What if a guy has dated only girls with certain look and a certain race? I mentioned to him why he only dates girls who look aliked he was honest to me and said he has a fetish and fantacy with a certain look, so basically all his ex girldfriend look alike, making me wonder whether he even felt attracted to me?? I keep wondering because He stares longer whether is in a magazine, television, videos if the girl looks somehow like his fantacy girl,,, can he still loved me eventhough I ain't his fantacy girl.?
2007-06-28 19:45:59 · 10 answers · asked by jane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know what you are going through my boyfriend was the same way until I proved him wrong he is so happy hes dating me now...Girl relax just be yourself and dont worry about it hang out as normal you cant be anyone but yourself because then he will be upset that you changed for him...You dont change for guys if they dont like you the WAY you are RIGHT now then they arent worth it...I believe that you can do this be yourself and try and talk him into it I am sure he will make the right choice if you need some one to talk to you can email glitzgirl@aol.com I am always ready to talk dont be afraid to ask me anything you want...
Love Ya
Good Luck
2007-06-28 19:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg yess honey! He could love you more than any other of those fantacy girlz! wayyyy more.Cause LOVE is more than looks,its personality,things you have in common,a person you really know,and ect.and if he thinks that loving a girl is based on her looks.Well he's wrong.Love is not that at all.
Trust me girl
YOU WILL NEVR KNOW IF HE LOVES YOU TILL YOU FIND OUT FOR YOURSELF. :]
remember that.Its not a lot of advice.But you should really know what i'm talking about :] and a guy is not worth fighting for.No matter who he is. I'm sorry :[ but don't go changing yourself to make him like you,cause than he's liking the girl you became and not the real you. Just keep that in mind.
-Rose-
i hoped i helped a lil :]
2007-06-29 02:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe we all can sympathize with your situation. to everyone there is "someone" out there that we would kill to have, but that will always be the case, just like there will always be someone just a little better than you at something. furthermore, the fact that you may not be his "fantasy" girl doesn't really mean anything. a fantasy girl, is just that, a fantasy, something or someone that is unattainable and will be used for those "what if" moments. true fantasy girls are the ones who come out of no where and knock us on our *** and we say to our self "wow, this is the girl of my dreams." true fantasy girls are the ones we least expect, so you dont worry about his fantasy girl, because he wont find her in a magazine or on tv, she will be the ones sitting down next to him in a cafe or at a restaurant, or maybe the ones asking this question.
2007-06-29 02:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by adam f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he can still love you.
His fantasy girl is just that, a fantasy. Obviously he hasn't had much luck limiting himself to his fetish, so he started actually looking at personality. So it's likely that's what attracted him to you. That's a very good start. His little fixation may never go away completely, but it should lessen over time.
2007-06-29 03:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when your in love your in love, and the girl or guy you are with becomes your fantasy. Of course there are those guys that still make remarks about other girls, even when there girlfriend of wife is there, and that is their nature. I would get extremely jelous, or hurt if a my boyfriend was checking out another girl, or making remarks about her beauty. But thats just me, and some girls are totally fine with it.
2007-06-29 02:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all my girlfriends were the same.... they were cheerleaders and they were medium tanned skin and skinny and 5'6 and less than 120 pounds, brown eyes brown or black hair and they were perky and pretty and everything i ever wanted. But my current girlfriend is nothing like that. She knows me for 3 years and she always had a crush on me but i didnt know cuz she never told me cuz she knew the type odf girl i dated, so she was always too shy. She is Very light skin(pale pinkish)not skinny not fat but i love her, 5'4 she weighs more than i do and i weigh 160(not to disclose her weight) and she has beautiful green eyes and red hair and she makes me soooo happy. i love her so much. and you never know until you make the move cuz maybe he doesnt know how you feel.
2007-06-29 02:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by alexj765 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be attracted to you cause he's with you. Guys are always gonna be guys. Most of them have a fantasy girls but it doesn't mean anything. Stop being insecure. You got him and if it doesn't work, his loss. He's lucky to have you not the other way around.
2007-06-29 02:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by Nicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fantasy girls r fantasys only 1 in a 3y546778763765426663487558646i747i86rt78545095359758o743u974488o54 times 6689336y9955p756797 is there g0nna b a girl like that so go 4 it
2007-06-29 02:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by horsegon1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he can love you but he will still have his fantasy. As long as you are not jealous and can handle it. It would make me crazy though.
2007-06-29 02:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by marie s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ofcourse he can
2007-06-29 02:48:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋