my guy broke up with his girlfriend of 6 years back in december, he still talks about her, but mostly bad stuff, his sister still has pictures of her that he recently found.. i understand she was in his life for 6 years but he talks about her often, he says he loves me and he would never go back to her cause she cheated on him, but i can't help but to wonder if he loves her still..sometimes he acts depressed, and listens to depressing music about broken hearts, whats his deal? any idea??
2007-06-28 19:37:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, he still loves her in some way,not saying he doesn't love you too.
2007-06-28 19:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can take a long time to get over someone. Even a cheating harlot will have had a significant impact over 6 years. He probably has no desire to go back to her. But he may have given everything he had to this woman for 6 years and it having a hard time accepting that she didn't feel the same way all that time.
I wouldn't worry about it too much if that all there is to it. If he starts calling her, or speaking fondly of her regularly, then you may want to nip that in the bud.
2007-06-29 02:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop being a weenie. Sometimes things happen and that's it. There is no going back. Getting depress wont help. You should tell him that it really bothers you that he still thinks about her. Maybe u shouldn't be with him because he needs to move on and if he hasn't you are just wasting your time. Even if he really missed his ex, He shouldn't be talking about her or crying about her anymore. She is the past. your the present.
2007-06-29 02:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by 50pesos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 years is a long time. It may be a long time before he fully loses all his feelings for her. When he gets like that, cheer him up. Show him that you're better than the person who cheated on him. Let him see that you want to be with him and just him. If he starts getting down, try to do something fun with him. He'll like that, I think.
2007-06-29 02:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does still love her and doesn't realize that you can't go back. Even if he wanted to, he couldn't. The depression probably comes from hurt that he feels - that doesn't go away just because he is with you. But it probably eventually will and when it does, if you love him, plan to be around.
2007-06-29 02:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just listens to the music because it's good music. Or, he wants you to know that he does not want to be heart broken again (meaning that you should never cheat on him). He wants you to understand how sad he feels about his ex and wants you to forbid yourself from becoming one. If it bothers you, then tell him.
2007-06-29 02:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by yz90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask the question then he most probably still does love her. We tend to ignore our own instincts because they don't tell us what we want to hear or they are too painful. Listen to your heart. He still loves her and would get with her if she would!
2007-06-29 02:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by David T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he needs to have respect for you and your relationship and stop talking about her when you are around or better yet, if he would cut the cord between him and her and invest his thoughts in you.
2007-06-29 02:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by Trollkepr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he prbly stil loves her but he's with you now, but he's prbly bitter i think(6 years is a long tym but i believe when it's really over then you have nothing to worry about he'll soon get over it)
she'll soon be out of his system
2007-06-29 02:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by cry baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont wann hurt u but looks like hez still recovring from his ex .....well its natural they been together for 6ys ......so give him time , well try and have great mind blowing sex that should do the trick :)
2007-06-29 02:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by roli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋