I think my fiancé is not trust me. The thing is i have ex boyfriends and we are hung out most of the time and he is not confinable. Actually he is out of the town for while. He is calling me more then 3 times a day and he is asking me where are you and with who. I told him that we friends and he told me to stop see them what should I have to do.
2007-06-28 20:08:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not trusting now is a really bad sign..you are in for a whole life of this if you go foward with your plans. I would suggest no wedding and find someone else.
2007-06-28 20:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by beth l 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Use spell check.
2) Try to learn the use of grammar in the English language.
3) Your Fiance is the one with the problem, he is un-trusting of you because he loves you and doesn't want to get hurt. Has he been hurt in the past?
Also why the Heck would you "hang out" with ex boyfriends?
You are giving him reason to suspect you. I would do the same I I were him!
Out of town and fiance "hanging out" with her ex's!... Hmmmmm Fishy in more than one way....
Stop seeing the ex's and all may be well, but if he is still like it then try as I say, and talk to him.
Talk to him about it, or you will be entering into a marriage racked with problems.
2007-06-28 20:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get over himself, you're engaged to him, not your ex. I hang out with my ex-boyfriends all the time, a few of them are my best friends. You're not doing anything wrong, just spending time with old friends. I think he's slightly paranoid, which makes me wonder if his conscience is clear or if he's hiding something and using reverse psycology to place his guilt on you. Either that or he loves you very much and is just slightly worried because he doesn't want to use you.
You might want to sit down and talk to him about it. Reassure him that you love HIM and not your ex. You're with HIM and not your ex. I hope this helped some :)
2007-06-28 20:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by tkdxdancer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Would you let him hang out with his ex-girlfriends while you were out of town.. If you love him and want things to work I would say Try your best to keep away from the ex's!!
2007-06-28 20:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by DJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop hanging out with ex boyfriends. You are promised to someone, and that includes emotionally. You are not being fair to him. Hang out with the girls, be alone, or break off the engagement.
2007-06-28 20:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
will you be comfortable if he is still hanging out with his exs....? you mentioned (boyfriend"s"). Its a shame that you cant keep your man satisfied.
2007-06-28 20:16:22 · answer #6 · answered by Just Ordinary. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
way too demanding . if u liked to be controlled then stay otherwise run while you can
2007-06-28 20:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him jealousy isn't good he's not gonna get better
2007-06-28 20:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋