Family & Relationships - 28 June 2007

You keep in contact with them and all of a sudden they'll just ignore u like u dont exist

this is exactly why ive been so p1ssed off bout havin girl friends...u really know who ur friends are after time...and the fact is, when people ignore u, they dont want ur friendship

the way i see it, is if im the one contacting ppl and asking how they are doing and whats new etc...if they dont respond back, its their loss and they dont deserve my friendship

ive experienced this so much in my life and it p1sses me off, i aint doing ANYTHING wrong jeezus...is simply askin "how have u been" WRONG???? god...guys too...fvckers do the same thing

2007-06-28 20:36:09 · 8 answers · asked by Wayne D 1 in Singles & Dating

But while we were dating I found out he was staying with her. He came clean and told me everything.I thought I could deal with it,but I can't.When he goes to get his kids I go with him.He wants to go and visit them when he gets off work.I have a problem with that. I just have a problems dealing with all of it. What do I do?

2007-06-28 20:34:06 · 9 answers · asked by deidre p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad says that I am spoiled. And I truly feel bad. I mean, my parents buy me things and I loose them and half to buy a new one. I mean I don't mean to, but you know it happens. They also say that I have no consept for money, and I would really like to make it up to them and prove that I am not a spoiled child!!!!!!!!Can you please help me!

2007-06-28 20:32:53 · 20 answers · asked by TheLuckyOne 2 in Family

if a woman has been with well over 25+ men, is it okay to lie to your new partner and tell him only 3 if thats all that i have ever cared about or loved?

2007-06-28 20:30:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i thought all along my boyfriend loved me as much as i love him.

but yesterday he suddenly called and say that his feelings for me had faded away. i was so heartbrokened. i couldnt stop crying the whole night. he was really very close to my heart. he was my inspiration my motivation and my drive for life.

i really love him a lot. i would really want to get him back but i don know what can i do. i feel so helpless. what should i do?

our sudden break up was indeed a big blow to me and i really cannot get over it but respect his decision. he has even asked for sex even after we break up, but i said no. why would i have sex with someone who doesnt love me at all?

i love him a lot and i need him back in my life. what should i do?

2007-06-28 20:28:19 · 17 answers · asked by apple-licious 3 in Singles & Dating

she was learning dance,and often,in the night,she can't dance well or don't want to dance,then her mother would beat her,so the little girl cryed.

She is just the girl-very happy daytime,a little sad night.

But when asked who was better,mom or dad,she would say at once,"mom is better!"
Though her dad nearly never beat her,and treat her well.

2007-06-28 20:27:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

is there any type of hair that guys prefer? length? style? color? cut? smell? any that attracts you.

2007-06-28 20:25:39 · 8 answers · asked by Leonardo DiCaprio 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother was on probation, he had a job in the city, was living with my uncle and was going to get a place for him and his daughter.
But one night he decided to go out and he ended up violating his probation and getting sent to a alcohol treatment center for a month.
Now he's out and he's been told that he can't go back to my uncles and that he has to find somewhere to live.
unexpectedly he kind of chose here with me, my daughter and my husband.
Tomorrow he wants me to go after his daughter so she can stay here too.
All this really bothers me cause we are already behind on bills and it's like he's just freeloading already. He doesnt know how to conserve.
what should I do?
the question I asked before this might explain more too.

2007-06-28 20:18:48 · 18 answers · asked by preggo&luvinit 3 in Family

He's only been talking to my mom about his, but my sister and I can hear it (since it's usually a loud argument) but we're 20 and 19. My mom doesn't really understand where he's coming from, or just tries to avoid it I don't know. My dad is very intelligent, graduated as valedictorian, but I think I heard my dad say that his co-workers and bosses just don't value him or think he's doing a great job, although he's been working with them for 10 years. He's been at work in various places for a total of about 30 years. I wish he would quit his job so he could be happy, but then he'd have to pay for our own insurance. And my mom doesn't work. We'd also have to move to a less expensive neighborhood, but I'm fine with that. I don't know how to tell him. Lately I avoid the subject because I'm sure he's really fed up of arguing about it every night with my mom. Is there anything I can do? Thank you.

2007-06-28 20:17:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my fiance wants us to live with is parents after marriage and no is not an option. theyre loud, crass and quarrelsome. im not accustomed to that but he says illget there in time. his mom embarrases me in front ppl and then cries if he mentions it to her.He ends up feeling bad and telling me i need to understand and i should love them no matter what. I cant love pplwho insult and shout and demean and who continue to convince him that marrying me is a bad idea ( only cos my personality is dfferent from theirs). Ive tried telling him but hes caught between pleasing his parents and having a love marriage. I willbe working but living on our own can never happen according to him. Imall for taking care of ones parents, but i cant live 24/7 with that tension and humiliation, nor do i want to be 'accostumed'to that in time.

2007-06-28 20:14:15 · 5 answers · asked by tari 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What should i do for my GF's birthday, ok this year, for my birthday, she gave me a big screen tv and watched the game with me, then we went out to dinner....
Last year, i gave her a puppy dog with a diamond ring on the collar saying...and the card said " For my special someone"

I dont even know what to do this year....and its in two weeks...

2007-06-28 20:11:45 · 18 answers · asked by Johnny 2 in Singles & Dating

If there waz a totaly spacy girl about starting high school, did the hookey pookey @ roller rinks and her head waz constantly in the clouds. Like some girl that acted her age but wasn't afraid to b a kid either? Like make up storries or introduce u 2 new things that you'de never thought of doing yourself. Made you feel like your in comfortable place were any secretes don't have to and r safe w/ that girl? She says wiered and meaningfull deep sayings that put u off gaurd cuase they r true? Is really nice but maybe off beat and rebellious too? What would you do? What would you think of her as?

2007-06-28 20:11:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has it ever happened to you before?

2007-06-28 20:10:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think my fiancé is not trust me. The thing is i have ex boyfriends and we are hung out most of the time and he is not confinable. Actually he is out of the town for while. He is calling me more then 3 times a day and he is asking me where are you and with who. I told him that we friends and he told me to stop see them what should I have to do.

2007-06-28 20:08:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

gets in the way of getting to know someone in the first several months of a relationship?

2007-06-28 20:01:21 · 13 answers · asked by speakthetruth 3 in Singles & Dating

so, i met this guy and the first time we had sex he told me that he loved me?? he is not the only guy that has said this to me, the first time i have had sex with them. Actually several of the men i have had sex with say this, ON THE FIRST TIME... why?? what does that mean? are they all thinking about someone else, does it just slip out, or are they just enjoying themselves that much??

i never respond to them, becuase i dont ever love any of them the first time we have sex? so, i was wondering what they are thinking

2007-06-28 20:00:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'd say im a fairly atractive girl. I have a big butt and curvy hips. guys, is this good for you or no?

2007-06-28 19:55:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she was easy to get, slept with guys (her 3 ex bf) from first few dates, slept around with 3 guys (as far as i know), she used to drink heavly, smoke weed...have sex, in her college days, but she says that she changed and she love me only now, and want to be with me only.., later that day i was confused if she totaly loves me or for fun only, i told her that lets go check in some motel have sex, and i send u back later, she got offended and she said, "ur my bf, and i will feel like.....", and i said "*****", then i told her "sorry ur my gf, i love u, and i dont want you to feel that way", does that assure me that she is not sluty after all, and she really changed?, does she really love me?, is she fit to be my gf after all, can i fall in love with her?,bcz i really wanna be with her, shall i give her a chance to show that she really changed?

2007-06-28 19:52:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He tells me that i have to give him head else I can't be his girl. I have a child. I think he is treating me like dirt because I have a kid.

2007-06-28 19:52:19 · 14 answers · asked by LILY 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-28 19:50:41 · 13 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

he is a nerd...I can't wait september for school to start again so I can find some hot guys...summer will make it impossible to meet guys my dad and mom are gonna like followe me everywhere... I'm still trying to get over him...and I was the first girl who ever liked him...he didn't have the courage to answer and email I have send him saying I liked him...I needed to call him so he could give me an answer. I can't believe I've waisted 2 months of my life over a guy who didn't even liked me back. and the tragic thing is that this is not the first time.

2007-06-28 19:47:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy. We have known each other for a long time now. He asked me out and I asked him if he has a girlfriend and he told that he does not have a girlfriend but only a girl for sex. What does this mean???

2007-06-28 19:46:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if a guy has dated only girls with certain look and a certain race? I mentioned to him why he only dates girls who look aliked he was honest to me and said he has a fetish and fantacy with a certain look, so basically all his ex girldfriend look alike, making me wonder whether he even felt attracted to me?? I keep wondering because He stares longer whether is in a magazine, television, videos if the girl looks somehow like his fantacy girl,,, can he still loved me eventhough I ain't his fantacy girl.?

2007-06-28 19:45:59 · 10 answers · asked by jane 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-28 19:42:16 · 11 answers · asked by lindaho06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My crush told me she enjoys sitting on my face.

2007-06-28 19:42:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-28 19:41:34 · 8 answers · asked by LILY 1 in Singles & Dating

my guy broke up with his girlfriend of 6 years back in december, he still talks about her, but mostly bad stuff, his sister still has pictures of her that he recently found.. i understand she was in his life for 6 years but he talks about her often, he says he loves me and he would never go back to her cause she cheated on him, but i can't help but to wonder if he loves her still..sometimes he acts depressed, and listens to depressing music about broken hearts, whats his deal? any idea??

2007-06-28 19:37:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-28 19:35:26 · 21 answers · asked by buddabobo 1 in Singles & Dating

How about if your married? It's not cheating if you remain unemotional. You know what they say, if your spouse doens't take care of their homework someone else will.

2007-06-28 19:35:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-28 19:35:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce