take them back.
2007-07-02 22:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by k8r9i8s8ti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no straight answer to a question like this, because for each person's relationship there could be different things going on in it that would cause them to cheat. Now for myself, I would like to think that I wouldn't cheat on my significant other but it really depends on how the relationship is going. If my needs as well as his are being met there wouldn't be any reason to cheat on him and vice versus. And besides I wouldn't cheat for the sheer fact that, if I trully loved the person and he is good to me, why would I need to go elsewhere?
As for taking back someone that has cheated on me thats a big no way. Because if they have done it once they most certainly will do it again. As the old saying goes fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
2007-07-02 22:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could never cheat on my boyfriend. He makes me happier than anyone else ever has and I would never do anything to ruin that. If he cheated on me, I honestly can't say what I would do. I know that he never would though. But if by some chance he did, I don't know...I don't even want to imagine that happening.
2007-07-02 22:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by IndiHippi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO,i would never cheat on my man because i love him with all my heart and i would never hurt him like that, and no i would not take them back if they cheated because cheating is unforgivable and hurtful and there is no excuse in the world that can make it okay.
2007-07-02 22:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by Goth Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Q1: No, because I feel that I should treat others as I myself would want to be treated and since I would not want someone to cheat on me, thus I would not cheat on them. Q2: No because it takes a long time to build up trust in someone and if that trust is broken, then there's no mending it.
2007-07-02 22:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never,as for why I love him too much to ever hurt him like that.
Also I have never done anything like that to anyone no matter my feelings for them, cheating can be very hurtful and I have never wanted to be the cause of that pain to anyone, I don't think it's worth the guilt.
2007-07-02 22:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by Mr.G's wife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not because I would never go out with them in the first place if they werent the only one I loved.
If they cheated on me probably not because would that really meant they loved me whole if they did that even if they apologized on their knees.
2007-07-02 22:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by Christina SMILE :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if they were not giving me what I needed and have tried working on the problem with NO success and Yes I would take them back if I truly loved them and wanted to work things out
2007-07-02 22:44:39 · answer #9 · answered by skeeter195848 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NEVER...my ex cheated on me and it's the worst feeling in the world. i felt like he took my heart and shot it with a Beretta. i would never wish that pain on anyone. i could never treat anyone like that. and no, i didnt take him back. he tired his hardest but im not going to let anyone play with my heart anyway they want to and think they can get away with it. it was over with my ex.
2007-07-02 22:43:33 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋