How long before the SEX dies down in a relationship?

Question

Is it unhealthy when that happens?

Answer 1

It all depends on the relationship if there is a lot of stress like over money or if you work more time then you do spend with your partner. The sex part only dies down when you both get to comphy and quit trying to make things different and exciting. Now if you found someone else that you are attracted to how much time and energy would you spend making sure it was exciting that is the time you should spend with your partner now

Answer 2

The sex dies? what the f..k do you mean by that? If you don`t have enough fantasy to keep it fun, then you are not in love mate. If you love the lady, well then you find up something that makes it all sparkly again, see what I am saying here? Do whatever it takes, dress up as a cop, she dresses up like a nurse, or do it outside, in the car, at your in-laws, while having dinner? it is only your imagination who can set your limit, but with a little effort from both of you, you can have great sex the rest of your life. Don`t forget the feeling you had when you were deep in love, keep that feeling. Good luck, peace and love from Norway

Answer 3

Depends on what the sex is based on really. How creative is each partner and how committed they are to each other. I read a while back that when couples mate, the fire and interest lasts long enough for any offspring they produce to become independent (about age 6-7), hence the 7 year itch. I don't know, I have known couples who, after 20 years are still having sex, not as much but still have the hots for each other.

Answer 4

Sex should NEVER die down.

This is about keeping passion and romance alive in the relationship. Sometimes that means flirting some more. Sometimes it means you need to do a little soul searching to find what you really want.

But you can't enter a relationship EXPECTING the sex to dwindle...that's just rediculous.

Answer 5

It is normal for the sex to slow down, because you are finding other ways to love, and show your love to your spouse or partner besides just sex.

The key to keeping the sexual part alive is to work at rekindling the flame, when the fire start to dwindle. If you remember that, your relationship, and sex life will be happier.

Answer 6

No earlier than 9 months, but it depends on how soon she becomes pregnant. I think it's unhealthy only if you also close down the lines of communication.

Answer 7

Guys are all gung ho for it til you put on the ring they gave you. Usually after being together between 5 and 10 years it starts losing it's draw and edge. It starts getting mundane. Most people don't realize they need to break out of the bedroom and try new things to keep it fresh.

Answer 8

Guys usually make efforts to keep the sex life good but once the girl thinks she has the guy she stops putting out as much.

Answer 9

If sex dies down, you just need to get the sex drive to another level. Step it up, do something different.

Answer 10

It varies. Sometimes as soon as you're married. Sometimes after the first baby. Usually within a few years. But maybe you'll be one of the lucky exceptions.